This week’s planned episode didn’t feel right to release.

So I recorded a solo reflection on collective grief, exhaustion, and how we keep showing up — for ourselves and for one another — when the world feels heavy.

One breath at a time.

Are you pushing because it’s time to push—or because you think you’re supposed to?

In this episode, Nancy and Nicole explore the difference between force and flow—in work, relationships, money, health, and even the seasons of our lives. Using everything from puzzle pieces to travel calendars to Starbucks coffee decisions, they unpack how alignment, values, and intuition often matter more than effort.

This is a real conversation about recognizing when something fits… and having the courage to stop forcing what doesn’t.

Perfectionism is sneaky. Sometimes it looks like integrityand high standards. Other times, it looks like procrastination, over-editing, people-pleasing, or avoiding hard conversations altogether.

In this episode, Nancy and Nicole explore where perfectionism comes from, how it shows up differently in the doing parts of life versus the being parts, and why “done” often beats “perfect.”

They talk about creativity, relationships, conflict avoidance, group support, and even a surprisingly revealing go-kart racing experience.

If you’ve ever:

• Talked yourself out of sharing something because it wasn't "ready"
• Been harder on yourself than you'd ever be on someone else
• Believed getting it just right might protect you from discomfort or disappointment

... this conversation is for you!

Goals can motivate—or completely shut us down. In thisepisode, Nancy and Nicole unpack their complicated relationship with goals and share a more human, flexible way to think about direction, growth, and progress.

When your battery hits 1%, everything feels harder — the decisions, the expectations, the people you love, even the basics.

In this episode, Nancy and Nicole unpack what real self-care looks like in a full, busy life.

This isn’t spa days and bubble baths. It’s the everyday practices that help you notice your limits, honor your capacity, and make small shifts that restore your energy.

We talk about why so many women feel depleted, the stories we tell ourselves about rest, how to set better boundaries, and the micro-moments that make a meaningful difference.

If you’re feeling stretched thin or overwhelmed, this conversation will help you reconnect, recalibrate,and give yourself the care you actually need.

In this episode, Nancy and Nicole pull back the curtain on how they really approach business planning — and why traditional “binder-based” planning has never worked for them.
If thick planners, spreadsheets, and color-coded tabs make you want to change careers, you’re in good company.

And if you're NOT an entrepreneur or in real estate, there are some gold nuggets of insight for you, too!

They unpack:

Why rigid business plans often shut people down

How personality, neurodivergence, and values shape the waywe plan

The role of energy, alignment, and consistency

Why “one-size-fits-all” planning leaves so many agentsfeeling like failures

What they actually do to stay grounded, intentional, and successful

Whether you’re Team Binder or Team“I lost the binder,” this episode will help you create a business plan that actually fits your life.

✨ Connect with Us

Instagram:• Nancy — @nancy.chapin.seattle• Nicole — @nicolemangina

YouTube:• https://www.youtube.com/@nancy.chapin• https://www.youtube.com/@NicoleMangina

Websites:• Nancy — https://www.nancychapinspeaks.com• Nicole — https://successperspective.com

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Nancy and Nicole get real about the holidays—expectations, blended families, grief, boundaries, “experiences vs. stuff,” and what it means to move through a tender season with more honesty and compassion. They talk about mismatched holiday traditions, grown kids and shifting plans, decorating disappointments, what happens when you bulldoze your vision onto everyone else, and how to show up with more communication and care. If this time of year feels tender, complicated, or just a lot, this conversation will make you feel less alone.Follow along: • Nancy on Instagram: @nancy.chapin.seattle• Nicole on Instagram: @nicole_manginaLet us know if you want to join our joint email list to keep up with upcoming events.• Watch episodes on YouTube: – Nancy’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/@nancy.chapin– Nicole’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/@NicoleManginaWork with us / Connect: • Nancy — Real Estate & Speaking: https://www.nancychapinspeaks.com • Nicole — Coaching & Real Estate: https://successperspective.comThanks for listening. Please like, subscribe and share! We’re glad you’re here.

Like so many, Nicole’s life has been a beautiful winding path that she never could have anticipated. Each experience has added to her story - whether living in Europe while her Dad was in the military, earning a nutrition degree, building a thriving real estate practice or speaking about the power of our own energy and mindset to create amazing businesses that feel aligned (meaning we can make great money AND have a life).Through all of it, Nicole remains fascinated by the way the stories we tell ourselves shape the world we experience. And the magic that comes when we chose to shift the ones that no longer serve us. In this episode, Nicole shares some of her own stories.Follow along:• Nancy on Instagram: @nancy.chapin.seattle• Nicole on Instagram: @nicole_manginaLet us know if you want to join our joint email list to keep up with upcoming events.• Watch episodes on YouTube:– Nancy’s channel: / @nancy.chapin – Nicole’s channel: / @nicolemangina Work with us / Connect:• Nancy — Real Estate & Speaking: https://www.nancychapinspeaks.com• Nicole — Coaching & Real Estate: https://successperspective.comThanks for listening. Please like, subscribe and share! We’re glad you’re here.