EPISODE 103: Dating After Dysfunction: Familiar Chaos vs Lasting Alignment - How to Thrive in the Dating World (with Bre Wolta)

💔 Wondering if your new crush is actually boring... or just healthy?

In this juicy, insightful, and laugh-out-loud real convo, Brandi Babin sits down once again with one of her all-time favorite guests — Bre Wolta, Relationship Clarity Coach and host of the Heartbreak to Wholeness podcast.

Together, they unpack what it really looks like to date after surviving emotionally unhealthy or narcissistic relationships. From love bombing to self-sabotage, perfectionism to pedestal pressure — this episode is a must-listen for any woman wondering:
"Do I actually like him... or is he just familiar chaos?"

✨ You'll hear:

• How to break old dating patterns without losing your spark

• Why real love might feel boring at first

• How self-love is the secret to attracting the right partner

• What it really means to stop performing and start just being

• Brandi’s unfiltered gym meet-cute (and yes, it involves a "butt machine" 😂)

Whether you're back on the apps, dating IRL, or just focusing on loving yourself right now — this episode is a refreshing reminder that healing doesn’t mean being alone. It means being whole.

🔗 Find Bre at: www.BreWolta.com
🎙️ Heartbreak to Wholeness podcast: Available wherever you listen
📘 Brandi’s tools for your healing journey:

• The Reclaim Guidebook + 8 Video Series

• Rediscovering Me – A 3-Date Guide to Self-Love
  All on → stan.store/reclaimyourstory

✨ Stay sparkly, sweet sister — and remember:
You are not “too much,” you were just too much for the wrong person. 💫

Episode 102: Identity Crisis? Not in MY House!

Have you ever second-guessed yourself into a full-blown identity crisis after asking for way too many opinions? Same, sister. In today's episode of Shattered to Unbreakable, Brandi Babin shares a relatable and refreshing reminder: your path is yours — not ChatGPT’s, not your boss’s, not even your well-meaning friend’s.

Brandi dives into why no advice — no matter how smart or shiny — will ever fit you perfectly, because no one else has your experiences, your wiring, or your calling. She shares some personal crossroads moments, the temptation to should all over herself (spoiler: it gets messy), and how she fought to get back into alignment with her true purpose.

If you’ve been feeling pulled in a hundred directions by a hundred different voices, this episode is your permission slip to stop, breathe, and trust the woman in the mirror. Your gut is smarter than you think — and your sparkle is way too important to get sidetracked.

✨ Mentioned in this episode:

• The Rediscovering Me guide (free at thereclaimstrategy.com)

• Morning routines that rewire your brain for peace and power

• Brandi’s hilarious (and very real) realization about running a restaurant...from 1,200 miles away

Tune in for a love note to your future self — and a reminder that the only path you need to follow is the one you carve yourself. Stay sparkly, Sweet Sister. 🌟

🎙️ Episode 101: “Unanswered Prayers & the Bamboo Plant Gospel”
When God leaves you on read… but for good reason.

This week on Shattered to Unbreakable, Brandi Babin is getting real about the silence from heaven that makes you want to shake your fists at the sky (or maybe just dramatically sob into a pint of Halo Top). If you've ever felt ghosted by God or like your prayer requests got lost in the divine group chat, this one's for you.

From prayers that felt ignored to seasons that seemed more like spiritual pranks than growth opportunities, Brandi shares the real-life rollercoaster of doing all the things (faith, fasting, journaling… even ChatGPT) and still feeling stuck. But what if your unanswered prayers aren’t punishment—they’re preparation?

You’ll hear the behind-the-scenes story of how Reclaim was born in the ashes, almost abandoned, then reignited with unexpected clarity. Plus, Brandi drops a fresh perspective: maybe the longer the wait, the deeper the roots. (Spoiler alert: there’s a bamboo plant metaphor and it’s everything.)

✨ In this episode:

• What to do when God’s response is crickets

• The messy, miraculous timeline of answered prayers

• Why your Reclaim guidebook still matters

• A surprising pep talk from ChatGPT

• And why “just the next right thing” might be all you need

Because sometimes, unanswered prayers are the setup for blessings bigger than your little human heart can even handle. So take a deep breath, trust the root work, and stay sparkly, sweet sister.

🌿 Grab your Reclaim Guidebook + video series at www.thereclaimstrategy.com
🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you find your hope-filled podcasts.

🎉 Episode 100: A Hundred Episodes of Laughter, Lessons & Letting Go
💜 Shattered to Unbreakable with Brandi Babin
🌐 www.thereclaimstrategy.com

We made it, sweet sister—100 episodes of healing, humor, and holy revelations! To celebrate this milestone, Brandi is joined by none other than her original co-host and behind-the-scenes superhero, Aubrey Fowler—the woman who helped launch this entire podcast from day one.

This episode is a laugh-filled, truth-spilling walk down memory lane as Brandi and Aubrey revisit their favorite (and funniest) episodes, share the real-life shifts that led Aubrey to step back and homeschool full-time, and remind all of us why saying "no" can sometimes be the most spiritual yes you'll ever speak.

🎙️ They reflect on:

• How it really felt to hit “record” the first time

• Why editing is nobody’s favorite child

• The top 2 most-listened-to episodes (hello, Brainspotting & Navigating Narcissism 👀)

• Hilarious bloopers, spicy stories, and epic risotto commentary 🍝😆

• The power of permission to pivot—and how to recognize when it’s time

• Why mirror work and the Mirror, Mirror, I Love You movement is the heartbeat of healing

✨ Whether you’ve been with us since Episode 1 or just found your way to the Reclaim community, we’re so glad you’re here. Here's to the next 100!

🎁 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Reclaim Guidebook at thereclaimstrategy.com—your daily roadmap to healing, habits, and self-love that actually works.

💫 Stay sparkly, sweet sister. We love you.

🎙️ Episode 99 – Cutting Cords & Rewriting the Story: Healing Through Mirror Work

In this powerful continuation of Season 7's Mirror Mirror, I Love You series, host Brandi Babin dives deep into one of the most transformational pieces of mirror work yet: confronting the past version of yourself you're least proud of… and setting her free.

Through an honest and moving retelling of her experience with a cord-cutting ceremony guided by relationship coach Bre Wolta, Brandi shares how her once shame-laced view of her early adult self was completely redefined. Instead of seeing a “weak” or “broken” girl, she encountered a warrior — a compassionate, determined, resilient version of herself who was doing the best she could with what she knew.

This episode unpacks:

✨ The lies we casually tell ourselves every day — and how to turn them into liberating truths
✨ How to respectfully and lovingly release your former self without guilt
✨ Why mirror work is not just about affirmations, but deep inner reconciliation
✨ What it really means to "Reclaim" your identity, peace, and power

Whether you’ve struggled with regret, self-blame, or feel stuck in a cycle of shame over past decisions, this episode gives you the mirror, the scissors, and the grace to start healing. Because that girl from your past? She got you here — and she deserves a little love too.

💜 Ready to go deeper in your self-discovery? Grab your Reclaim Guidebook at www.thereclaimstrategy.com. It's your step-by-step strategy to confidence, healing, productivity, and mirror magic — and now comes with a gorgeous enchanted hand mirror to match your journey.

💫 Stay sparkly, Sweet Sister — Episode 100 is coming next week, and it’s going to be epic!

This week on Shattered to Unbreakable, we're going deeper—literally and emotionally. In Episode 98, Brandi Babin guides you through the next phase of mirror work: standing in front of your reflection (as naked as you dare), looking at your whole self, and finding something—anything—to love.We’re rewriting body image, retraining our self-talk, and gently unlearning the garbage society taught us about vanity and shame. You’ll learn how to start this brave and sacred ritual of self-discovery, how to find appreciation beyond what you see, and how to create affirmations that feel real, not cringey.Brandi also shares how the Reclaim Guidebook helped her shift her inner dialogue—plus how you can grab your own copy (and get a FREE enchanted mirror!) to begin your journey back to confidence, softness, and sparkle.✨ Because mirror work isn’t about being perfect.It’s about being present.It’s not about loving everything right now.It’s about learning to love yourself anyway.You are worth the work.And your reflection is ready to say, I love you right back.🎧 Listen in now and join the Mirror Mirror, I Love You movement.🪞 Grab your Reclaim Guidebook at www.thereclaimstrategy.com – $39 for the tool that’s changing lives, one reflection at a time.#MirrorMirrorILoveYou #ReclaimYourSparkle #ShatteredToUnbreakable #BodyImageHealing #FaithDrivenWomen #SingleMomStrong #SelfLoveInProgress #Thereclaimstrategy

✨ Season 7 kicks off with a fresh reflection—literally. ✨

In this powerful and heartfelt episode of Shattered to Unbreakable, host Brandi Babin shares the origin story of Reclaim—her now life-changing guidebook and movement for women who are ready to rise. What started as a humble Word doc packed with healing habits and confidence-building tools has evolved into a full-blown strategy that has saved lives, restored marriages, and reignited the inner spark in women across the country.

But now? It’s about to get even deeper.

Brandi is launching the “Mirror, Mirror, I Love You” Movement, diving into the real magic of mirror work and how it became the cornerstone of her own journey from rock bottom to radiant. With touching honesty and just the right dose of sparkle, she shares how to start seeing the woman in the mirror not with judgment, but with delight—just like you did when you were five years old and twirled like a princess in the hallway mirror.

You’ll walk away with:
💜 A step-by-step intro to powerful mirror work
💜 Realistic affirmations that don’t feel fake or fluffy
💜 A tender moment of parts work with your 5-year-old self
💜 A reminder that you are the one you’ve been wishing and waiting for

PLUS: The first 48 Reclaim Guidebooks ordered at www.thereclaimstrategy.com will come with a limited-edition enchanted gold hand mirror—because healing should feel a little magical.

Perfect for: Women rebuilding confidence, battling body image struggles, or trying to reconnect with the girl they used to be. Especially recommended for working moms, single moms, and faith-driven women who want to grow without feeling weird about it.

Have you ever felt like you needed something—or someone—to be okay?

Maybe it’s a relationship, a job, the approval of others, or even your daily iced coffee (we’re not judging… but let’s talk about it).

In this episode of Shattered to Unbreakable, we’re diving deep into the concept of idols—not the golden statues of ancient times, but the modern-day obsessions that steal our peace and keep us from fully trusting God.

Join me, Brandi Babin, as I get real about my own struggles with relationship dependency, the cycle of seeking external validation, and the hard truth about what happens when we place people or things above our faith.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

🔥 What really counts as an idol in today’s world (hint: it’s not just material things).
🔄 How to recognize unhealthy patterns—especially when it comes to relationships and self-worth.
💡 The power of The Litany of Humility—a prayer that challenged everything I believed about success, self-love, and purpose.
👀 Why breaking free from what others think about you is the ultimate game-changer.
🌟 The difference between seeking approval vs. living in purpose—and how shifting your focus can transform your life.

If you’re a busy, faith-driven woman struggling with self-worth, comparison, and the feeling that you’re never enough, this episode was made for you. You don’t have to hustle for validation or chase things that were never meant to complete you. True peace comes when we let go of our idols, trust in God’s plan, and step into the freedom of just being—without constantly needing to prove ourselves.

🎧 Listen now at www.thereclaimstrategy.com or wherever you get your podcasts! And hey, while you’re at it—go ahead and leave a rating & review (because algorithms are the real idols we apparently must serve. 😂)

✨ Stay sparkly, sweet sister, and I’ll see you next week! 💜

The Litany of Humility:

O Jesus! meek and humble of heart, Hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed,Deliver me, Jesus.

From the desire of being loved...

From the desire of being extolled ...

From the desire of being honored ...

From the desire of being praised ...

From the desire of being preferred to others...

From the desire of being consulted ...

From the desire of being approved ...

From the fear of being humiliated ...

From the fear of being despised...

From the fear of suffering rebukes ...

From the fear of being calumniated ...

From the fear of being forgotten ...

From the fear of being ridiculed ...

From the fear of being wronged ...

From the fear of being suspected ...

That others may be loved more than I,Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.

That others may be esteemed more than I ...

That, in the opinion of the world,
others may increase and I may decrease ...
That others may be chosen and I set aside ...
That others may be praised and I unnoticed ...
That others may be preferred to me in everything...
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should…