Should you pay your kids an allowance for doing their chores?

This week on the Collide Kids Podcast, host Christen Clark sits down with Dr. Stephen Day—economics professor, author, and Christian dad—for an energetic and practical discussion on raising Christian kids who are confident with money, generous in spirit, and purposeful in their spending and saving. Discover how to create “mini economies” at home, teach your children to save in meaningful ways, and use ordinary chores to spark spiritual growth and discipleship in your family.

Resources:

• drstephenday.com
• Book: Teach a Kid to Save
• @_paperrobots
• Website: collidekidspodcast.com
• Instagram: @collidekidspod

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Teaching Kids About Value

"So it's not just about bugging the parents for screen time. It's about, you know, do I want to save up to get something better later, like a toy, or do I want to spend my money on screen time now?"

— Stephen Day [00:09:18 → 00:09:30]

Building Lifelong Habits

Quote: "changing your habits can be a little bit intimidating, but kids need to start setting different habits, and it starts with the family practice together so that it's not just deciding at the last second, do we buy this, do we buy that? No, like, you have plans ahead of time. And you're a little more intentional about what you do. And I think the kids carry those habits on into adulthood. I know I did."

— Stephen Day [00:09:50 → 00:10:11]

The Importance of Skill in Chores

"What I find is that chores work better when there is some skill involved. That's something parents often miss."

— Stephen Day [00:10:43 → 00:10:49]

Teaching Kids Responsibility

"You can, right, have categories where you say this work is family work, you do it because it's your responsibility, and this work is your job and you do it because, because kids need to learn the connection between work and money and their choices. It's a, it's a teaching thing."

— Stephen Day [00:12:12 → 00:12:27]

Parenting Hack

"When you're trying to teach your children, involve them, and it'll take longer at first because they're learning their skill, but over time they're able to do it, and that can be part of their household job that they get paid for."

— Stephen Day [00:14:14 → 00:14:26]

Teaching Kids About Money Management

"The first fruit of everything that we make goes to God. Next, we had to save, you know, and you can either have the kids save for a goal or you can have them save a certain percentage."

— Stephen Day [00:17:32 → 00:17:41]

Training Kids to Avoid Impulse Buying

"I want to take away their ability to do impulse buys when they're a small child because they're still developing control of their impulses. And so they need to get those habits that all good spending is planned spending."

— Stephen Day [00:22:02 → 00:22:17]

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What if your family could discover new purpose and spiritual growth this Lent by wondering together about the Easter story?

On this episode of the Collide Kids Podcast, host Christen Clark sits down with Vanessa Myers, children's minister, author, and founder of Family Faith Builders, for an inspiring conversation about raising Christian kids, faith at home, and meaningful family time during Lent. Vanessa shares practical ways families can build discipleship, nurture spiritual growth, and live out their faith—plus, insight into her latest devotional that invites kids and parents to dive deeper and wonder through the Easter story.

Resources:

• familyfaithbuilders.org
• Wondering to Jerusalem on Amazon
• Website: collidekidspodcast.com
• Instagram: @collidekidspod

*Special thanks to our editor Jay Lee from provisionpods.com!

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Empowering Families to Live Out Their Faith: "That's what my heart is for, is for families, moms and dads, grandparents, whoever, you know, at home to spend time together in the word, praying together and talking and living out their faith, you know."

— Vanessa Myers [00:03:32 → 00:03:42]

Using Imagination to Explore Historical Stories: "God doesn't give us, He doesn't always give us all the details of things. So I help kids use their wonder and imagination and thinking more about the story...

— Vanessa Myers [00:10:36 → 00:10:55]

Why Did People Recline at the Table?: "When I was doing my research, you know, they [reclined at the table to eat]. They really embraced the Roman style of dining because they were under the Roman rule at that time in history. And so Romans, you know, set up long tables, low, long tables, and they reclined like this, you know, so like with their feet facing away. And just that really was interesting to me."

— Vanessa Myers [00:12:22 → 00:13:03]

Viral Topic Title: Lent Sacrifices and Their True Purpose

Quote: "It's not just giving up and, oh, I'm gonna give up this food because I wanna lose weight, you know, or whatever. Like, it's really taking that sacrifice and focusing it on the Word and reading the Word, you know? So that's what I tell kids. It's not just giving up something for fun."

— Vanessa Myers [00:18:05 → 00:18:20]

Title: The Most Important Decision

One of my favorite parts about the book at the end is really helping them to understand what it means to make the greatest decision of their life, and that's to follow Jesus, and what that looks like, and why it's important, and how to live that out.

— Vanessa Myers [00:19:40 → 00:20:00]

Viral Topic – Nostalgic Easter Traditions: "We would walk to church every Sunday, Easter Sunday morning. And we would come home and we'd have our big Easter meal, which consisted of pot roast and potatoes and carrots. And everybody had their own seat. Cousins, aunts, uncles, we all were there. I just remember those, the egg hunts that we had at the church."

— Vanessa Myers [00:21:59 → 00:22:16]

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What if God could use creativity in your family to spark faith, purpose, and discipleship in your everyday life?

On this episode of the Collide Kids Podcast, host Christen Clark sits down with legendary animator, writer, and pastor Butch Hartman—creator of The Fairly OddParents, Danny Phantom, and most recently, The Garden Cartoon. Hear how Butch’s journey from a chaotic childhood to Hollywood success and Christian parenting led him to inspire families through cartoons.

Resources:

• Show: gardencartoon.com
• Website: butchhartmanstudies.com
• Instagram: @butchhartman
• Website: collidekidspodcast.com
• Instagram: @collidekidspod

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Kids’ Cartoons and Faith: "And the Garden Cartoon teaches kids all about the Bible and Jesus Christ. And it's like, I looked at the Christian marketplace and I realized that there's some cool cartoons out there, but there's not enough."

— Butch Hartman [00:04:15 → 00:04:24]

Nostalgic TV Moments: "So if I used to love the Charlie Brown Christmas special and things like that, but if they only showed it once a year, you had to be right in front of that TV when it came on and you couldn't see it anyway."

— Butch Hartman [00:06:32 → 00:06:41]

Imposter Syndrome in the Animation Industry

"I got to the animation world and everybody is incredible. Like, my gosh, I could never, how do these people do this? So I, I either had two choices. I could run away or I could stay."

— Butch Hartman [00:08:40 → 00:08:50]

Viral Topic: The True Meaning Behind "Apple of My Eye": "What it means is you're so close to someone, you could see your own reflection in their eye."

— Butch Hartman [00:10:05 → 00:10:11]

Viral Origins of Fairly OddParents: "If I could just create my own show, I would have a job, right? So I came up with a show about a little boy, uh, who had two fairy godparents, and I sold it to Nickelodeon as one cartoon, one episode."

— Butch Hartman [00:15:13 → 00:15:24]

Hidden Christian Themes in Danny Phantom: "I love this show because there's a huge Christian theme running through it. You'll never see it when you watch the show unless you know what to look for. Danny's the light coming into the darkness and he's fighting all these, you know, A lot of Christians will miss out on fun stories sometimes. Oh, you can't watch that, they'll turn it off. Sometimes there might be a message in there you might want to see."

— Butch Hartman [00:15:39 → 00:15:57]

The Power of Christian Cartoons for Kids: "Had I had a Christian cartoon to watch at that time, I might have thought differently. I might have learned differently. I might have understood things differently and not let so many things scare me or upset me."

— Butch Hartman [00:19:03 → 00:19:13]

Viral Topic: The Power of Practice in Artistic Growth

"And by the way, All your drawings aren't going to be great, but as you get, as you practice, they're going to get better and they're going to, and they're, you're going to see improvement, but you got to practice."

— Butch Hartman [00:20:27 → 00:20:37]

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