Hey what's up hello! Today we answer the question can I still be asexual or aromantic if I have sex? If I'm in a romantic relationship? If I have trauma? The answer is basically always yes but let's talk about it!

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Hey what’s up hello! It’s time for another listener lore, where we answer pressing questions like what the hell is up with Nick? How did we end up on a sidebar about the BTS members’ alpha/omega fanfiction statistics? And… YOUR TONGUES TOUCH WHEN YOU KISS????

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Hey what's up hello! Today we're learning about sex toys. Specifically, the ones that are defined by google as "weird" but... good? Look, we don't know either. Just come on this journey with us. Or don't! (Sorry, this is what happens when Sarah writes the pod descriptions.)

CW: Explicit discussion of sex toys and how they're used

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Hey what's up hello! Today we dive into research that shows strong links between someone's birth order and sibling composition and their sexuality. We are not scientists; we are just two girls trying to figure it out.

Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/birth-order-determines-sexuality

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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39627649/

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Hey what's up hello! This week ask ourselves the age-old question: just what IS happening over on Reddit?

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Hey what's up hello! This week we dive into Heteropessimism and make the case for MORE attention to be paid to heterosexuality? We know how it sounds, but hear us out.

Sources:

https://thenewinquiry.com/on-heteropessimism/

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Hey what's up hello! This week we learn that there's apparently a libido crisis going on. News to us. We read what Them has to say about the crisis and rate their 69 dating and sex tips that are supposed to "help us navigate love and sex during decidedly unsexy times." Much to unpack.

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https://www.them.us/story/libido-crisis-dating-sex-in-real-life

https://www.them.us/story/69-hard-and-fast-rules-for-dating-in-real-life

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Hey what's up hello! This week we're recapping the 2026 Winter Olympics and talking about everything from cheating scandals (the romantic and sports kinds) to queer icons to penis injections.

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