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What if the thing you’re calling “anger” is actually unmet expectations with nowhere to land? We open up about resentment in marriage and partnership—how it sneaks in through invisible labor, how silence turns it into a knot, and what it takes to loosen it without tearing everything apart.

Our guest Monica describes the ache of being “single in a marriage,” doing the parenting, the planning, and even the mopping while her partner slept. Others share why they left before resentment calcified, or why they stayed and learned to translate expectations into clear, actionable conversations. Therapy becomes a lifeline here—not a courtroom to prove who’s right, but a mirror to see your own patterns, triggers, and blind spots. We talk about the pause that saves relationships: writing feelings down before saying them aloud so you can respond, not explode.

We also challenge cultural scripts about who carries the mental load at home. Control often starts as survival; handing it over takes trust and initiative on both sides. We get specific about co‑parenting: dads stepping in without being asked, moms stepping back without micromanaging, and kids benefitting when both parents lead. The group debates a claim that married women live shorter while married men live longer, connecting it to stress, rest, and the cost of unshared labor. Whether or not every stat holds, the cure is the same: redistribute the work, protect each other’s dignity, and choose repair over performative perfection.

There’s real talk about boundaries with friends and the internet too. Oversharing can trap your partner in other people’s worst stories; an accountability partner or mentor can help you grow without putting your marriage on trial. We close with a look at reciprocity—birthdays, small kindnesses, who shows up when you’re empty—and how pruning the one‑sided ties can make room for people who pour back. If you’ve ever felt alone in a two‑person life, this conversation offers tools, language, and hope to breathe again.

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