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How can a parent who is alienated from their children strengthen the BOND they have with those children? By letting the kids know they TRUST them.

Kids want to be trusted. They are wired to respond to trust. Being trusted makes them feel good about themselves, and about the person who trusts them. Trust strengthens their BOND with the parent who trusts them. And -- children as young as 12 months start figuring out who they CAN and who they CAN'T TRUST.

That is what Professor Kang Lee, an expert in the study of lying and cheating, and his colleagues found after extensive research. He says using positive reinforcement like TRUST — instead of negative reinforcement , like threats - encourages kids to be honest, and cooperate. And more importantly, it develops a bond between parents and their children.

Prof. Lee is a global expert on the topic of deception, and has studied lying and cheating for the past 30 years. He is in the Department of Applied Psychology and Human Development at the Ontario Institute for Studies in Education at the University of Toronto. He is the Tier 1 Canada Research Chair in Moral Development and Developmental Neuroscience.

He says the trend of “helicopter parenting” so common among alienating parents, actually tells children they are not trusted and they lose self-efficacy.

Finally, hear what he says about whether people can ever accurately tell when a person is lying to us……and that includes if JUDGES are able to detect when someone is lying to them. This is critical information for alienated parents who turn to the justice system for help.

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Many Parental Alienation experts say that parents who alienate a child or children from their other parent often have a personality disorder, such as narcissistic personality disorder or NPD. In this episode, Jacqueline introduces us to Charlotte, a mother who was raised by a narcissistic parent and then found herself in a relationship with a narcissistic partner who tried to alienate her from their children.

Jacqueline and Charlotte discuss the classic behaviors of narcissists, the red flags that often get ignored in the early stages of a relationship with a narcissist, how narcissists typically seek out empathic and emotionally strong partners, and how narcissists will always behave unreasonably with their partners to maintain control in the relationship. The constant disequilibrium and drama means the narcissist’s target cannot take care of their own needs but is always working to appease the narcissist and lower the drama.

As Charlotte explains, being partners with a narcissist is like a firefighter being married to an arsonist – while you’re putting out the sofa, they are setting fire to the drapes. And they will constantly create problems that are unsolvable to wear you down completely to the point where you cannot even take care of yourself. Charlotte reminds us that we must pay attention to how others make us feel, and if they make us feel badly about ourselves, that is someone to avoid.

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Jacqueline introduces us to the concept of Parental Alienation, when a child is influenced by the other parent or parental figure to reject their parent. We learn how Parental Alienation (PA) is different from estrangement, when a child has a justifiable reason to reject a parent. She reviews the Five Factors that define PA and help determine if a child’s rejection is justifiable (due to abuse or poor parenting), or whether it’s a case of alienation.

Jacqueline shares new language and new concepts she has developed about “targeted” parents and “preferred” parents to empower parents who have been unjustly alienated from their children.

We meet Maya, a mother who has been alienated from her children for 6 years. She describes how painful and confusing being alienated from one’s children is, and how the alienation usually extends to the entire rejected parent’s side of the family. They review the 17 alienating behaviors identified by clinicians and researchers that alienating parents engage in to destroy the relationship between a child and their other parent. Jacqueline and Maya discuss how isolating alienation is, and how this podcast will bring helpful information and a sense of community to empower parents who feel all alone in this painful situation.

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