Bahia Miller defines SELF LED LOVE and the importance & nuance of taking responsibility for your parts, building trust with yourself, and showing up consciously in relationships.

Learn how noticing and tending to your inner parts can reduce reactivity, deepen connection, and transform relationship cycles. Self-led love is about awareness, repair, and growth—not perfection.

Free Resources:

• Self-Led Love Checklist – clarify what’s your work vs. your partner’s work in the relationship: www.bahiamiller.com/checklist
• Unblending Meditation – slow down after a challenging interaction and get in relationship with your parts: www.bahiamiller.com/unblend

Work with Bahia:
If you’d like to learn more about working with Bahia or explore her offerings, visit www.bahiamiller.com for details.

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*Self-Led Love Podcast Disclaimer*

Self-Led Love is a space for reflection, education, and relational growth. The content shared here is offered for educational and informational purposes only, and reflects my lived experience and professional perspective as an Internal Family Systems–informed relationship coach.

Any stories shared on the podcast are either my own, anonymized, or composite examples drawn from real experiences. Identifying details have been changed to protect privacy and confidentiality.

This podcast is not a substitute for therapy, medical care, legal advice, or mental health treatment. While many listeners may find resonance, insight, or support through this work, no specific outcomes are promised, and each person’s healing and relationship journey is unique.

Please listen with discernment, self-responsibility, and care for your own nervous system. When needed, seek support from qualified professionals who can meet you in your specific context.