Why are kids quitting sports at record levels? In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons behind youth sports burnout—and what parents, coaches, and kids are getting wrong.From shocking statistics like 70% of kids quitting by age 13 to the pressure of travel sports, specialization, and rising costs, this conversation dives deep into the hidden factors driving kids away from sports. The guys also explore the difference between team sports vs individual sports, how identity and pressure impact young athletes, and whether quitting is ever the right decision.One of the most powerful moments in this episode centers around accountability—should a parent pull their child from a team for poor attitude, even if the team is winning?If you're a parent, coach, or athlete, this episode will challenge how you think about commitment, failure, and long-term development in youth sports.✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #DadLife #NewDadOrder #YouthSports#KidsSports#SportsParenting#YouthAthletes#ParentingAdvice

In this New Dad Order conversation, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons youth athletes walk away — from rising costs and travel ball pressure to divorce, scheduling conflicts, and parental influence.Is it burnout? Is it money? Or are parents unknowingly pushing kids out of sports?This episode dives into:The true cost of youth sports todayHow divorce and parenting schedules impact commitmentThe pressure kids face from adults and competitionWhy quitting looks different now vs the 80s and 90sWhen it’s okay to quit… and when it’s notIf you're a parent, coach, or former athlete — this is a conversation you need to hear.👇 Drop your experience in the comments — should kids be allowed to quit sports?✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #gymbags #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons kids are quitting youth sports at record levels. From travel ball burnout and parent pressure to time demands and the rise of gaming, we dive into what’s driving this trend—and whether quitting is always a bad thing.We also compare today’s youth sports culture to past generations, discuss rec vs travel vs school sports, and talk about the importance of motivation, coaching, and development.Is this a youth sports crisis—or just reality?#YouthSports #Parenting #KidsSports #NewDadOrder #sportsdebate 🧱 Time Stamp0:00 – Hook (STAT)0:30 – Intro (fast, minimal)1:00 – The Comparison (80s vs now)3:00 – Main Causes-Travel ball burnout-Parent pressure-Time demands7:00 – System Problems Rec vs travel Coaching differences9:00 – Debate Layer Is quitting actually bad?11:00 – Takeaway “Teach commitment… but allow growth”✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #gymbags #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive deep into one of the biggest debates in youth sports today — should kids be allowed to quit?From travel baseball and soccer to burnout, pressure, and parenting philosophies, this conversation breaks down the real reasons kids walk away from sports. Is it lack of passion? Too much pressure? Or are we raising a generation that avoids hard things?Ray shares his firm rule: if you start something, you finish it — a mindset rooted in discipline, accountability, and long-term character building. Meanwhile, the discussion explores real-world scenarios where quitting might actually be the right move, including toxic coaches, unhealthy team environments, and talent mismatches.The episode also dives into:Travel sports culture and year-round commitmentBurnout risks for young athletesThe impact of parents and coaching environmentsWhen quitting is justified vs when it’s a mistakeHow sports build mental toughness and resilienceWhether you’re a parent navigating youth sports or a former athlete reflecting on your own journey, this episode will challenge your perspective and spark real conversations.👍 Like, Subscribe, and Comment your thoughts:Should kids finish what they start… or is quitting sometimes the right move?⏱️ UPDATED TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Intro: Kids & Quitting Sports1:05 – Gym Talk & CrossFit (Relatable Hook)3:30 – Travel Sports Lifestyle Begins5:30 – Winning, Losing & Team Mindset7:30 – Burnout Concerns (Daily Practice)9:15 – “Have Your Kids Wanted to Quit?”11:00 – Finish What You Start Rule13:30 – When Quitting IS Acceptable16:00 – Toxic Coaches, Parents & Environment18:30 – Final Thoughts: Commitment vs Reality20:30 – Wrap Up ✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #gymbags #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait break down a surprisingly popular topic in fitness culture: what’s actually inside a gym bag — and what it says about your training style.Ray represents the traditional gym lifter, bringing practical, affordable essentials like wrist wraps, knee sleeves, boxing gloves, and a classic gym bag setup focused on strength training and consistency. Meanwhile, Parfait dives into the world of CrossFit, showcasing a much more specialized and evolving setup — including multiple pairs of training shoes, grips, lifting belts, mobility tools, and workout-tracking apps like SugarWOD and Wodify.The conversation goes deeper than just gear. The guys explore:The difference between traditional lifting vs CrossFit trainingWhy shoe choice matters more than most people thinkThe balance between support vs dependency (knee sleeves, belts, wraps)How gear can become motivation vs unnecessary expenseThe real cost of fitness and whether it’s worth itThey also touch on performance tips like proper footwear for deadlifts and squats, grip strength, injury prevention, and how to prepare for different types of workouts.This episode blends humor, real-life experience, and practical advice for dads, athletes, and anyone trying to stay in shape. Whether you're just starting your fitness journey or deep into training, this breakdown will make you rethink what you carry—and why.💪 Bottom line: It’s not just what’s in your bag… it’s how committed you are to showing up.✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #gymbags #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the world of fitness, gym culture, and the never-ending debate between CrossFit training and traditional weightlifting.Ray shares his return to the gym after a break, talking about rebuilding momentum, leg day routines, and the importance of consistency. From hack squats and leg extensions to ego lifting and HIIT training, the conversation explores the different ways people approach working out—and the mistakes many gym-goers make along the way. Parfait brings the CrossFit perspective, explaining the structure of CrossFit workouts, what a WOD (Workout of the Day) actually means, and why so many athletes are drawn to the competitive element of group training. One of the most powerful themes of the episode is discipline and accountability. Parfait shares how CrossFit gyms create a built-in accountability system through class schedules, group workouts, and community. Ray explains how simply “getting through the gym door” is often the hardest step when building a new fitness habit.The conversation also touches on:Why kids today struggle with basic fitness skills like jumping ropeThe rise and evolution of CrossFit since the early 2000sThe importance of setting a healthy example for your kidsOne of the standout moments comes when Parfait talks about how his son expects him to come home from the gym every morning—showing how kids learn discipline by watching their parents.If you enjoy conversations about fatherhood, fitness, discipline, and personal growth, make sure to like, subscribe, and follow the New Dad Order Podcast for more weekly episodes.⏱️ New Dad Order Episode 47 – Timestamps (46:00)0:00 Intro – Back In The Gym1:25 Ray’s Gym Streak Begins3:20 Leg Day Routine Explained5:10 What Is A Hack Squat?7:00 CrossFit vs Traditional Gym Training9:10 The Brutal Echo Bike Challenge11:00 What Actually Counts As Cardio?13:05 Ray’s HIIT Training Method15:10 Gym Fashion & Modern Gym Culture17:20 Ego Lifting Confessions19:45 Why Form Matters More Than Weight22:00 Do People Respect CrossFit?24:20 The CrossFit “Shed Behind The Gym” Joke26:40 Inside CrossFit Community & Partner Workouts29:10 What Is A WOD? (Workout Of The Day)31:30 CrossFit Pull-Ups & Intensity34:00 Teaching Kids Fitness Basics36:10 Why Kids Can’t Jump Rope Anymore38:00 Fitness Discipline & Accountability40:20 Setting The Example As A Dad42:10 Why Competition Motivates Adults44:00 Ray vs Echo Bike Challenge45:20 Outro – Like, Subscribe & New Dad Order✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #DadLife #NewDadOrder

Youth sports are supposed to build character — but what happens when adults let ego get in the way?In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the reality of travel baseball, toxic coaching, parenting regret, and leadership in youth sports.Parfait shares a wild travel baseball tournament story involving a coach who crossed the line during a 10U game — and how moments like that give travel sports a bad reputation. He also talks about stepping back into the dugout, coaching with intention, and watching his 10-year-old son grow in discipline, confidence, and accountability.Ray opens up about something even deeper — regret. After coaching travel basketball, he reflects on moments where his desire to win overshadowed development, including a tough moment involving his daughter. The conversation dives into ego coaching, “daddy ball,” playing time politics, and how easy it is for parents to justify bad behavior in the name of competition.The guys also explore:Toxic coaches vs real leadershipWhy effort should matter more than raw talentHow to coach different personalitiesTravel sports vs rec league cultureThe impact of Kobe Bryant’s “Mamba Mentality”Lessons from the Redeem Team documentaryRaising kids who advocate for themselvesThis episode isn’t just about sports. It’s about fatherhood, humility, growth, and building mentally strong kids without crushing their spirit.If you're a sports parent, coach, or dad trying to lead better — this conversation is for you.✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #travelsports #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the Super Bowl from every angle — the defensive battle on the field, the controversial Bad Bunny halftime show, and the redemption arc of Sam Darnold going from draft disappointment to Super Bowl champion.

Was the game really boring… or just old-school football? Did the halftime show deserve the social media outrage? And is Roger Goodell quietly pushing the NFL toward a global takeover with international games in Paris and Australia?

The conversation also dives into:
• Sam Darnold’s comeback journey and NFL draft expectations
• NFL global expansion and what it means for players
• Super Bowl commercials and marketing trends
• AI misinformation, media narratives, and online outrage culture

From football analysis to cultural commentary, this episode unpacks how the Super Bowl has become more than just a game — it’s a cultural event that sparks debate long after the final whistle.

New Dad Order brings real conversations about sports, fatherhood, media, and modern culture — without the script.

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✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order