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In this episode, I’m speaking directly to strong, driven couples who love each other deeply — yet find themselves stuck in tension, resistance, or ongoing power struggles when it comes to leading together.

This shows up everywhere: parenting, finances, faith, vision, business, and decision-making. The constant question becomes: Who’s supposed to lead right now?

Without clarity, leadership turns into competition instead of cooperation.

Today, I introduce a Kingdom framework that has been foundational in my own marriage:

Unified Purpose. Unique Contributions.

Before couples can lead effectively in their uniqueness, they must first be unified. You cannot skip this step. Unification is what creates multiplication — in marriage, family, faith, and impact.

This episode focuses entirely on where couples must be unified if they want to stop pulling against each other and start moving forward as one team.

This Episode Is for You If:

• You and your spouse are both strong leaders but keep clashing
• Decision-making feels like a tug-of-war instead of teamwork
• You experience recurring tension around money, parenting, or vision
• You feel called to build something meaningful together — but don’t know how
• You want a Kingdom framework, not worldly roles or control dynamics
• You’re ready to lead with alignment, honor, and shared authority

KEY TAKEAWAYS

Power Struggles Happen When Purpose Isn’t Clear

Most couples aren’t fighting because they’re broken — they’re fighting because they’re driven. God-given ambition without shared purpose creates friction. Alignment removes competition.

If You Don’t Understand Purpose, You’ll Misuse What You’re Building

Marriage was not designed merely for companionship or convenience. It was designed for multiplication, fruitfulness, and legacy. When purpose is misunderstood, relationships become transactional and unstable.

Marriage Is God’s Blueprint for Multiplication

God blessed man and woman...