In this episode of Off the Mats Podcast, I sit down with Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu blue belt and Philadelphia Phenoms owner Lauren Barone for a conversation about competition, leadership, and building something bigger than yourself in the evolving world of professional grappling. Lauren opens up about her early jiu-jitsu journey, the moment she realized she belonged on the mats, and how competing at blue belt has shaped her mindset and identity.

We also dive into her role as a franchise owner in the Professional Grappling Federation, breaking down how the opportunity came about, the risks of stepping into ownership, and what team based grappling offers that traditional tournaments don’t. From balancing athlete life with executive decisions to discussing visibility in women’s jiu-jitsu and the future of sustainable pay and structure for competitors, this episode explores what it really means to lead in a growing sport.

Beyond the mats, Lauren shares how discipline carries into everyday life, how she defines herself outside of jiu-jitsu, and even how her love of horror and sci-fi influences her personality and perspective. This conversation is for grapplers, entrepreneurs, competitors, and anyone trying to reconcile identity with ambition. Be sure to check out https://www.patreon.com/cw/phillyphenoms for team updates and info and head to Instagram and follow @phillyphenoms

In Episode 301 of Off the Mats Podcast, I sit down with Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu grappler and owner of Redwood Jiu-Jitsu, Naomi Davoudian, for a conversation about identity, belonging, and the long arc of growth that comes from staying committed to jiu-jitsu.

We begin with who Naomi is outside of the gym before revisiting her life prior to training, the uncertainty of walking into her first class, and the emotional reality of being a beginner. Naomi reflects on moments where she questioned whether she belonged, how her relationship with jiu-jitsu evolved over time, and how training shaped her confidence, self-trust, and perspective off the mats. We talk about plateaus, invisible progress, longevity versus intensity, and what success looks like beyond belt promotions.

This episode is for grapplers at every level, especially hobbyists and women navigating their place in the sport, who are learning that jiu-jitsu is often less about proving something and more about discovering who you are.

In Episode 300 of the Off the Mats Podcast, I sit down with my original Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu coach, Danny Ives, for a conversation about evolution, longevity, and what the black belt really represents. This isn’t just a milestone episode, it’s a reflection on mat time, consistency, and how jiu-jitsu changes the longer you stay in it.

We break down the differences between old school and new school jiu-jitsu, less information versus the instructional era, fundamentals versus specialization, gym reputation versus online branding, and how competition has evolved from smaller local tournaments to global stages like ADCC. We talk about whether the average blue belt today is more technical, whether fundamentals are being lost, and what each era gets right and wrong.

We also deconstruct the myth of the black belt. Do black belts really win every round? Do they stop learning? What changes technically and mentally after reaching that rank? Danny answers direct questions in our “Ask A Black Belt” segment, covering ego, longevity, training after 40, recovery habits, and what white, blue, and purple belts misunderstand most.

This episode is for grapplers at every level who want perspective, not hype. If you’re chasing improvement, questioning your path, or wondering what long-term jiu-jitsu really looks like, this conversation is for you.

Old school gave us roots. New school gives us branches. The belt is symbolic, but the mat doesn’t care what color you’re wearing.