In this solo episode of the Tell Her podcast, Sharni reflects on an unforgettable evening spent listening to live classical music and how it reminded her of all the hidden aspects of herself she has learned to embrace over the years.

From secret loves (like classical piano and quirky collections) to the courage it takes to enjoy things that don’t “fit the box,” this episode is an honest and calming reminder to follow your own joy, even if it looks different from everyone else’s.

Sharni also shares thoughts on the beauty of doing things alone, the power of choosing yourself in relationships, and why life is far too short to live for other people’s opinions.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide parts of yourself to fit in, this is your permission to let them shine.

✨ Highlights:

• Why it’s okay to love what you love — even if no one else understands
• How live music and theatre awaken something deep within
• The quiet power of doing things alone and “dating yourself”
• Learning to stop fitting into boxes and start embracing who you truly are
• Thoughts on relationships that allow you to grow rather than shrink

🔗 Listen now and let this episode inspire you to uncover, embrace, and enjoy the parts of you nobody sees yet.

00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast

00:13 Personal Update and Weekend Experience

01:01 Embracing Personal Joys and Hobbies

06:40 The Power of Solitude and Self-Discovery

08:35 The Importance of Individuality in Relationships

10:03 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON

I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.

As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.

✨ Connect with my work:

• Hair Loss & Wig Clinic → www.sharniknighton.co.uk
• Training Academy → www.sharniknightonacademy.com
• IntelliMESH Product Line → www.intellimesh.co.uk

✨ Follow on social:

• TikTok → @sharniknighton
• Podcast TikTok → @tell.her.podcast

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of the Tell Her podcast, Sharni sits down with her longest-standing client, an extraordinary woman now 87 years young who has truly lived through it all.

Together, they explore her deeply personal journey navigating life alongside her beloved husband Ken, who was diagnosed with dementia. She speaks candidly about the broken care system, nearly losing their home to afford care, and the emotional toll of advocating for someone you love.

But her story doesn’t stop there. She also takes us back to her childhood during World War II, sharing memories of rationing, evacuation, and the strength it took to grow up in such uncertain times.

This conversation is a powerful reflection on resilience, love, and the importance of community. And spoiler alert it ran so long (and was so full of giggles and bloopers!) that we had to split it into two parts. Stay tuned for part two!

00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast

00:16 Life on the Move: From Hull to Kent

01:25 Settling Down for the Kids

01:43 Meeting Ken: A Love Story

02:08 Navigating Early Marriage and Career

07:58 Facing Dementia: Ken's Diagnosis

16:08 Challenges of Caring for a Loved One

30:50 The Struggles with Social Services

33:53 Exploring Care Home Options

35:02 Financial Struggles and Assessments

36:18 Social Services and Housing Issues

38:36 Systemic Issues and Personal Experiences

49:40 Reflections on War and Rationing

58:27 Advocating for Dementia Care

01:05:37 Challenges of Aging and Socializing

01:08:52 Struggles with Weekends

01:09:25 Coping with Loneliness

01:11:52 Cooking and Socializing

01:16:15 Reflections on Life and Regrets

01:22:11 Challenges with Dementia Care

01:27:57 Advocating for Better Care

01:40:00 Concluding Thoughts

🧠 What is Dementia?

• Alzheimer’s Association gives a comprehensive definition and explanation: “Dementia is a general term for loss of memory, language, problem-solving and other thinking abilities that are severe enough to interfere with daily life.”
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• NHS’ dementia guide explains causes, symptoms, diagnosis, living well, and care pathways.
  

ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON

I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.

As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.

✨ Connect with my work:

• Hair Loss & Wig Clinic → www.sharniknighton.co.uk
• Training Academy → www.sharniknightonacademy.com
• IntelliMESH Product Line → www.intellimesh.co.uk

✨ Follow on social:

• TikTok → @sharniknighton
• Podcast TikTok → @tell.her.podcast

In this episode, we revisit Joe's journey since her last appearance. Jo opens up about her ongoing battle with cancer, the importance of self-advocacy in the healthcare system, and the crucial need for genetic testing in families with a history of cancer. She provides invaluable insights into navigating the NHS, understanding cancer markers, and the importance of molecular profiling. As Jo continues her fight, her cousin has started a GoFundMe campaign to access life-extending molecular treatment not available on the NHS. Host Sharni emphasises the need for awareness and the power of community support to make a meaningful difference. Don't miss this touching and informative episode, and find out how you can contribute to Joe's journey.

00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast

00:29 Updates and Personal Journey

01:10 Advocating for Yourself in Healthcare

02:17 The Importance of Awareness and Information

03:38 Personal Stories and Experiences

10:59 Genetic Testing and Family History

16:38 Targeted Treatments and Future Outlook

18:35 Understanding Complex Treatment Plans

19:38 Discovering Molecular Profiling

21:21 Challenges with NHS and Treatment Costs

22:38 Emotional Impact and Family Support

23:17 Advocating for Better Healthcare

24:23 Exploring Alternative Treatment Options

25:16 Reflecting on Quality of Life

28:02 Community Support and Awareness

32:17 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

Jo Go fund me page

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-support-my-cousin-search-specialist-cancer-treatmemts

ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON

I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.

As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.

✨ Connect with my work:

• Hair Loss & Wig Clinic → www.sharniknighton.co.uk
• Training Academy → www.sharniknightonacademy.com
• IntelliMESH Product Line → www.intellimesh.co.uk

✨ Follow on social:

• TikTok → @sharniknighton
• Podcast TikTok → @tell.her.podcast