Michael Clary and Wade Thomas of Christ the King Church in Fort Thomas, Kentucky, discuss raising and educating boys and girls in distinctly masculine and feminine ways, tied to an upcoming free Saturday seminar on “Gendered education, raising Boys to be Boys and Girls to be Girls.” They argue that moving from public school to homeschool or Christian school is not automatically a solution, because the home must intentionally cultivate masculine and feminine virtues rather than producing an androgynous outcome. Wade describes a concern that some conservative homeschool and classical Christian settings raise boys and girls toward identical goals—often modeled on high-achieving professional outcomes—rather than toward differentiated male and female callings.They contend that even without explicit ideology, conservative Christian homes can unintentionally absorb modern assumptions (e.g., career-first aspirations for girls, reluctance about early marriage), leading to husbands and wives whose daily lives are largely indistinguishable. The episode closes by encouraging listeners to read and trust the Bible’s vision of manhood and womanhood and to intentionally point boys and girls toward those respective directions.

01:21 Why This Episode: Raising & Educating Boys and Girls + Seminar Plug

04:39 Homeschooling’s Hidden Trap: Raising Boys and Girls to the Same End

08:43 The Gender-Neutral Preschool Example (Sweden) and What It Reveals

12:14 How Androgyny Sneaks into Conservative Christian Homes

20:10 Core Thesis: God Made Boys and Girls on Purpose

21:20 Different Callings at Scale: Filling vs. Forming, Homemaking vs. Provision

29:12 Why “Who Made the Sandwich” Matters: The Power of Motherly Presence

36:30 Modern Schooling Rewards Girls: Compliance Culture and the Boy Problem

46:22 Celebrate Both Sexes at Home (Don’t Swing into Woman-Hating)

48:55 Make Domestic Work Honorable and Beautiful for Your Daughters

49:17 The Eternal Value of Homemaking (Cookies, Sourdough, and Gratitude)

50:13 Raising Daughters with Feminine Skills & Future Marriage Prospects

51:32 Let Boys Take Risks: Courage, Responsibility, and Real Faith

54:42 Boundaries for Rambunctious Boys: The ‘Holy Chuck E. Cheese’ Church Example

56:27 Teaching Toughness: Mistakes and Pain as ‘Tuition’ for Growth

59:12 Scripture on Men & Women: 1 Timothy 2 and a Home That Expects Male Leadership

01:04:58 What Should We Be Proud Of? 1 Timothy 5 and Revaluing Motherhood Over Career Status

01:09:13 Motherhood as Vocation: Eve, Mary, Hannah, Deborah, and God’s Design

01:13:11 Church History Wisdom: Clement of Alexandria on Manhood & Womanhood

01:20:38 Where the Church Went Wrong: Gender-Neutral Expectations & Delaying Marriage

01:22:42 Marrying Young (Wisely): Fertility, Formation, and Avoiding Needless Delay

01:31:31 Closing Hope: Raise Boys to Be Men and Girls to Be Women

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Resources mentioned in this episode

• Brookings Institution Article: “Boys Left Behind: Education Gender Gaps Across the US”

• CNN: “These Schools Want to Wipe Away Gender Stereotypes From an Early Age.”

  
  

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In this episode of the Current Reality podcast, hosts Michael Clary and Wade Thomas discuss the struggles of dealing with disappointment from a Christian perspective. They address how modern Christians can feel anchored in biblical reality while facing societal and personal pressures. The conversation covers different sources of disappointment, such as unmet career expectations, family issues, and the loss of unborn children. Highlighting four main truths, they encourage listeners to trust God's wisdom and sovereignty, reminding them that there is no alternate version of reality, and God’s plans are always good, even if they don't align with personal expectations. The episode emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, confronting sin appropriately, and the necessity of repentance to process feelings of disappointment healthily.

01:36 Dealing with Disappointment in 2026

04:48 Personal Stories of Disappointment

05:34 Michael's Journey and Reflections

15:07 Wade's Life and Career Challenges

30:20 Four Truths for the Disappointed Christian

40:09 The Best of All Possible Worlds

42:43 Human Agency vs. Divine Plan

44:14 Finding Comfort in Suffering

46:51 Personal Disappointments and God's Plan

59:49 The Unpredictable Future

01:07:52 Dealing with Sin and Disappointment

01:15:45 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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In this episode of the Current Reality podcast, Michael Clary and Wade Thomas discuss Wade’s five hopes for Christmas and New Year's 2026. The episode delves into the importance of reversing the declining birth rate, the need for noble heroes, a call for grassroots interrogation of Roman Catholic teachings, and the encouragement for Christians to read the Bible more. The discussion also touches upon the desire to end the Star Wars franchise. The hosts blend humor and serious conversation about the cultural and biblical values they hold dear.

00:26 Christmas Traditions and Personal Anecdotes

01:24 Wade's Christmas Hopes and New Year's Resolutions

03:35 Discussion on Birth Rate Decline

07:05 Cultural and Societal Implications of Population Trends

16:25 The Value of Children and Family in Modern Society

29:24 The Joy of Family and Parenting

30:45 Reflecting on Frazier and Parenthood

33:04 Noble Heroes for 2026

34:13 Critiquing Modern Role Models

36:11 A Call for Christian Heroes

41:06 Grassroots Interrogation of Catholic Teachings

47:47 The Importance of Reading the Bible

56:49 The End of the Star Wars Franchise

For questions or comments, send us an email at currentrealitypodcast@gmail.com.

Our church is Christ the King Church in Ft. Thomas, KY

The Current Reality Podcast is a resource of King's Domain

Follow us on Twitter

https://twitter.com/dmichaelclary

https://twitter.com/wadethomasjr

Michael's Book "God's Good Design" is now available everywhere

• God's Good Design: A Biblical, Theological, and Practical Guide to Human Sexuality

  
  

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• www.dmichaelclary.com