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  • You Either Manage Change or It Manages You: Richard H. Carson on how change actually works
    Oct 20 2026

    Every organization employs someone whose job is to clean up after disasters. Almost none employs someone whose job is to see change coming. Richard H. Carson, PhD — 40-year veteran of county governments, regional planning agencies, nonprofits, and the state of Oregon — argues that this one asymmetry explains most of why organizations lurch between crises instead of adapting. In this conversation, Richard walks through what he learned across four decades of running the kind of organizations most people only complain about.

    Richard holds a doctorate in change management and has spent his career inside the organizations academics write books about — county governments in Oregon, Clark County, regional planning bodies, nonprofits, and large private-sector stakeholders including Japanese industrial investors. He has studied every major change management model published since Kurt Lewin founded the field in 1947. His book, available at bookofchange.com, is the culmination of that work: a three-phase, ten-step model built on a diagnostic tool he adapted from the US National Institute of Health.


    In this conversation, Richard unpacks why learning to listen is the single hardest skill for ambitious leaders — a lesson that started, embarrassingly, with his own wife — and how he once found an organization where the manager was making people report their activities in 15-minute increments. He walks through why most of the major change management models published since 1947 are “consultant loss leaders” rather than real frameworks, why the real problem in most change initiatives sits with the board or the CEO who commissioned them, and why every organization needs a change manager — a proactive counterpart to the risk manager — looking over the horizon. He talks about why you don’t want yes-people around you, how to be direct across cultures (he spent years learning this with Japanese investors), and why “don’t leave fingerprints” is one of the hardest lessons leaders in high-visibility roles have to learn. He closes on what he got wrong in his 30s and the first thing a leader should do when a change initiative is quietly managing them instead of the other way around.


    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [00:57] The lesson Richard learned from his wife — “I want you to listen”
    [02:26] The manager who had people report in 15-minute increments
    [03:49] Why change management hasn’t changed since 1947
    [05:30] Richard’s 3-phase, 10-step model
    [06:24] The nonprofit board that was itself the problem
    [07:48] Why you don’t want yes-people around you
    [10:24] Risk manager vs change manager — the asymmetry nobody notices
    [12:40] Keep a low profile — “don’t leave fingerprints”
    [14:36] Why 70% of change initiatives fail
    [18:00] Change management in government vs private sector
    [20:20] Why leaders have to get out of the office
    [23:30] Working with Japanese stakeholders — directness across cultures
    [25:08] Diagnosing organizations like physicians diagnose patients
    [27:48] What Richard got wrong in his 30s
    [30:45] What to do when change is managing you instead


    Guest & show links:

    Richard H. Carson, PhD on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-h-carson-phd-mpa-7030b213/
    Book of Change: https://bookofchange.com
    In Parallel: https://www.in-parallel.com
    Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

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    33 min
  • You Can't Fix Culture With a Mission Statement: Adam Christing on humor as leadership
    Oct 6 2026

    Most companies describe culture as a statement — values, mission, bios on a wall. Adam Christing — professional master of ceremonies, founder of Clean Comedians, and author of The Laughter Factor — argues that culture is actually a feeling, something you can walk into a room and sense within seconds. And the fastest shortcut to shifting it, he says, isn't a new mission statement or offsite. It's humor — used by leaders who understand that we feel before we think.

    Adam has spent more than 30 years in corporate rooms as an emcee, keynote speaker, and comedian. He has delivered more than 4,000 humor presentations across Fortune 1000 companies, runs the Clean Comedians agency, and knows over a hundred professional comedians (most of them, he says, deeply serious people). His book The Laughter Factor is the result of decades of experimenting with how humor actually shifts a room — and what leaders get wrong when they try to be the funniest person at the table instead of the orchestrator of fun.

    In this conversation, Adam unpacks why culture is an experience rather than a statement, why the root word of "culture" is "cult" (a shared association around a leader), and why the root word of "humor" is "human." He walks through what he does when he walks into a boardroom and feels something is off, why self-effacing humor is a shortcut to trust, and why leaders don't need to be funny — they need to be the orchestrator of fun, the conductor who puts the spotlight on their team. He shares the dad-jokes-on-3x5-cards exercise he runs with Fortune 1000 teams, the three things never to joke about (politics, prejudice, profanity), and his "if in doubt, leave it out" rule. He closes on AI: why the real danger isn't replacement, it's losing participation — the actual thing humor creates — and the one thing every leader should do this week to shift the culture of their team.

    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [01:20] Walking into a boardroom and feeling the culture before you see it
    [02:06] "We feel before we think" — culture as experience
    [03:42] The root of "culture" is "cult"
    [04:47] What a master of ceremonies actually does
    [07:37] Humor + heart = authenticity
    [09:15] Self-effacing humor as a shortcut to trust
    [11:47] The root of "humor" is "human"
    [14:00] You don't have to be funny — be the orchestrator of fun
    [18:30] The dad-jokes-on-3x5-cards exercise
    [20:27] Politics, prejudice, profanity — three to avoid
    [23:06] Test your humor like a marketer
    [26:13] The danger with AI — losing participation
    [28:30] The one thing to do this week — hook their attention

    Guest & show links:

    Adam Christing on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-christing/
    The Laughter Factor + Laugh Language quiz: https://thelaughterfactor.com
    Clean Comedians: https://cleancomedians.com
    In Parallel: https://www.in-parallel.com
    Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

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    32 min
  • Urgency Isn't Leadership. It's Addiction: Jennifer Recla on the mindset breaking your team
    Sep 22 2026

    Every leader is quietly passing an addiction on to their team — the addiction to urgency. Jennifer Recla — leadership coach who's worked with hundreds of leaders across nonprofits, mission-driven organizations, and large financial institutions — argues that most of what feels like a "busy" workday isn't a workload problem at all. It's a mindset problem. And most leaders have no idea how much of the chaos in their teams they're personally creating.

    Jennifer has spent her career coaching leaders across nonprofits, smaller organizations, and larger institutions to build sustainable schedules, healthier team dynamics, and clearer communication. Her clients typically come to her exhausted — working nights and weekends, drowning in emails, without time to think about strategy or develop the people around them. She's built diagnostic tools like the urgency mindset index to help leaders see where they land on the spectrum and how to move.

    In this conversation, Jennifer unpacks why the single behavior driving organizational chaos isn't a behavior at all — it's a mindset. She walks through the urgency mindset spectrum (low urgency → strong urgency → urgency addiction), why emails and notifications are the biggest hidden time suck, and why a healthy leader has to consciously leave some work for others to pick up. She reframes managing up as a two-way skill — how helping your leader uncover what they actually mean strengthens trust rather than eroding it, and why doing it too often signals a bigger problem. She shares what mission-driven organizations get right about values and relationships that bigger companies quietly abandon. She closes on AI: why it won't replace people, why leaders now need to ramp up their people skills instead of scaling them down, and the three things every leader who creates clarity actually does — ending with the four questions every leader should ask their team this week.

    📥 Download the Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [00:58] Why leaders create chaos — mindset, not behavior
    [01:27] The urgency mindset — what it actually looks like
    [02:36] The first diagnostic — audit your workload
    [04:22] Why emails and notifications are the biggest time suck
    [06:31] The urgency mindset index — where do you land?
    [08:04] Side effects when the team can't read the leader
    [10:07] Managing up as a two-way skill
    [12:58] What smaller and mission-driven organizations get right
    [16:38] AI won't replace people — why you need MORE people skills now
    [17:55] Three things a leader who creates clarity does
    [19:19] The four questions to ask your team this week

    Guest & show links:

    Jennifer Recla on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferrecla/
    Website: https://www.jenrecla.com/
    In Parallel: https://www.in-parallel.com
    Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

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    21 min
  • HR Is the Last Line of Defense Against Chaos: Barry Wolfe on value-centric leadership
    Sep 15 2026


    Most organizations run on a fiction — that job descriptions describe jobs, that OKRs measure value, that personality tests reveal something real. Barry Wolfe — HR consultant and author of It's All in Your Head — argues that HR is the last line of defense against the chaos this creates, and that the actual foundation of a well-run company is one document, under 300 words, that answers two questions almost nobody bothers to ask.


    Barry has spent decades working with HR leaders and business owners to help them build organizations where every role has a clear connection to the value the business creates. His book It's All in Your Head: Why Psychology Doesn't Help Your Employees Deliver Value — and What Can is the culmination of a two-year deep dive into the science, and often the pseudo-science, behind the tools HR uses every day. He is the creator of the value-centric leadership framework and runs Argos HR.

    In this conversation, Barry unpacks why HR is the last line of defense against organizational chaos, why OKRs quietly stop at "deliverables" instead of value, and why every role in a company should have 3-5 clear value outcomes — or be reconsidered entirely. He walks through the surprising history of the DISC personality test (invented by William Moulton Marston, the Harvard psychologist who also created Wonder Woman) and explains why business owners buy pseudo-science: they're not really paying for the tests, they're paying for easy answers to hard questions. He introduces the Same Page — a document of fewer than 300 words that should be readable by a machine operator and a CEO alike, and should be the basis of everything the organization does. He closes on AI: why he's sceptical of the "killer robots" narrative, why LLMs cannot write your same page for you, and the one question every leader should reflect on this week.


    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [01:08] HR as the last line of defense against chaos
    [04:00] The first signs HR isn't doing its job
    [05:34] Why OKRs stop short of actual value
    [08:03] The two questions every leader must answer
    [10:06] Why every role needs 3-5 value outcomes
    [14:10] The strange history of the DISC test (and Wonder Woman)
    [17:20] Why business owners keep buying pseudo-science
    [18:09] The Same Page — a 300-word document that runs everything
    [21:13] Whether AI will actually replace jobs
    [23:16] Why AI can't tell you what your same page is
    [29:35] The one reflection every leader should do this week

    Guest & show links:

    Barry Wolfe on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/barryrwolfe/
    It's All in Your Head on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Its-All-Your-Head-Psychology-ebook/dp/B0FD84SNGG
    Argos HR: https://www.argoshr.com/
    In Parallel: https://www.in-parallel.com
    Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

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    34 min
  • You Can't Sword-Fight a Bullet: Alberto Torres on surviving disruption
    Sep 8 2026


    Every disruption looks like a peace-time problem until the swordsman meets the bullet. Alberto Torres — former Nokia executive, ex-McKinsey partner, and author of The Z Curve — sat inside one of the most famous corporate collapses of the last two decades. In this conversation he walks through what actually happened at Nokia, why great peace-time leaders quietly fail in war-time, and what every company facing AI right now should learn from the companies that got disruption right (and the ones that didn't).

    Alberto has spent his career at the sharp end of disruption. He joined Nokia in 2009 as part of the leadership team trying to turn the ship around, ran Vertu (Nokia's luxury phone business) and the accessories group before that, and later held roles at Opera, Bang & Olufsen, and Adobe, where he now works. Before Nokia he was a partner at McKinsey. His book The Z Curve was written to give managers facing disruption today — especially around AI — a more aggressive playbook for surviving it.

    In this conversation, Alberto unpacks why Stephen Elop wasn't the only culprit in Nokia's collapse, why empowerment is the right leadership model in peace-time and the wrong one in disruption, why "you don't get radical action by averaging opinions," and why the people who vote for continuity are always right — until they're not. He walks through his S-curve/Z-curve framework for reading a disruption in real time, the sword-vs-bullet metaphor at the heart of the book, and the two companies (Adobe and Netflix) that got self-disruption right by cannibalising their own successful business. He closes on AI: why he thinks it's the next internet-scale disruption, why "the winners will be picked in the next few years," and the one thing every leader should do this week if they suspect their company is at the start of a Z-curve.

    📥 Download the Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report


    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [01:26] Stephen Elop wasn't the only culprit — an insider view of Nokia's collapse
    [04:57] Why organizations live in split reality
    [07:12] The swordsman and the bullet
    [10:16] Peace-time leadership vs war-time leadership
    [10:57] 400 beautiful hardware models — and no software strategy
    [13:22] Joining Nokia in 2009
    [16:15] The S-curve theory and why we couldn't see it coming
    [19:55] Continuity voters, fatalists, and the muddled middle
    [25:36] Olli-Pekka Kallasvuo — the peace-time CEO
    [26:40] "You don't get radical action by averaging opinions"
    [27:00] The Z-curve — the ignored half of the S-curve
    [34:24] The Dreams framework — how Adobe transformed
    [38:15] Netflix cannibalising itself — how to disrupt yourself
    [40:07] AI is the next Nokia moment
    [46:02] What to do this week if you're facing disruption


    Guest & show links:

    Alberto Torres on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/torresalberto/
    The Z Curve on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Z-Curve-Alberto-Torres/dp/1917391676

    In Parallel: https://www.in-parallel.com
    Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report


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    49 min
  • Your Leadership Doesn't Know What's Going On: Olivia Montgomery on where decisions belong
    Sep 1 2026


    Every organization over 20 people has the same instinct: when things get harder, add layers, add meetings, add controls. Olivia Montgomery — principal analyst at Data Frame and former Gartner researcher — argues that every layer up the org chart actually knows less about what's really going on, not more. And the fix isn't more visibility for leadership. It's pushing decisions down two or three levels, to an uncomfortable place.

    Olivia has spent more than a decade researching how project management, PMOs, and organizational design actually work — first at Gartner, now at Data Frame. Her research has consistently shown that formal PMOs improve project delivery and success, that emotional intelligence in project leaders correlates with better outcomes, and that most "coordination fixes" companies deploy are quietly making things worse.

    In this conversation, Olivia unpacks why leadership's perception of clarity is almost always wrong, what the Monday-morning test looks like for teams that are actually clear on what they own, why mixing meeting types (status vs. brainstorm vs. decision) is one of the most common quiet destroyers of time, and the simple first test to apply to any meeting or process: is this alleviating uncertainty? She walks through her Gartner-era research on why PMOs work, why emotional intelligence in project leaders isn't a soft skill but a measurable performance driver, and why AI tools built for engagement are silently eating the productivity gains their vendors promise. She closes on the one thing every leader should do this week: identify the decisions that require the most meetings, and ask honestly why the team doing the work can't make them.

    📥 Download the Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [01:08] Meetings and tools aren't the problem — misuse is
    [02:26] Nokia — every layer up knew less
    [04:19] Push decisions down two or three levels
    [05:59] The Monday-morning clarity test
    [07:25] Stop mixing meeting types
    [11:32] The first test: is this alleviating uncertainty?
    [13:37] Why PMOs actually work — the Gartner research
    [18:41] Emotional intelligence in project leaders — 10 years of data
    [22:57] Why a strict KPI focus creates dishonesty
    [25:40] AI tools are designed to keep you talking
    [30:55] Companies need a conscious AI vision, not a vendor-driven one
    [32:23] "You built a tool for yourself" — the product-research problem
    [35:21] Closing advice — the one thing to do this week

    Guest & show links:

    Olivia Montgomery on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olivia-montgomery/
    Data Frame: https://dataframe.consulting/
    In Parallel: https://www.in-parallel.com — we build the shared context layer for teams. Try our AI notetaker for free.

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    37 min
  • ou Don't Get to Be the Rock Star Anymore: Craig Denison on the founder's hardest transition
    Aug 24 2026

    Every founder hits the moment when execution stops running through their brain. The systems that got them here don't work anymore, but the founder is still the bottleneck. Craig Denison — head of growth at The Table Group (Patrick Lencioni's firm) and founder of Green Thumb Consulting — walks through what actually breaks in the "getting organized" stage, and why 99% of the time, the founder is the one creating the dysfunction they're trying to fix.

    Craig runs growth for Patrick Lencioni and the Table Group, co-owns a floral design business with his wife, and through Green Thumb Consulting helps founders through the transition William Bridges called getting organized — the stage after you've launched a venture but before you've built an institution. Before consulting, Craig ran a 50-person business as CEO and lived the shift he now walks his clients through.

    In this conversation, Craig unpacks why founders create the very dysfunction they blame their teams for, how team cohesion (in Lencioni's 5-dysfunctions frame) is the actual foundation execution sits on, and why honesty is a shortcut to almost every problem teams try to solve with more infrastructure. He walks through his own hardest founder moment — realizing everyone on his executive team was better at their function than he was, and having to grieve the loss of being "the rock star" — and how that reframe from how good am I to how effective are these people around me changed the whole job. He closes on the two practices every founder should run: fighting about what's right for the company rather than who's right, and the last-ten-minutes-of-the-meeting discipline that fixes most commitment and accountability failures.

    📥 Download the Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [00:45] The founder-as-bottleneck moment
    [02:34] What "getting organized" actually means
    [05:07] Monday morning when the founder isn't essential
    [06:30] Team cohesion and the five dysfunctions
    [09:15] Why honesty saves you from building unnecessary infrastructure
    [12:45] "I don't get to be the rock star anymore" — the founder's identity shift
    [15:39] Diagnostics — when it's time to get organized
    [18:06] Productive conflict — fighting about what's right, not who's right
    [23:00] Why committed C-level players beat uncommitted A+ players
    [25:51] 99% of the time, the founder is the problem
    [27:25] The last-ten-minutes-of-the-meeting discipline

    Guest & show links:

    Craig Denison on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigdenison/
    Green Thumb Consulting: https://www.greenthumb.consulting/
    The Table Group (Patrick Lencioni): https://www.tablegroup.com
    Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

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    31 min
  • You Don't Have a Training Problem: Dr. Christy Vanorsdale on the L&D order-taker trap
    Aug 18 2026

    Companies are spending more on training than ever. So why does execution keep getting worse?

    Dr. Christy Vanorsdale — founder of Vanorsdale Learning Lab, cognitive multimedia learning researcher, and fractional Chief Learning Officer — explains why L&D keeps solving the wrong problems, and what happens when you treat it as a strategic partner instead of an order taker.

    Christy has spent 15 years dragging L&D out of order-taker mode and into being a strategic partner for business. She holds a doctorate in cognitive multimedia learning and today runs Vanorsdale Learning Lab, working with mid-market scaleups and B2C training companies to redesign their learning ecosystems from the ground up.


    In this conversation, Christy walks through why most L&D teams get treated as content-makers rather than strategic partners — and why that misdiagnosis quietly costs companies. She unpacks the "order taker" problem, the trap of promoting subject-matter experts into training roles when they lack a background in how people actually learn, why working memory is limited in space AND time (and why the "make it TikTok-length" fallacy is wrong), how to measure L&D effectiveness through business goals rather than completion rates, and the true story of the IT specialists who were "failing at product knowledge" — until she went and asked them, and it turned out the real problem was they'd never been trained on the customers on the other end of the phone. She closes on the discovery process every L&D leader should run before designing a single module.

    📥 Download the Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

    CHAPTERS

    [00:00] Cold open + intro
    [00:57] The "order taker" problem
    [03:21] The subject-matter expert trap
    [08:44] Working memory — limited in space and time
    [13:21] The TikTok fallacy
    [16:02] Why L&D isn't at the strategy table
    [19:59] L&D as the translator across organizational silos
    [20:47] When an emerging scaleup should engage L&D
    [22:22] How to actually measure L&D working
    [26:00] The IT specialists story — a real misdiagnosis
    [29:55] The discovery process every L&D leader should run

    Guest & show links:

    Dr. Christy Vanorsdale on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christievanorsdale-learning/
    Vanorsdale Learning Lab: https://www.vanorsdalelearninglab.com/services
    Coordination Tax Index 2026: https://www.in-parallel.com/coordination-tax/#report

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    33 min