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How do romance novelists actually write steamy love scenes that feel sexy, believable, and impossible to put down? In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan sit down with a romance novelist to talk about what really goes into writing chemistry, attraction, tension, and unforgettable love scenes on the page.

We get into what inspires her, how writers create emotional and physical tension that actually lands, and why the best romance scenes are about so much more than just spice. From romance novels to the art of writing desire, intimacy, and fantasy, this conversation is funny, smart, and full of insight for readers, writers, and anyone obsessed with a good love story.

We also talk about:

• What inspires steamy romance scenes
• Why readers are so drawn to romance and fantasy
• What makes a love scene feel believable and hot

If you love romance novels, spicy books, writing, BookTok, love scenes, and behind-the-scenes conversations with authors, this episode is for you.

Topics include:
romance novelist, spicy books, romance novels, steamy love scenes, writing romance, chemistry in fiction, BookTok books, romance author interview, and what inspires writers.

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Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross
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Edited by: Charles E. Becker

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On this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania & Jordan talk about how to feel confident in your clothes, dating confidence, and modern relationships with fashion curator Janet Mandell.

Based in Chicago, she is the founder of a luxury fashion rental showroom that she built from scratch — and later expanded to Los Angeles and New York, dressing celebrities for major red carpet events.

Janet shares how she launched her luxury wardrobe business, why vintage designer fashion is having a massive comeback (with help from Kim Kardashian), and how the right outfit can completely change how confident — and sexy — you feel.

They also get into:
• why vintage fashion rentals are exploding right now
• the psychology of feeling confident in your clothes
• the outfits that actually work in the bedroom (and the ones that don’t)
• and how Janet navigates an unconventional relationship dynamic that works for her.

If you’ve ever wondered how style, confidence, dating, and sexuality intersect, this conversation will change the way you think about your closet.

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Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross
Produced by: Missy Greenberg
Edited by: Charles E. Becker

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What really happens behind the curtain of med spas, and aesthetic treatments?

In this episode of Slut in Training, Missy, Tania and Jordan sit down with an aesthetic nurse who has worked both in the operating room alongside plastic surgeons and in the world of med spas. She shares what it's actually like assisting in procedures like revision rhinoplasties, facelifts, and Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBLs)—including the risks, scarring, and the techniques doctors use to make them safer.

They also break down Med Spa 101, from Botox, filler, microneedling, chemical peels, laser hair removal, and skincare routines to the latest beauty trends and viral treatments like snail mucin, beef tallow skincare, salmon DNA facials, and “glass skin.”

The conversation also gets into the world of regenerative medicine and sexual wellness treatments, including P-shots, O-shots, and other procedures designed to improve libido, sexual function, and confidence.

And because this is Slut in Training, there are plenty of wild stories from the treatment room—including the most unusual patient requests and a truly unforgettable penis filler story.

If you’ve ever wondered:
• what an aesthetic nurse actually does
• which cosmetic procedures are trending right now
• the truth about Botox, filler, and skincare myths
• how sexual wellness treatments like PRP injections work
• and how beauty and confidence are connected

This episode pulls back the curtain on the world of modern aesthetic medicine.

Happy skin!

Timestamps - Episode Highlights
0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – The Everything Shower
3:42 – Gabby (Anonymous) and her background – from Aesthetic nurse in the operating room - working with small dick energy surgeons – to Med Spa and all things beaty
5:10 – Experiences working with plastic surgeons on revision rhinoplasties, facelift deep planning, BBL (Brazilian butt lifts), etc.
6:30 – BBL, dangers, and scarring explained – cannula versus traditional incisions
7:20 – Silicone gel – you best friend when dealing with surgical scarring – especially Asian/ethnic scarring and keloids
8:42 – Med Spa 101 – Botox, filler, microneedling, laser hair removal, facials, chemical peels, sexual health, wellness IV’s and vitamin shots – best of inner and outer beauty
9:27 – Regenerative medicine – treatments using your own blood to help rejuvenate the skin and improve libido
9:57 – Expert advice on skincare 101 – confidence regimen – adult acne, wrinkles,
glowing – less is always more!!! Gentle cleanser based on skin type – dry, combination, or oily skin
11:20 – New and weirdest skincare trends – Beef Tallow! Snail mucin, Salmon
Polynucleotide DNA (Salmon sperm), Glass Skin treatments
13:35 – Beauty myths – Botox, Xeomin, & Disport injected into your masseters can’t really change your face to get a snatched jawline
15:20 – Most popular sexual health request for women – Vaginoplasty or labiaplasty - Face lift for your vagina! Got popular after Secret Life of Mormon Wives (Season 1, Episode 6) ––
19:47 – P shots (Priapus Shot) - penis filler to enhance girth with hyaluronic acid
23:37 – O shot (Orgasm Shot) – vaginal, labia, and clitoral injections of PRP (Platelet rich plasma) from your own blood
29:18 – Crazy client story about Penis filler!
31:43 – what advice would you give your younger self? Don’t take everything so
seriously!

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