The Death of Culture & The Great Filter

In this episode of The Dying Gasp, Patrick shifts focus from the deeply personal "endings" of the individual to the broader, systemic "endings" of society itself. Recording through a period of personal physical struggle, Patrick explores the "Death of Culture" and whether humanity is currently facing its own "Great Filter."

Drawing on his time in the Navy and his travels across all 50 states, Patrick contrasts different global mindsets—from guilt-based internal moral compasses to the outward-facing cultures of shame. He dives deep into the concept of Wu Wei (effortless action) and Dunbar’s Number, arguing that our departure from small, accountable tribes is the root of modern societal decay.

• The Personal vs. The Universal: Moving between individual interludes of self-reflection and a broader analysis of Western civilization.

• The Philosophy of the Stream: Why "going with the flow" isn't for dead fish, but about active participation in the natural order of life and death.

• The Empathy Debate: A critique of modern tolerance and the "laziness" that prevents us from standing up against true cruelty and narcissism.

• Dunbar’s Number & Super-Groups: Why humans aren't biologically wired for large-scale agriculture and mass societies, and a potential path forward through "Super-Dunbar" groups.

• The Fermi Paradox & The Great Filter: A sobering look at whether overpopulation and environmental destruction are the inevitable end-points for advanced civilizations.

Patrick’s Parting Thought: "Be the best version of yourself without lying to yourself, then hold that standard to your society. Call out the wrongdoing and take stock of your place in the ecosystem."

In this episode of The Dying Gasp, Patrick tackles one of the most controversial and profound topics regarding endings: the decision to end things on our own terms. Moving away from the abstract, he explores what it means to "leave the party" early and the deeply personal motivations behind that choice.

Patrick breaks down the complexities of this decision, distinguishing between those who have found peace with their timeline and those who feel it is their only escape from current suffering. With raw honesty, he shares his own experiences with these thoughts and offers a perspective rooted in empathy rather than judgment.

"If you're going to make up a story, why not make up a good one?"

In this second episode of The Dying Gasp, Patrick explores the "absolute ending" not as a weight, but as a release. Moving away from the social habit of viewing death as "heavy," he reflects on the liberating process of getting his affairs in order and the newfound freedom that comes when a party is nearing its end.

From the "plank length" of subatomic physics to the vast mysteries of dark matter and reincarnation, we look at life as a mosaic—a self-portrait we paint one snapshot at a time. Whether you find comfort in the idea of rest or the hope of a "grand new adventure," this episode invites you to reconsider the story you tell yourself about what lies at the next station.

Everything ends. The question is: what comes after?

Join your host Patrick for The Dying Gasp, an unscripted, raw exploration of endings in all their forms—from the personal shifts in health and identity to the cultural and technological sunsets we face together. Born from Patrick’s own health journey and a desire to find meaning in the "raw and open truth," this podcast is part meditation, part therapy, and part hopeful dialogue.

Whether we are discussing the end of a life stage, the death of a system, or the mystery of what lies beyond, this is a space to think deeply, embrace the "scary things," and realize that you aren't alone in the quiet.