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  • Stop Asking God “Is This the One?”

    Stop Asking God “Is This the One?”
    Jun 25 2026
    “Hey God… is this the one?”“Should I pursue her?”

    “What about him?”

    “Do You approve this relationship?”

    For many Christians, dating feels like constantly presenting God with options for approval.But what if that entire approach is backwards?

    In this conversation, we explore a different way of understanding God’s leadership in relationships:
    • What if God is the initiator, not the reviewer?
    • What if we’ve confused curiosity with control?
    • What if asking “Is this the one?” isn’t the real question at all?
    • What does Scripture show us about how God actually leads people together?From the Old

    Testament love stories to personal testimony, we unpack how God often brings clarity through providence—not endless pre-approval cycles.

    There is nothing wrong with asking God questions.But there is something deeper than questions: trust.

    Welcome to the Romantic Reformation: godoftheromantic.com
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    6 min
  • You Can't Scroll Yourself Into Contentment

    You Can't Scroll Yourself Into Contentment
    Jun 18 2026
    Nobody likes waiting.

    Especially when everyone around you seems to be getting married, building families, and moving into the life you prayed for.

    In this conversation, we talk honestly about singleness, disappointment, contentment, and the hidden work God does in seasons that feel silent. Because contentment is not natural. It’s learned. And sometimes the only way to learn it… is by going without what you desperately want for a season.

    We discuss: • Why singleness is never wasted • The danger of making romance an idol • What Paul meant by “I learned to be content” • Why scrolling can’t heal discontentment • How God prepares us for what’s ahead

    Before God gives us someone else, He often teaches us that Christ is enough.

    Welcome to the Romantic Reformation: godofheromantic.com
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    7 min
  • Dating Lists Might Be Ruining Your Love Life

    Dating Lists Might Be Ruining Your Love Life
    Jun 11 2026
    Should Christians make a list for their future spouse?

    Tall. Creative. Attractive. Successful. Spiritually mature. Emotionally available.

    Modern dating culture tells us to define exactly what we want and go find it.But do we actually know what we need?

    In this conversation, we unpack:
    • Dating apps and preference lists
    • Whether God cares about your “type”
    • The danger of rigid expectations
    • Why singleness often prepares you for marriage
    • The difference between your desires and God’s wisdomSometimes God fulfills desires you never even dared to ask for.

    And sometimes He lovingly changes your list altogether.Because marriage isn’t just about fulfilling preferences—it’s about becoming more like Christ.

    Welcome to the Romantic Reformation: godofheromantic.com
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    8 min
  • Stop Comparing Your Love Life… It Was Never Meant to Match Theirs

    Stop Comparing Your Love Life… It Was Never Meant to Match Theirs
    Jun 4 2026
    Trusting God with your love life won’t look like culture. It won’t look like your friends. And it definitely won’t look like social media. Comparison will either make you feel behind…or falsely ahead. Neither one is truth. There’s a reason your story is different. And it's personal.
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    6 min
  • Who's Choice is Marriage... Your's or God's?

    Who's Choice is Marriage... Your's or God's?
    May 28 2026
    God has been known to have a plans for love and marriage. But here’s the part no one talks about… You the choice is yours. And a lot of people miss what God could have for them — not because He doesn't provide it, but because we don't choose it. This is where faith, timing, and maturity actually matter.
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    5 min
  • Why Many Christian Love Stories Feel "Off"

    Why Many Christian Love Stories Feel "Off"
    May 21 2026
    Not all love stories are built the same. Man-stirven love stories look convincing… until it doesn’t. God’s ways? Different level. Different outcome. This might change how you see relationships.
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    8 min
  • When Faith Is Hard

    When Faith Is Hard
    May 15 2026
    8 min
  • You Were Never Supposed to “Find The One”

    You Were Never Supposed to “Find The One”
    May 8 2026
    Modern dating tells Christians to strive, chase, perform, impress, search, and “put yourself out there.”

    But what if Scripture teaches something completely different?In this conversation, we explore the difference between the psychology of the romantic and the theology of the romantic — and why so many believers are exhausted trying to find love their own way.

    From Genesis to Ruth to Joseph and Mary, the Bible reveals a God deeply involved in bringing people together through providence, faith, and rest — not striving.

    If you’ve ever wondered:
    • Does God really lead people into marriage?
    • Why does modern dating create so much anxiety?
    • What does biblical romance actually look like?
    • Am I supposed to chase love or trust God?

    This message is for you.

    Welcome to the Romantic Reformation: godoftheromantic.com
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    7 min