Today, Jay reframes how relationships are built—not through surface-level attraction or blind chemistry, but through clarity, communication, and intentionality. He presents nine transformative questions that often go unasked in modern dating, not because they’re unimportant, but because they’re uncomfortable. Jay explains that avoiding these conversations leads to assumptions, unmet expectations, and unnecessary heartache. He underscores that a healthy relationship isn't defined by constant harmony, but by the courage to ask, listen, and grow together.

Blending personal stories, practical wisdom, and psychological insight, Jay highlights how asking the right questions early can reveal compatibility, values, and emotional readiness. He breaks down how these conversations create a shared language, prevent miscommunication, and ultimately strengthen the foundation of any relationship. Rather than using questions as ultimatums or pressure points, he encourages approaching them with curiosity and empathy.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Ask What a Healthy Relationship Means to Your Partner

How to Talk About Fears Around Commitment Without Pressure

How to Discuss Conflict Styles Before an Argument Happens

How to Know If Someone Is Truly Ready for a Relationship

How to Align on Boundaries and Independence in Love

Love doesn’t have to be a guessing game. The more willing we are to ask real questions and embrace honest conversations, the more aligned, peaceful, and fulfilling our relationships can become.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:03 The Conversations We Avoid in Modern Dating

03:36 #1: What Defines a Healthy Relationship?

08:17 #2: What are You Afraid of When It Comes to Commitment?

12:30 #3: How Do You Handle Conflicts?

19:44 #4: What are Your Long-Term Intentions?

22:02 #5: What Does Emotional Availability Mean to You?

25:10 #6: Do You Prefer to Recharge Alone?

27:49 #7: What Does Being Ready Mean to You?

31:30 #8: What Does Independence Look Like to You?

32:52 #9: What Are You Still Healing From?

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Today, Jay sits down with author, artist, and creative mentor Amie McNee for a heartfelt conversation about reconnecting with the artist inside all of us. Known for her honest take on creativity and self-expression, Amie opens up about her journey, from battling self-doubt and shame to finding her voice as a writer and artist. Amie shares real stories of rejection, depression, and learning to embrace imperfection, reminding us that art doesn’t need to be perfect, it just needs to be real.

Jay and Amie explore the common myths that hold people back from creating. The idea that creativity has to be profitable, that art must be perfect to be valuable, or that we need permission to begin. They discuss how shame, perfectionism, and fear of judgment often silence our creative instincts, and how practices like journaling, self-mothering, and small daily acts of creativity can help revive them. They also reflect on the emotional vulnerability of sharing your work, the importance of protecting your inner artist, and the delicate balance between wanting to be seen and creating for the pure joy of expression.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Reclaim Your Creativity Without Shame

How to Make Art When You’re Struggling with Self-Doubt

How to Start Creating Even If You Don’t Feel Ready

How to Deal with Fear of Judgment and Being Seen

How to Turn Jealousy into Creative Motivation

How to Promote Your Art Without Selling Out

Whether someone is writing a novel, posting their first poem, or simply daring to call themselves an artist, this conversation is a gentle yet powerful reminder—they are on the path, and their voice matters.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:49 Are We Born Creative or Can It Be Learned?

02:12 Why Everyone Is an Artist in Their Own Way

03:50 What Happens When You Suppress Your Creativity

06:37 How Journaling and Self-Compassion Can Heal You

08:30 You Owe Everything to the Past Version of You

13:03 How to Move Through the Fear of Being Judged

16:07 Why Art Exposes Both Light and Darkness

17:25 Let Go of Needing External Validation

19:30 Everyone Just Wants to Be Seen and Heard

24:31 Stop Dismissing the Parts of You That Want More

26:28 Stuck in the Wrong Job? Try Small Creative Steps

30:56 How Perfectionism Fuels Procrastination

33:11 Embrace the Beautiful Chaos of Art

34:17 What the 30 Circles Test Reveals About Creativity

36:44 How to Share Your Art Without Losing Yourself

39:07 Real Artists Are Meant to Break the Rules

40:29 What to do When No One Sees Your Art

41:54 If You Hate It, Stop Doing It

44:19 Don’t Chase Virality, Make Meaningful Art

46:40 Yes, You Can Make Money from Your Art

50:10 Every Creative Act Has Value So Honor It

53:12 Charging for Your Art Is Not Selling Out

57:39 Oversaturation Is a Myth, There’s Room for You

01:00:53 Your Voice Is One of a Kind Use It

01:02:25 Use Jealousy to Guide, Not Derail You

01:03:49 How to Inspire Others by Owning Your Path

01:07:12 Amie on Final Five

Episode Resources:

Amie Mcnee | Website

Amie Mcnee | Instagram

Amie Mcnee | Facebook

Amie Mcnee | TikTok

Amie Mcnee | Books

We Need Your Art: Stop Messing Around and Make Something

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Today, Jay welcomes back world-renowned neurosurgeon and neuroscientist Dr. Rahul Jandial for a mind-expanding conversation about memory, attention, and the brain’s incredible potential. Dr. Jandial unpacks the different types of memory and explains why we often forget things like where we left our keys or what we had for dinner. He reassures us that not all memory slips are signs of aging or illness, and shows us how understanding memory can help us feel more in control of our minds.

Jay and Dr. Jandial also dive deep into working memory, the kind of memory that helps us juggle tasks, make quick decisions, and stay mentally sharp. They explore how things like stress, distraction, and even poor sleep can weaken our focus, while simple changes like better digital habits, brain-training games, and quality rest can help us stay mentally strong.

Using relatable examples, from parenting to surgery to driving, Dr. Jandial shares how we can train our brains the same way we train our bodies: with just the right amount of challenge, practice, and consistency.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to Strengthen Your Working Memory

How to Train Your Brain Like a Muscle

How to Handle Emotional Memories Without Being Overwhelmed

How to Protect Your Brain as You Age

How to Spot Early Signs of Dementia in Loved Ones

How to Create a Brain-Healthy Daily Routine

How to Stay Mentally Sharp in a Distracting World

If you're looking to improve your memory, support a loved one, or feel more mentally present, this episode offers practical tools and powerful insights to help you live with greater clarity and intention.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

02:54 Is Your Memory Really Getting Worse?

06:28 What’s Distracting Your Working Memory

10:26 How to Manage Distractions and Stay Focused

13:39 Understanding the 3 Main Types of Memory

19:05 What’s Distracting Your Working Memory

22:43 Why the Right Amount of Stress Helps You Grow

25:22 Yes, Older Adults Can Have Strong Working Memory

29:14 How Memory Is Built Inside the Brain’s Ecosystem

33:16 The Critical Gap Between Thoughts and Actions

35:31 Simple Ways to Train and Improve Your Focus

40:28 Why Negative Memories Stick With Us

48:55 Three Daily Habits That Keep Your Brain Sharp

51:02 Why Therapy Isn’t One Size Fits All

55:18 Redirecting Your Focus Away From Painful Thoughts

58:30 Debunking the 20 Percent Brain Power Myth

01:00:34 What’s Behind the Rise in Cancer Rates?

01:05:15 A Smarter Way to Take Care of Your Mind and Body

Episode Resources:

Dr. Rahul Jandial | Instagram

Dr. Rahul Jandial | Facebook

This Is Why You Dream: What Your Sleeping Brain Reveals About Your Waking Life

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