In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, teacher and mother Pauline Foo joins our host, June to explore the subtle yet powerful effects of comparison—especially between siblings. Drawing from her personal parenting journey and professional experience, Pauline shares how comparison can quietly shape a child’s identity, self-worth, and family dynamics.

Whether it’s comparing milestones, academic achievements, or personality traits, Pauline reveals how even well-meaning comparisons can lead children to choose different paths just to escape being measured against one another. She offers practical ways to shift from judgment to affirmation, helping parents foster deeper connection and compassion at home.

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Join our host June as she speaks with Haze Feng, a single mum who candidly shares her roller coaster journey of raising her 12-year-old son. Haze opens up about the immense emotional and financial load—from battling a hidden alcohol addiction while maintaining a strong exterior, to overcoming self-condemnation and feelings of failure following her divorce. She discusses the tendency to overcompensate out of guilt and shares the crucial lesson of not being too hard on herself.

Haze emphasises that it truly takes a village to raise a child and encourages single parents to dare to ask for help, give themselves time to process, and actively connect with supportive communities. Tune in to hear Haze’s powerful message—and be assured that you are not alone and should be proud of your strength and resilience.

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“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.”

- Tricia (Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)

Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Fees apply. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling.

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Sign up here to create an account with Focus on the Family Singapore to access a wide range of marriage and parenting resources designed to nurture and strengthen your family relationships.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

Think your teen is just being lazy? Think again.

Procrastination isn’t laziness—it’s often rooted in fear, emotional overwhelm, or high expectations.

In this episode, host Aaron speaks with counsellor Paul Lim to unpack why teens struggle to get started. Paul explains that procrastination is a symptom, not the root—often tied to self-doubt and pressure.

He challenges parents to reflect: could our own fears or need for control be shaping the parent-child dynamic? When we project anxiety, we risk turning parenting into a transactional or controlling relationship.

To truly support our children, we must first work on ourselves.

Tune in to learn how to break the cycle and build trust, connection, and healthy habits that last.

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Do you have a question for us, or a topic you would like to hear about? Drop us an email at ParentEd@family.org.sg. Or visit our website at www.family.org.sg for more parenting resources.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify,  Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.