Dr. Dustin Alley shares insights on the discipline of focus and the impact of fragmented attention on productivity and peace. He emphasizes the importance of order, directed attention, and the stewardship of focus. The conversation explores the economic case for focus, the value of depth, and provides a framework for a more focused life.

Takeaways

• Discipline of focus
• Peace precedes productivity

Chapters

• 00:00 The Stewarded Focus Framework

The conversation explores the themes of intentional living, relationship with Jesus, and the impact of technology on relationships. It delves into the importance of intentional actions, the significance of movement in purpose, and the dangers of comparison and busyness. It also emphasizes the need for intentional communication and interaction in relationships.

Takeaways

• Intentional living is crucial for building meaningful relationships.
• The impact of technology on relationships and the importance of setting boundaries.
• The significance of movement in purpose and the dangers of comparison and busyness.

Chapters

• 00:00 Living Intentionally and Purposefully
• 07:17 The Impact of Technology on Relationships
• 14:03 The Dangers of Comparison and Busyness
• 22:03 Intentional Communication and Interaction in Relationships

The podcast hosts discuss the concept of focus and obedience in the context of their personal experiences and faith. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing and aligning with God's will, as well as the challenges of distractions and overcommitment. The conversation delves into the themes of time management, decision-making, and the significance of waiting for God's guidance.

Takeaways

• Focus and obedience are essential for aligning with God's will.
• Prioritizing and saying no to distractions are crucial for effective time management.
• Waiting for God's guidance and seeking wisdom through prayer are important aspects of decision-making.

Chapters

• 00:00 Consistency and Inconsistency in Podcasting
• 06:40 Scope Creep and Time Management
• 13:20 The Importance of Prioritization and Obedience
• 21:56 Seeking Wisdom and Waiting for Guidance

In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen continue Season 2 by exploring what it means to have a heart that is truly set on God. Building from Chapter Two of Becoming a Man After God, they introduce the idea of “heart set” versus mindset—arguing that while the mind may be easier to manage, the heart is what ultimately shapes who we become.

Through the life of George Müller, Dustin and Luke examine what surrender looks like in real life, especially when obedience requires stepping away from what is safe, expected, or culturally approved. They discuss faith as an action, not just a belief, and wrestle honestly with the tension between trusting God and trying to meet your own needs. The conversation challenges men to stop living on autopilot, stop blaming circumstances or counsel for inaction, and instead live with a heart fully surrendered to God’s leading.

The episode closes with a strong call to personal responsibility, cheerful obedience, and giving God not just your behavior—but your heart.

00:00 Season 2 introduction and the concept of “heart set”
00:48 Why the heart is more dangerous—and more powerful—than the mind
01:30 “You are what you love” and how affection shapes identity
02:22 Chapter Two overview and why it’s so short
03:33 What was missing from the chapter and lessons learned after publishing
04:55 George Müller’s life and the challenge of living by faith
06:24 Faith as action, not just surrender language
08:56 Safe paths versus surrendered paths
10:23 Getting out of God’s way and unbelief as an obstacle
11:22 Seasons, obedience, and when God changes direction
13:30 Müller’s story of provision and God’s “royal” supply
14:38 When we meet our own needs and credit God anyway
15:51 Faith, surrender, and unique personal battles
16:18 Why your walk with God cannot be borrowed from someone else
17:11 Owning your story, suffering, and responsibility
18:10 Obedience over counsel when God is clearly leading
20:02 Suffering, growth, and surrendering what “ought to be”
20:25 Faith that can’t be tested can’t be trusted
22:48 Personal obedience and resisting people-pleasing
23:47 God’s Word over the “easy button” of leadership
24:20 Emotions, logic, and cheerful obedience
25:28 Final challenge: surrender your heart, not just your actions

• Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley
  https://a.co/d/iA5BV3q
• George Müller and a life lived by faith (historical reference)

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen continue Season 2 by diving into Chapter One of Becoming a Man After God. They reflect on the joy of recording together again, share gratitude for the Men After God community and Patreon supporters, and explain the renewed direction of the ministry—producing free, accessible content while staying surrendered to where God is leading.

The conversation centers on what it truly means to be a “man after God’s heart” by examining the life of David. Rather than viewing David as a flawless spiritual hero, Dustin and Luke unpack how David’s identity was shaped by repentance, humility, and persistent pursuit of God—even in failure. They challenge the idea that background or upbringing determines spiritual potential and emphasize personal responsibility, repentance, and ownership as key markers of spiritual maturity.

The episode closes with a direct challenge to men: stop blaming your past, take responsibility for your walk with God, and recognize that your relationship with Him will only grow as deep as your willingness to repent.

00:00 Welcome back, Season 2 energy, and recording together again
01:06 Gratitude for Patreon supporters and the Men After God community
03:30 Vision for Season 2 and introducing the “Becoming” series
03:56 Why Chapter One matters: From History to His Story
05:14 Who the book is for—and why it applies beyond men
05:45 What Dustin wishes he had added to Chapter One
08:09 David’s life, failure, and the myth of spiritual perfection
10:00 What “a man after God’s heart” actually means
11:26 Pursuing God vs. achieving fulfillment
13:30 Why there is no finish line apart from God
14:50 The advantage New Testament believers have through the Holy Spirit
17:13 Becoming is a choice, not a personality trait
17:43 Repentance, responsibility, and owning your life
20:13 Why repentance is the gateway to restoration
21:32 Final thoughts and closing encouragement

• Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley
  https://a.co/d/iA5BV3q
• Group facilitation guides for the book (free PDFs available by request)
  📧 dustin@menaftergod.net
• Riverside FM for podcast recording
  https://riverside.fm
• The Diary of a CEO podcast
  https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEO

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen talk about why most New Year goals die fast and what to do instead. They unpack the difference between setting goals and building daily disciplines, then pull back the curtain on the origin story of Dustin’s book Becoming a Man After God. Dustin shares how a season of overload pushed him to the edge and how one question shifted everything from doing things for God to learning how to do life with God. Together, they challenge men to prioritize what matters, build rhythms that protect their walk with Christ and their families, and pursue holistic stewardship that includes spiritual, mental, and physical health. They close with a simple reflection tool that turns listening into action so growth becomes real and repeatable.

Chapters

00:00 Why goals die by January 5 and why daily agenda matters
02:01 Dustin’s goals and the action plans behind them
04:48 Spiritual goals at home and intentional discipleship with kids
05:26 Luke’s goals, Working Genius, and teaching core principles to children
07:12 Why Dustin wrote Becoming a Man After God
08:55 The overload season, the warning signs, and the breaking point
13:30 The five part framework that shaped the book
18:00 Who you are becoming and how decisions shape identity
20:37 Discipline, rhythms, Daniel 1, and the power of small choices
23:42 Why you never arrive and why that is the point
27:56 Holistic stewardship and why spiritual, mental, and physical are connected
29:59 Reflection questions that turn content into change

Resources mentioned in this episode
Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley - https://a.co/d/5KZkPq0
Working Genius assessment and certification - https://www.workinggenius.com/
John Beasley, Mind and Body Fitness - https://mindandbodystrength.com/
Greater Oaks Foundation and Spartan fundraiser - https://fundraise.spartan.com/page/Dustin-26972750
Dustin’s Airbnb in Kissimmee Florida - https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/1569707871787434572?source_impression_id=p3_1767051701_P35rKxpUcJYzGAiH

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In this episode of the Men After God podcast, Dustin Alley and Luke Sorensen kick off Season 2 by looking back on what God did in Season 1 and casting vision for what is next. They talk honestly about real life constraints, why they are shifting toward shorter episodes, and how the goal stays the same: serve men, strengthen families, and equip leaders with practical, biblical help. A major focus is Dustin’s book Becoming a Man After God and how churches can use it as a mens ministry resource through the included group facilitation guides. They also highlight the value of reflection after listening, the need for rest as worship, and how God sometimes leads by stopping you, not just by accelerating you.

Chapters

00:00 Season 2 kickoff and life updates
04:39 Season 1 recap, wins, losses, and what God taught them
10:23 Vision for Season 2 and the shift to shorter weekly episodes
13:06 Overview of the book Becoming a Man After God and the five principles
22:02 How to use the book and facilitation guides in a mens ministry or Bible study
28:58 The 15 minute format and how to turn listening into action
34:36 Valleys, being stopped by God, and the book Deeper
38:10 Shout outs, non sponsor promotions, and ways to connect

Resources mentioned in this episode
Becoming a Man After God by Dustin Alley -https://a.co/d/iA5BV3q
Group facilitation guides for the book, available by request as free PDFs - dustin@menaftergod.net
Deeper by Dane C Ortlund - https://a.co/d/ft43HrK
Riverside FM for recording - riverside.fm
Men of Valor Ministries - https://www.movministries.org/
John Beasley, Mind and Body Fitness - https://mindandbodystrength.com/
Huberman Lab podcast - https://www.hubermanlab.com/podcast
The Diary of a CEO podcast - https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEO

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Title: Episode 20 – Raising Kids at An Older Age With Guest Shane Padgett

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Join Shane and Dustin as they discuss being successful in business/ministry while raising children. We will dive into topics such as battling anger in parenting and learning to humble ourselves and apologize to our children.

Shane is the co-host of the Male Cartel Podcast. Be sure to check out his podcast! Links to his social and podcast are in the show notes.

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Timestamps:

· Shane’s Story

· 15:50 Family Development

· 21:20 Shane Mo-Money Padgett

· 23:50 Balancing family and business

· 29:40 Having a thriving faith and family

· 34:35 What causes anger in the home?

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Quotable Quotes:

• “I treat every day as if this is the last day.” -Shane
• “With my family we're in it together and we do it all together.”
• “The best thing you can give your kid is their mom or dad chasing Jesus with everything they’ve got.” -Shane
• Your kids need to see you love their mom and support their mom.” -Shane
• “Discipleship is not just a program your church operates. It's supposed to be a relationship you have with other believers.” -Dustin
• “Don't ever think you're too big to apologize to your kids.” -Dustin

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Resources

· “Male Cartel” Podcast:

o https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/male-cartel/id1699875966

o https://www.youtube.com/@MaleCartel

o https://www.facebook.com/malecartel

· Connect with Shane on social: @ShanePadgett

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