Summary

In this episode, host Monica Patrice interviews Keanu Jackson, a therapist based in Brooklyn, New York. Keanu shares his upbringing in a nurturing home and the lessons he learned about his identity as a black man. He discusses his journey in understanding masculinity and queerness, emphasizing the importance of creating safe spaces for emotional expression. Keanu also explores the intersectionality of being black and queer, highlighting the challenges and complexities that come with it. He shares his personal awakening and the motivation behind his work in supporting others' mental health. Keanu Jackson discusses the discrimination and assumptions he faced growing up in his community and how it led him to pursue a career in social work and therapy. He focuses on supporting queer, black, and brown individuals in building better relationships with their bodies through sex therapy and internal family systems therapy. Keanu emphasizes the importance of understanding the mind-body connection and how societal messaging and shame can impact our mental health. He encourages individuals to explore options for self-care and compassion and to challenge societal norms and expectations.

Takeaways

Growing up in a nurturing home with supportive parents can have a profound impact on a person's understanding of their identity.

Masculinity is a complex concept that can be influenced by societal expectations and personal experiences.

Queerness is a unique and multifaceted experience that encompasses freedom, authenticity, and the ability to exist outside societal norms.

Being black and queer are interconnected aspects of one's identity, and they should not be separated or compartmentalized.

Creating safe spaces for emotional expression is crucial for individuals to feel seen, heard, and supported.

The intersectionality of being black and queer can present unique challenges and complexities, and it requires navigating multiple layers of identity.

Supporting mental health involves creating safe and inclusive environments where individuals can explore and express their authentic selves.

Personal awakenings can lead to a desire to support others in their mental health journeys and make a positive impact in their communities. Discrimination and assumptions based on appearance can lead to targeted behaviors and discrimination against individuals.

Keanu Jackson pursued a career in social work and therapy to support his community and individuals with similar experiences.

He focuses on helping queer, black, and brown individuals build better relationships with their bodies through sex therapy and internal family systems therapy.

Understanding the mind-body connection is crucial for mental health, and societal messaging and shame can impact our relationship with our bodies.

Exploring options for self-care and compassion and challenging societal norms and expectations can lead to liberation and healing.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Keanu and his Story

04:00 Understanding Masculinity and Black Manhood

07:09 The Importance of Emotional Nurturing

16:07 Exploring Queerness and Authenticity

22:03 The Intersection of Blackness and Queerness

25:50 Navigating Mental Health and the Mind-Body Connection

29:02 Building Better Relationships with Our Bodies

32:56 The Role of Consent and Self-Compassion in Healing

36:37 Challenging Societal Norms and Shame for Personal Growth

42:29 Understanding the Mind-Body Connection for Mental Well-being