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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Are you having, or contemplating having, an affair? Or maybe, you've discovered that your partner or spouse is cheating on you. Affairs are not uncommon, but the reasons are often not always what they seem. We have affairs for complex reasons—seeking emotional connection, excitement, or validation that is missing in our primary relationship. Curiosity, unmet needs, resentment, or escape from conflict can drive infidelity. Sometimes it's about opportunity, ego, or thrill rather than love. Affairs often reveal deeper relationship fractures or personal struggles rather than simply impulsive betrayal.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Did you follow the Coldplay Concert's Kiss-Cam Scandal? Do you feel the cheating couple deserved the public shaming and condemnation they received? In the words of Kat Rosenfield, "When we take joy in the distress and ruination of other people, we make monsters of ourselves." People may enjoy publicly shaming others because it offers a sense of moral superiority and a sense of belonging to a group. It can provide an outlet for anger, deflect attention from personal flaws, and create quick social validation through likes or applause. The rush of outrage can be intoxicating, making judgment feel justified, even when it's harmful.

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Del is a relationship coach, international speaker, published author, and spiritual teacher, specializing in codependency, narcissistic abuse, and unhealed childhood trauma. If you are interested in working with Del visit: deladeyjones.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.

Barry is a relationship expert, best-selling author, inspirational speaker and spiritual guide, assisting both men and women having better relationships. If you are interested in working with Barry visit: barryselby.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin, and YouTube.