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You can quote submission, attend church, and love Jesus… and still be walking in a spirit of rebellion inside your marriage. In this episode, Chelsey teaches the difference between biblical strength and counterfeit control, and how rebellion disguises itself as independence, “discernment,” or spiritual superiority. This episode will convict, clarify, and call you into the freedom of true surrender.

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"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

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If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

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Most wives don’t realize they’re doing it… but the way you speak to your husband may be slowly killing trust, intimacy, and connection. In this episode, Chelsey exposes how disrespect often hides behind “being honest,” “being the responsible one,” or “just telling the truth.” You’ll learn what Scripture says about the power of your words, why honor is not optional, and how to shift your tone without shrinking your voice.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here:
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Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
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This one is fire—literally and spiritually. If your marriage feels like it’s on its last leg, this episode is your wake-up call. I'm talking to the wife in crisis. The one holding on by a thread. The one feeling like she can’t do this anymore. What if the fire isn’t just here to destroy... but to refine?

In this raw and Spirit-filled episode, I walk you through:

• What to do when everything feels like it’s falling apart
• Why the fire might be a holy one
• How surrender is the beginning of transformation
• The hard truth about what won’t save your marriage
• And the only way to walk out of the ashes with authority, wholeness, and spiritual armor as ONE FLESH.

This is for the wife who’s ready to fight… God’s way.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here:
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Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

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This is the final episode of the 18-day Valentine’s series—and the moment of decision.

If this series stirred something in you, challenged old patterns, or awakened a hunger for deeper intimacy and alignment, this episode invites you to respond—not with effort, but with surrender.

Chelsey commissions wives to move from awareness into obedience, and shares why transformation requires more than insight—it requires Spirit-led structure, right order, and community.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why revelation always comes with an invitation
• The danger of awareness without action
• Why self-help cannot produce holiness
• How God uses order and discipleship to bring transformation
• What High Level Wife actually is—and who it’s for

This episode is not about doing more.
It’s about saying yes.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here:
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Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
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Many wives built emotional walls for good reasons—hurt, betrayal, disappointment, or exhaustion. But what once felt protective can quietly block intimacy, desire, and connection.

In this episode, Chelsey gently exposes the difference between biblical guarding and hardened walls, and why God never intended protection to cost you tenderness.

This episode will help you understand:

• How guarding turns into emotional walls over time
• Why walls block intimacy even when intentions are good
• The difference between wisdom and hardening
• How God softens the heart without removing discernment
• Why intimacy requires openness—not self-protection

If your heart feels closed, distant, or numb—even while “doing everything right”—this episode will help you return to softness without fear.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here:
ACCESS

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
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How do you guard your heart without turning intimacy into something tense, controlled, or exhausting?

In this episode, Chelsey clarifies a critical distinction many Christian wives miss: biblical guarding is not the same as control. While Scripture calls us to guard against the flesh, the world, and the enemy, guarding was never meant to replace trust in God—or become a form of fear-based management.

This episode teaches how to protect intimacy from a place of authority, peace, and right order—without hyper-vigilance, micromanaging, or emotional exhaustion.

Inside this episode:

• The difference between guarding and controlling
• Why fear-based vigilance damages intimacy
• How heart posture determines whether guarding brings peace or pressure
• What biblical stewardship actually looks like in marriage
• How to protect intimacy without becoming the Holy Spirit

If guarding your heart has started to feel heavy, anxious, or exhausting—this episode will reset your framework and restore peace.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here:
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Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
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What if marriage and intimacy were never meant to feel fragile?

In this episode, Chelsey unpacks a powerful biblical distinction most Christian wives have never been taught: God did not originally tell man and woman to guard the garden—He told them to rule it.

You’ll learn why dominion came before defense, how guarding became necessary only after the fall, and why starting from fear instead of authority quietly suffocates intimacy.

This episode reframes marriage through Eden’s original design and shows how Christ restores us to rule under God’s order—without anxiety, control, or performance.

Inside this episode:

• Why dominion came before guarding in God’s design
• How fear-based vigilance damages intimacy
• The difference between authority and control in marriage
• Why guarding is necessary now—but not foundational
• How restored order brings peace, softness, and fruitfulness back to intimacy

If intimacy feels tense, fragile, or over-managed—this episode will shift your framework and restore peace.

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here:
ACCESS

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
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Mom of 5, Army wife 16 years

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Valentine’s Day Isn’t About Romance — It’s About Invitation

In this special Valentine’s Day episode of the High Level Wife Podcast, Chelsey reframes intimacy through a covenant lens — revealing why connection thrives when a woman releases pressure and becomes invitation.

This episode is for wives who want deeper intimacy without striving, forcing, or proving — and who desire to experience connection God’s way.

Inside this episode:

• Why intimacy responds to safety, not demand
• How invitation creates connection
• The difference between testing love and trusting covenant
• What Valentine’s Day reveals about heart posture
• How to stay open even when expectations fall away

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Chelsey Holm | the Wife Coach
"I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

Ready for a next step?
If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here:
ACCESS

Looking for ongoing support?
Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here:
Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLW

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10+ years coaching experience
NASM-certified in Personal Training and Nutrition
Mom of 5, Army wife 16 years

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