In this episode, Kelee and Tricia are debating wedding “taboos” from the perspective of a recent bride. Tricia shares her honest thoughts on what would actually bother her at a wedding and what really doesn’t matter at all. We talk through common wedding etiquette questions like wearing white to a wedding, surprise performances during the reception, guests not giving cards, and what happens when someone important shows up late to the ceremony. Along the way, we also touch on personal style, growing up, and how perspective changes once you’ve actually planned a wedding. If you’re planning a wedding, attending one soon, or just love wedding discussions and opinions, this episode is for you.

00:00 El Niño Year Weather Talk + Seasonal Changes

02:30 Loving Different Seasons + Living With Raynaud’s Disease

08:25 How Personal Style Changes As You Get Older

10:06 Interacting With Kids at Weddings + Age Differences

16:28 Wedding Advice From a Recent Bride

18:15 Would a Bride Be Upset If Someone Wore White to a Wedding?

24:14 Surprise Performances at Weddings: Cute or Cringe?

26:45 Wedding Etiquette: Is It Rude Not to Give a Card?

32:36 Wedding Ceremony Drama: What If Someone Important Is Late?

Our hearts are with those affected by the atrocities that are currently being committed by our government against innocent people. It is disgusting & immoral. We denounce violence & discrimination, always. We believe in equality & justice FOR ALL. Everyone involved in Stop The Internet Podcast votes for policies & lawmakers that work for peace, equality, civil rights, and justice for all people.

In this episode, Kelee and Rebecca are chatting about girl code, starting with a discussion around an infamous court case and the verdict that had everyone talking. We want to know what you think. Do you agree with it? Tell us in the comments! From there, we get into our thoughts on girl code and when it matters most to support other women. We also share personal safety tips for navigating public spaces and looking out for each other. We wrap things up by talking about our queen, Taylor Swift, and breaking down some of her best and worst red carpet looks. It’s opinionated, chatty, and full of moments you’ll want to weigh in on.

Kelee and Rebecca are reading some of the best, most impactful advice people have received from their therapists, and of course, it leads us down a few deeper conversations. We talk about how easy it is to make excuses instead of doing the work to actually grow, why self-esteem acts as the lens through which we see the world, and how insecurity can show up as exclusion or defensiveness. We also reflect on how finding the right friends can help heal the wounds left by the wrong people. It’s a thoughtful, honest conversation that is inspiring us to make better decisions in the new year.