Today, Jay reframes how relationships are built—not through surface-level attraction or blind chemistry, but through clarity, communication, and intentionality. He presents nine transformative questions that often go unasked in modern dating, not because they’re unimportant, but because they’re uncomfortable. Jay explains that avoiding these conversations leads to assumptions, unmet expectations, and unnecessary heartache. He underscores that a healthy relationship isn't defined by constant harmony, but by the courage to ask, listen, and grow together.

Blending personal stories, practical wisdom, and psychological insight, Jay highlights how asking the right questions early can reveal compatibility, values, and emotional readiness. He breaks down how these conversations create a shared language, prevent miscommunication, and ultimately strengthen the foundation of any relationship. Rather than using questions as ultimatums or pressure points, he encourages approaching them with curiosity and empathy.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Ask What a Healthy Relationship Means to Your Partner

How to Talk About Fears Around Commitment Without Pressure

How to Discuss Conflict Styles Before an Argument Happens

How to Know If Someone Is Truly Ready for a Relationship

How to Align on Boundaries and Independence in Love

Love doesn’t have to be a guessing game. The more willing we are to ask real questions and embrace honest conversations, the more aligned, peaceful, and fulfilling our relationships can become.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:03 The Conversations We Avoid in Modern Dating

03:36 #1: What Defines a Healthy Relationship?

08:17 #2: What are You Afraid of When It Comes to Commitment?

12:30 #3: How Do You Handle Conflicts?

19:44 #4: What are Your Long-Term Intentions?

22:02 #5: What Does Emotional Availability Mean to You?

25:10 #6: Do You Prefer to Recharge Alone?

27:49 #7: What Does Being Ready Mean to You?

31:30 #8: What Does Independence Look Like to You?

32:52 #9: What Are You Still Healing From?

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Today, Jay sits down with author, artist, and creative mentor Amie McNee for a heartfelt conversation about reconnecting with the artist inside all of us. Known for her honest take on creativity and self-expression, Amie opens up about her journey, from battling self-doubt and shame to finding her voice as a writer and artist. Amie shares real stories of rejection, depression, and learning to embrace imperfection, reminding us that art doesn’t need to be perfect, it just needs to be real.

Jay and Amie explore the common myths that hold people back from creating. The idea that creativity has to be profitable, that art must be perfect to be valuable, or that we need permission to begin. They discuss how shame, perfectionism, and fear of judgment often silence our creative instincts, and how practices like journaling, self-mothering, and small daily acts of creativity can help revive them. They also reflect on the emotional vulnerability of sharing your work, the importance of protecting your inner artist, and the delicate balance between wanting to be seen and creating for the pure joy of expression.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reclaim Your Creativity Without Shame

How to Make Art When You’re Struggling with Self-Doubt

How to Start Creating Even If You Don’t Feel Ready

How to Deal with Fear of Judgment and Being Seen

How to Turn Jealousy into Creative Motivation

How to Promote Your Art Without Selling Out

Whether someone is writing a novel, posting their first poem, or simply daring to call themselves an artist, this conversation is a gentle yet powerful reminder—they are on the path, and their voice matters.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:49 Are We Born Creative or Can It Be Learned?

02:12 Why Everyone Is an Artist in Their Own Way

03:50 What Happens When You Suppress Your Creativity

06:37 How Journaling and Self-Compassion Can Heal You

08:30 You Owe Everything to the Past Version of You

13:03 How to Move Through the Fear of Being Judged

16:07 Why Art Exposes Both Light and Darkness

17:25 Let Go of Needing External Validation

19:30 Everyone Just Wants to Be Seen and Heard

24:31 Stop Dismissing the Parts of You That Want More

26:28 Stuck in the Wrong Job? Try Small Creative Steps

30:56 How Perfectionism Fuels Procrastination

33:11 Embrace the Beautiful Chaos of Art

34:17 What the 30 Circles Test Reveals About Creativity

36:44 How to Share Your Art Without Losing Yourself

39:07 Real Artists Are Meant to Break the Rules

40:29 What to do When No One Sees Your Art

41:54 If You Hate It, Stop Doing It

44:19 Don’t Chase Virality, Make Meaningful Art

46:40 Yes, You Can Make Money from Your Art

50:10 Every Creative Act Has Value So Honor It

53:12 Charging for Your Art Is Not Selling Out

57:39 Oversaturation Is a Myth, There’s Room for You

01:00:53 Your Voice Is One of a Kind Use It

01:02:25 Use Jealousy to Guide, Not Derail You

01:03:49 How to Inspire Others by Owning Your Path

01:07:12 Amie on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Amie Mcnee | Website

Amie Mcnee | Instagram

Amie Mcnee | Facebook

Amie Mcnee | TikTok

Amie Mcnee | Books

We Need Your Art: Stop Messing Around and Make Something

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Today, Jay welcomes back world-renowned neurosurgeon and neuroscientist Dr. Rahul Jandial for a mind-expanding conversation about memory, attention, and the brain’s incredible potential. Dr. Jandial unpacks the different types of memory and explains why we often forget things like where we left our keys or what we had for dinner. He reassures us that not all memory slips are signs of aging or illness, and shows us how understanding memory can help us feel more in control of our minds.

Jay and Dr. Jandial also dive deep into working memory, the kind of memory that helps us juggle tasks, make quick decisions, and stay mentally sharp. They explore how things like stress, distraction, and even poor sleep can weaken our focus, while simple changes like better digital habits, brain-training games, and quality rest can help us stay mentally strong.

Using relatable examples, from parenting to surgery to driving, Dr. Jandial shares how we can train our brains the same way we train our bodies: with just the right amount of challenge, practice, and consistency.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Strengthen Your Working Memory

How to Train Your Brain Like a Muscle

How to Handle Emotional Memories Without Being Overwhelmed

How to Protect Your Brain as You Age

How to Spot Early Signs of Dementia in Loved Ones

How to Create a Brain-Healthy Daily Routine

How to Stay Mentally Sharp in a Distracting World

If you're looking to improve your memory, support a loved one, or feel more mentally present, this episode offers practical tools and powerful insights to help you live with greater clarity and intention.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:54 Is Your Memory Really Getting Worse?

06:28 What’s Distracting Your Working Memory

10:26 How to Manage Distractions and Stay Focused

13:39 Understanding the 3 Main Types of Memory

19:05 What’s Distracting Your Working Memory

22:43 Why the Right Amount of Stress Helps You Grow

25:22 Yes, Older Adults Can Have Strong Working Memory

29:14 How Memory Is Built Inside the Brain’s Ecosystem

33:16 The Critical Gap Between Thoughts and Actions

35:31 Simple Ways to Train and Improve Your Focus

40:28 Why Negative Memories Stick With Us

48:55 Three Daily Habits That Keep Your Brain Sharp

51:02 Why Therapy Isn’t One Size Fits All

55:18 Redirecting Your Focus Away From Painful Thoughts

58:30 Debunking the 20 Percent Brain Power Myth

01:00:34 What’s Behind the Rise in Cancer Rates?

01:05:15 A Smarter Way to Take Care of Your Mind and Body

Episode Resources:

Dr. Rahul Jandial | Instagram

Dr. Rahul Jandial | Facebook

This Is Why You Dream: What Your Sleeping Brain Reveals About Your Waking Life

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Is your to-do list stressing you out?

How often do you feel like you’re just trying to catch up?

Today, Jay dives deep into the power of slowing down—not as a luxury, but as a necessary life strategy. He walks us through eight actionable and science-backed steps to feel more present and connected to your day–no yoga mat, silent retreat, or drastic life change required. Whether it’s taking five-minute tech breaks, adding little rituals between tasks, focusing on one thing at a time, or even just adjusting your posture, each practice is a reminder that mindfulness isn’t something we need to schedule, it's something we can embody.

Jay reminds us that even the tiniest moments—like taking three deep breaths at a red light or saying your actions out loud—can pull us back into the present. Through real-life stories and powerful research, he shows how we can snap out of autopilot and find calm, clarity, and a sense of control, even on the busiest days.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Slow Down to Speed Up Your Day

How to Use Time Anchoring to Manage Stress and Anxiety

How to Transition Tasks with Micro-Rituals, Not Rush

How to Narrate Your Actions to Stay Present in the Moment

Whether you’re juggling back-to-back meetings, dealing with family chaos, or just craving a little peace, this episode is your gentle reminder to slow down, take a breath, and tap back into the calm that’s always been there—one mindful moment at a time.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:09 How to Reconnect with Your Day and Move with Intention

03:25 Step #1 Take 5 Minute Tech Breaks to Recharge Focus

06:45 Step #2 Pause Emotionally to Regain Clarity

10:47 Step #3 Simplify Your Choices to Avoid Overwhelm

12:47 Step #4 Are You Working on Too Many Things at a Time?

16:01 Step #5 Reset Your Posture to Shift Your Mindset

20:40 Step #6 Time Can Be Your Anchor—Not Your Stressor

24:08 Step #7 Create a Reset Ritual Before Your Next Task

27:56 Step #8 Narrate Your Actions Out Loud to Stay Present

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Have you been pretending to be okay?

Is there something you’ve been keeping inside?

Today, Jay welcomes model, digital creator, and mother of three, Nara Smith, for an intimate conversation that blends vulnerability, wisdom, and humility. Known online for her serene ASMR-style cooking videos and elevated fashion-forward kitchen aesthetic, Nara opens up about the personal journey that shaped her—from her childhood in Germany to signing with IMG Models at just 14. Together, Jay and Nara explore the gap between her curated online image and her lived experience, touching on childhood influences, struggles with body image, and the courage it took to forge a creative career on her own terms.

Nara candidly opens up about the physical and emotional toll of working in the modeling industry at such a young age, the silent battles with her body through eczema and lupus, and how motherhood reshaped her priorities. She shares how cooking from scratch became a lifeline, first as a necessity to manage her health, then as a passion, and eventually as a business. As she and Jay reflect on marriage, communication, and the complexities of being modern, working mom, Nara’s groundedness and clarity shine through. Nara opens up about her love story with Lucky Blue Smith—their whirlwind but intentional path to marriage—and the beautifully messy reality of raising three kids. It’s a powerful reminder that real joy and purpose come from living true to yourself.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Balance Career, Motherhood, and Marriage

How to Heal Through Food and From-Scratch Cooking

How to Set Healthy Boundaries on Social Media

How to Communicate Better in a Relationship

How to Stay Grounded in a Fast-Paced World

How to Know When You’ve Met the Right Partner

How to Handle Online Criticism with Grace

No matter where you are in your journey, whether you’re building a career, navigating relationships, chasing a dream, or simply trying to keep up with life’s daily demands, remember this: you don’t have to fit into anyone else’s mold to be worthy.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:16 Blending a Love for Fashion and Cooking

04:44 The Grandmother Who Shaped Her Life

07:57 Starting a Modeling Career at 14

09:15 How to Put Confidence Before Comparison

10:02 Protecting Kids from the Dangers of the Online World

11:59 How Early Parental Trust Can Fuel Success

12:49 Why You Should Never Sacrifice Your Health

14:03 Finding Real Love in the Digital World

17:01 How Modern Dating Has Evolved

18:55 Making Young Marriage Work

21:51 The Power of Knowing What You Want

23:45 Building a Relationship on Shared Values

26:30 Marriage Is Both Collaboration and Compromise

29:45 Why Fast-Paced Dating Doesn’t Work

30:54 Working Together to Strengthen Your Relationship

33:31 Communication Is Key to Connection

35:56 Becoming a Parent on Your Own Timeline

38:29 Your Life, Your Choices

42:18 Own and Celebrate Your Path

44:05 Don’t Let People’s Projections Define You

47:32 What You See Online Isn’t the Whole Truth

50:02 Facing Online Negativity with Strength

52:05 Other’s Opinions Don’t Determine Your Worth

53:25 Choosing What to Share and What to Keep Private

56:10 How Food and Diet Can Transform Your Health

01:00:29 Finding Joy and Creativity in Cooking

01:01:24 How Her Online Persona Was Born

01:04:05 The Reality Behind the Content

01:06:48 Simple Daily Habits That Strengthen a Relationship

01:09:44 Tackling the Hard Stuff with Joy

01:13:04 Dressing for Confidence and Productivity

01:17:58 Living Life on Your Own Terms

01:20:23 Nara on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Nara Smith | TikTok

Nara Smith | Instagram

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Do you ever feel like you're having the same fight over and over again?

Why is it so hard to be in a relationship with someone who is different from you?

Today, Jay sits down with Dr. Orna Guralnik — the world-renowned clinical psychologist, psychoanalyst, and lead therapist on the hit series Couples Therapy. Known for helping couples navigate the complexities of intimacy, conflict, and emotional patterns, Orna shares the real reason relationships break down — and what it actually takes to build something that lasts.

Jay and Orna explore why couples often blame communication as the root of all their problems, when what’s really breaking them down runs much deeper. They explore how differences in values, backgrounds, and even childhood wounds create invisible barriers in love—and how we often try to solve them by changing the other person instead of turning inward. Orna shares how blame, defensiveness, and scorekeeping keep us stuck in toxic patterns, and what it looks like to show up with more honesty, humility, and curiosity.

Together Jay and Orna unpack the rise of therapy language online—terms like “gaslighting” and “narcissist”—and how misusing them can shut down the kind of open dialogue relationships truly need. They also explore how issues around money, time, and intimacy often point to deeper struggles with power, identity, and emotional safety.

In this interview, you’ll learn:

How to Stop Trying to “Fix” Your Partner

How to Recognize the Real Issue Beneath the Argument

How to Make Conflict a Source of Connection

How to Move from Blame to Responsibility

How to Stay Grounded When Your Values Clash

How to Build a Relationship That Grows with You

Real love doesn’t ask us to become someone else — it asks us to grow into our most honest, grounded self. This episode is a reminder that healthy relationships aren’t about avoiding differences, but about learning how to navigate them with compassion.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Why Couples Really Fight: The Common Core Conflicts

04:02 Facing “Otherness”: What Happens When Your Partner Is Different

06:07 Embracing Differences Without Losing Yourself

10:21 Building a Partnership of Equals During Conflict

16:48 Holding On to Your Value in a Relationship

19:39 Conflicting Loyalties: When Family and Love Collide

25:18 The Art of Working Through Relationship Struggles

30:01 Digging Deeper: Finding the Root of Your Disagreements

33:26 Escaping the Blame Trap in Your Relationship

37:24 Self-Centeredness vs. Shared Growth

43:07 Creating Emotional Safety for Your Partner

49:57 Letting Love In: Are You Truly Ready for Partnership?

55:33 How Men and Women Tend to Navigate Relationships Differently

57:02 Why It’s So Hard for Men to Open Up Emotionally

01:00:59 Listen Closely—People Reveal More Than You Think

01:03:20 When Parental Baggage Shapes Your Relationship

01:06:57 Signs of a Strong and Healthy Relationship

01:13:35 What Really Makes Someone a Bad Partner?

01:18:35 Are You in Love with a Narcissist?

01:22:12 The Money Struggles Behind Relationship Conflict

01:28:46 Intimacy and Desire: What Keeps Love Alive

01:33:25 Orna on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Orna Guralnik | Website

Orna Guralnik | Linkedin

Orna Guralnik | Instagram

Orna Guralnik | Tiktok

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Has anyone ever doubted something you were excited about?

Have you ever felt judged for trying something different?

Today, Jay opens up about one of the most painful yet common experiences: feeling unsupported, unseen, or misunderstood by the people closest to us. He unpacks the psychology behind why others often don’t believe in us, highlighting the “false consensus effect” and the tendency for others to anchor us to who we used to be. But Jay reminds us this isn’t a flaw in our vision, it’s a sign that we’re ahead of the curve.

Jay also dives deep into how true confidence is built—not before we begin, but because we begin. He shares why strangers may become your strongest supporters, how to use resistance as a tool for growth, and why failing in public can be a powerful connector. From the competence-confidence loop to the importance of staying grounded in purpose rather than revenge, Jay outlines seven transformational shifts that can help anyone move from self-doubt to self-trust.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Keep Going When No One Believes in You

How to Stop Seeking Approval

How to Build Confidence Through Action

How to Handle Unsupportive Friends and Family

How to Prove Yourself Right Instead of Proving Others Wrong

No matter where you are in your journey, whether you’re just starting out, stuck in the middle, or feeling like giving up, remember this: you don’t need everyone to believe in you. You just need to believe in yourself enough to take the next step.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:50 #1: Stop Pitching, Start Proving

06:54 #2: Rejection is Often a Protection

11:59 #3: Use Doubt as a Focus Filter

16:33 #4: Strangers are More Likely to Support You

21:15 #5: Create Before You're Confident

25:20 #6: Make Failure Public Strategically

28:08 #7: Focus on Proving Yourself Right

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