In Part 3 of his How We Could Book Club Podcast Series, Alex Dorr shares his favorite quotes, insights, and lessons from the final section of his new book. In this episode, you'll learn three tools that help your team move forward productively even when facing resistance to change and uncertainty. It's a motivating listen for anyone looking to lead their team differently through ambiguity.

Pre-order How We Could for you and your team (official release date is September 22nd): https://www.realitybasedleadership.com/pre-order

Episode Highlights:
00:01:25 - How the book took three years and is packed with real case studies
00:02:10 - Recap: the three parts of How We Could (loving up, calling up, answering the call)
00:04:26 - Introducing Part 3: answering the call to greatness
00:04:51 - Why fear is what really holds people back from taking action
00:07:07 - The three tools for next right action: SBAR, thinking inside the box, negative brainstorming
00:10:34 - When to use each tool
00:13:39 - Deep dive: how the SBAR cuts down workplace drama
00:19:30 - Deep dive: why "thinking inside the box" drives real innovation
00:22:39 - Deep dive: negative brainstorming and the Dr. Smith story
00:27:06 - Wrapping up Part 3 and celebrating the book launch

In this episode, Alex Dorr breaks down his favorite quotes and insights from Part 2 of How We Could. You'll learn practical ways to clean up your thinking, build real accountability across your team, and make sure people are in the right role for what the situation actually requires. This is part two of a three-part series digging into the sections of the book that didn't make the final cut, sharing Alex's exclusive insights to enrich your reading experience.

Pre-order How We Could for you and your team (official release date is September 22nd): https://www.realitybasedleadership.com/pre-order

Episode Highlights:

00:00:18 – Welcome and episode intro

00:01:42 – Recap of Part 1 and transition into Part 2

00:04:04 – Part 2 begins: calling people up to greatness

00:04:22 – Step two overview: cleaning up thinking

00:09:34 – Why the five-step sequence matters (the "secret sauce")

00:14:17 – Diving into clean thinking: ego, stories, and facts

00:20:24 – Step three: accounting for our part in the mess

00:24:41 – Breaking down accountability: account + ability

00:27:30 – Step four: knowing your role in the solution

00:34:05 – Non-negotiables, procedures, and avoiding burnout

This episode explores two emerging ways AI is starting to double the amount of drama happening on teams. The challenge is that those who may be lower in accountability can add more drama to your culture through careless AI use, sending along unprocessed "AI slop" that shifts the burden of thinking and cleanup onto whoever receives it. Meanwhile, your high accountables may be exponentially increasing that same drama by turning judgmental toward colleagues who are still finding their footing with the tool, sometimes writing off genuinely strong work simply because it looks AI-generated. This episode names the emerging problem on both sides and discusses practical ways to bridge that gap, refocus on self-reflection and personal accountability, and bring teams back together instead of splitting into judgment and defensiveness.

Episode Highlights:

00:01:41 – Alex introduces the two ways AI use is increasing drama on teams

00:03:26 – The defining characteristics of AI slop: illusion of progress, shifted burden, receiver disengagement

00:05:01 – How a high accountable mindset processes receiving AI-generated work

00:07:18 – The break in trust that happens when unprocessed AI work lands on someone's desk

00:08:00 – Why self-reflection tools work through visual processing instead of verbal venting

00:11:12 – How AI accelerates the pattern of intellectualizing instead of truly reflecting

00:12:56 – Alex's idea for building self-reflection prompts into AI tools themselves

00:14:07 – The second source of drama: high performers judging others' AI use

00:16:03 – Applying "stop judging, start helping" to AI-era team dynamics

00:18:03 – A real example of a colleague wrongly assuming a photo was AI-generated

00:19:49 – Alex previews his upcoming book, Checkmate to Drama

Link to pre-order Alex's book, How We Could: The Framework to Lead Without Drama, Build Alignment and Call Teams to Greatness for you and your teams:
https://www.realitybasedleadership.com/pre-order