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My Cotton Patch Moment

My Cotton Patch Moment

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 My Cotton Patch Moment is a motivational, comedic podcast that is about listening to your inner voice and knowing when to change directions. It's about believing that no matter the circumstances we are born into, we are not stuck there. We can determine our destiny if we are willing to work for it. My name is Mildred J. Mills. I am a writer, motivational speaker, wife, mother, grandma, and the third of seventeen children. I was born and raised on a sixty-acre cotton farm in Wetumpka, Alabama. Join me on this journey of self-discovery and reflection and hopefully, you will share with me some of your Cotton Patch Moments!2023, Mildred J. Mills Développement personnel Réussite personnelle Sciences sociales
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    • The Sentence Beyond the Sentence: How Parental Incarceration Harms Children and Families

      The Sentence Beyond the Sentence: How Parental Incarceration Harms Children and Families
      Feb 4 2026

      In this season four finale of My Cotton Patch Moment, I reflect on a season that examined incarceration not as an abstract policy issue, but as a lived reality for children and families. Throughout these conversations, one truth remained constant: children do not serve the sentence, but they live with it.

      This season centered the voices of formerly incarcerated parents, advocates, educators, judges, and lawmakers who revealed how incarceration disrupts families, pushes children out of classrooms and into the justice system, and disproportionately harms Black and Brown communities through harsher systems—not higher criminality. We explored the ripple effects of parental incarceration, from foster care and kinship placement to shame, school pushout, and generational trauma.

      As the season closes, I return to a question that continues to challenge me: What if we funded hope the way we fund harm? This episode calls us to rethink child welfare and justice as family-centered, community-led, and rooted in dignity. Because when children are kept safely connected to their families and communities, outcomes change—and healing becomes possible.

      Three Key Takeaways

      Children Live With the Sentence

      Parental incarceration creates long-term emotional, educational, and social harm for children—often shaping their lives well into adulthood.

      Family Preservation Matters

      Keeping parent-child bonds intact during incarceration supports rehabilitation, reduces recidivism, and strengthens reunification—especially when communities are engaged.

      Hope Is a Strategy, Not a Feeling

      Real reform requires honesty, accountability, and investment in family-centered solutions that restore trust and protect children.

      Why Listen

      If you care about children, families, justice reform, or racial equity, this finale brings together the most powerful lessons of the season and challenges us to imagine a more humane way forward—one rooted in hope, community, and care.

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      This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father's farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years.

      You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy's House: A Daughter's Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" and when her new book, The Hope Club, publishes here.

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      If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces:

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      Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word.

      The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay.

      Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.
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      23 min
    • Beyond The System: Michael C. Williams On Reforming Child Welfare With Vision And Heart

      Beyond The System: Michael C. Williams On Reforming Child Welfare With Vision And Heart
      Jan 21 2026
      In this episode of My Cotton Patch Moment, I sit down with Michael C. Williams, the newly appointed Child Welfare Director for Oklahoma Human Services and a nationally recognized leader in child welfare reform. With more than 25 years of groundbreaking service—from Connecticut to Oklahoma—Williams has reshaped how systems engage families, uplift communities, and preserve parent-child relationships in moments of crisis. Williams shares the sacred encounter that pulled him into child welfare work: a 12-year-old boy killed by police—after the state had lost track of him for six months while he lived next door to his mother. That moment became a calling, leading Williams to reform child protection systems from the ground up, center racial justice, and build real partnerships with families, faith communities, and grassroots organizations. We explore how his approach to family preservation—especially for incarcerated parents—motivates rehabilitation, reduces recidivism, and safeguards the parent-child bond. Williams explains why kinship care, father inclusion, and community engagement are critical to child safety and well-being, and why systems must acknowledge harm, rebuild trust, and lead with humanity. Williams also shares his own cotton patch moment: recognizing that hope is not just emotional—it's scientific. The "Science of Hope," now embedded in Oklahoma's child welfare work, demonstrates that when families are given hope, outcomes change. For Williams, this shift is redefining how he leads, partners, and serves communities across the state. This conversation challenges us to rethink child welfare—not as punishment, but as partnership—and reminds us that children thrive when communities, not just systems, take responsibility for keeping them safe, connected, and loved. Three Key Takeaways Compassion Is a Justice Issue Williams demonstrates that maintaining parent-child relationships during incarceration motivates rehabilitation, decreases recidivism, and leads to stronger reunifications—particularly for fathers who begin parenting for the first time inside prison walls. Supporting Families Strengthens Communities Children do better when they stay connected to people they know. Kinship care, family preservation, and community engagement help children stay grounded, supported, and stable while parents work to rebuild their lives. Real Reform Requires Honesty and Hope Systems must acknowledge past harm, build authentic partnerships, and embrace approaches that center dignity and the science of hope. Real change is possible when policy is matched with compassion and community care. Why Listen If you care about child welfare, juvenile justice, racial equity, family preservation, or what it truly means to serve communities with dignity, this episode will expand your understanding. Michael C. Williams offers rare insight into how system reform, compassion, racial justice, and community action intersect—and why keeping children safely connected to their families is not idealistic, but essential. Connect With Michael C. Williams Oklahoma Human Services Website: https://oklahoma.gov/okdhs 📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖 This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father's farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years. You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy's House: A Daughter's Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" and when her new book, The Hope Club, publishes here. 📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖 If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces: Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook X Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word. The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.
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      41 min
    • Behind the Bars: Representative Rhonda Taylor on Reform, Reunification, and Restoring Mother's Dignity

      Behind the Bars: Representative Rhonda Taylor on Reform, Reunification, and Restoring Mother's Dignity
      Jan 7 2026
      In this episode of My Cotton Patch Moment, I sit down with Georgia State Representative Rhonda Taylor, a dedicated advocate for women, families, and justice reform. Representing District 92 in Rockdale County, Representative Taylor shares how poverty, hunger, and survival often push mothers into the criminal legal system—even as overall incarceration rates decline. She reminds us that behind every statistic is a woman trying to care for her children, and that second chances must remain central to justice. We explore Georgia's efforts to bring dignity to incarcerated mothers, including House Bill 345, which prohibits shackling and solitary confinement for pregnant and postpartum women. Representative Taylor explains why policy alone is not enough and why families and communities must be informed of their rights. Together, we discuss the ripple effects of maternal incarceration on children, grandparents, and caregivers—and the urgent need for compassion, proper funding, and humane reform. Representative Taylor also shares her own cotton patch moment: answering a reluctant call to public office and discovering that real change happens when state resources meet community care. This conversation challenges us to see incarcerated mothers not as statistics, but as human beings worthy of dignity, connection, and restoration—and reminds us that justice rooted in compassion benefits us all. Three Key Takeaways 1. Compassion Is a Justice Issue Representative Taylor makes clear that underfunded systems and emotional numbness inside prisons create lasting harm. Compassion—from lawmakers, correctional staff, and communities—can interrupt cycles of trauma and incarceration. 2. Supporting Mothers Supports Children and Society When mothers are incarcerated without adequate prenatal care, postpartum support, or family connection, the damage extends to children and future generations. Humane policies and reunification programs are investments in long-term community wellbeing. 3. Real Change Requires Both Policy and People Laws matter, but they only work when communities are informed, engaged, and supported by nonprofits, faith leaders, and everyday citizens willing to "pay it forward." Why Listen If you care about justice reform, maternal health, family preservation, or what it truly means to turn pain into purpose, this episode will move you. Representative Rhonda Taylor offers rare insight into how legislation, compassion, and community action intersect—and why restoring dignity to incarcerated mothers restores hope for us all. Connect With Representative Rhonda Taylor 🌐 Website: https://www.rhondastaylor.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rhonda.taylor.7528 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rhonda-taylor-56428830/ 📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖 This podcast is hosted by Mildred J. Mills. Mildred writes raw and poignant stories describing monumental highs and devastating lows as she takes her reader and listener on a journey of laughter and tears. Mildred survived a childhood of picking cotton on her strict, domineering father's farm and thrived in a male-dominant IT industry for forty years. You can find Mildred's memoir, "Daddy's House: A Daughter's Memoir of Setbacks, Triumphs & Rising Above Her Roots" and when her new book, The Hope Club, publishes here. 📝👧🏽👩🏽🧓🏽📖 If you would love to connect with Mildred, join her in these following spaces: Website LinkedIn Instagram Facebook X Have you been inspired by this Cotton Patch Moment? If so, Mildred encourages you to leave a review, comment, email and tell her about it! Also, share this episode with someone you love. You never know who needs to hear an inspiring word. The music and sound effects for this episode came from Epidemic Sound, Soundstripe and/or Pixabay. Crackers In Soup is the audio editor and producer for this episode.
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      34 min
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