Is your son suddenly struggling at school? On this episode of the Raising Sons Podcast, Dr. Richelle Whittaker dives deep into the hidden reasons behind behavioral changes in Black boys.

Using a real-world case study of a mother concerned about her son’s "acting out," Dr. Whittaker breaks down why we must stop labeling our children and start looking at their environment. We explore the reality of adultification bias, the importance of emotional safety, and why a "bad fit" school can be detrimental to a child's development.

• A change in behavior is information. It's language. It's not a moral failure.
• Your child's resistance may be a response to feeling for a better fit.
• The right environment can reduce behavior without a single punishment.
• This isn't about lowering expectations. It's about aligning expectations.
• If school calls feel constant, your son is not broken.
• Advocating for him is not optional. It's essential.
• When Black boys are given space to be boys, they thrive.
• Legacy isn't just about famous people; it's about current safety.
• Correction replaces curiosity, control replaces connection.
• Sometimes the most powerful intervention is changing the environment.

If you’re unsure whether your son’s school environment aligns with who he is and how he learns, let's talk. Book a Parent Roadmap Session here: https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme

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Resources:

• Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sons
• Boy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategies
• New YouVersion Devotional

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Is an all-boys school the right environment for your son? If you’ve noticed your son disengaging, acting out, or struggling to sit still in a traditional classroom, it might not be him, it might be the environment.

In this episode of Raising Sons, Dr. Richelle Whittaker, educational psychologist, parenting strategist, and boy mom breaks down the science of how boys learn. We explore why single-sex education is a powerful solution for many families and how it addresses the unique way boys develop, communicate, and grow.

This isn’t about "one size fits all" education; it’s about research-backed insights into the male brain and academic engagement. If you are a mom raising sons and questioning if his current school is a good fit, this conversation is for you.

Key Insights You’ll Learn Today:

• The "Freedom to Be": Why boys drop the social mask in all-boys environments.
• Developing a Voice: How single-sex schools build deep confidence in young men.
• The Power of Male Educators: Why having male role models changes how a boy's behavior is interpreted.
• Kinesthetic Learning: Why movement-based and project-based learning is essential for active boys.
• The Research: What the data actually says about boys' school engagement and success rates.
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This episode is a must-watch if:

• You are a Boy Mom exploring alternatives to traditional co-ed education.
• Your son is shutting down or "acting out" in his current classroom.
• You want professional guidance on school choice without the guilt or pressure.
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If you’re unsure whether your son’s school environment aligns with who he is and how he learns, let's talk. Book a Parent Roadmap Session here: https://www.richellewhittaker.com/workwithme

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Resources:

• Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sons
• Boy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategies
• New YouVersion Devotional

Connect with Dr. Richelle:

Instagram: @dr_richelle

LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker

Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast

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What does it truly take to reach young men in the classroom today?

On this episode, we sit down with Mr. Thomas, a dedicated first-year principal at an all-boys school in Houston, Texas. We explore his unique journey from working with Child Protective Services (CPS) to leading a school, and how his background in social work has shaped his approach to student success.

Mr. Thomas dives deep into the specific challenges and rewards of educating boys. From navigating socio-economic barriers to breaking down societal pressures, this conversation covers the vital importance of male role models and the need for a shift from punitive discipline to effective communication.

Whether you are an educator, a parent of a son, or a community leader, this episode offers powerful insights into accountability, fatherhood, and building a village around our youth.

In This Conversation, We Cover:

• The transition from social work to school administration.
• The psychology behind teaching boys vs. girls.
• Strategies for engaging middle school vs. high school students.
• Why "punishment" often fails and "communication" succeeds.
• The critical role of parent accountability.

Key Takeaways

• Diverse Experience Matters: Mr. Thomas uses his history in high-need schools and CPS to identify the root causes of student behavior.
• The "Boy" Dynamic: Boys require specific engagement strategies that differ significantly from co-ed environments.
• Mentorship is Key: For boys from single-parent households, the presence of consistent male figures at school is often a game-changer.
• Communication First: Effective discipline isn't about control; it's about understanding the "why" behind the behavior.

Time Stamps

00:00 Introduction to Mr. Thomas and His Journey

02:57 Transitioning into Education: A Personal Story

06:04 Understanding the All-Boys School Environment

08:56 The Unique Challenges of Educating Boys

12:02 The Role of Accountability in Success

14:57 The Importance of Male Role Models

17:46 Engagement Challenges in Middle vs. High School

21:09 Discipline and Communication in Education

23:52 Conclusion and Reflections on Education

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• Strong Men Start Here – Dr. Richelle’s book for moms raising sons
• Boy Mom Nation – Join the community for support and strategies
• YouVersion Devotional

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LinkedIn: Dr. Richelle Whittaker

Website: www.richellewhittaker.com/podcast