What if the fastest way to solve an argument in your marriage isn’t more communication—but simply naming your emotion out loud?

Evan Money and Susan Money reveal the surprisingly powerful strategy that can deliver instant breakthroughs and transform your relationship from good to great.

Key highlights include:

• Susan Money shares a relatable story about recognizing her “ticky attitude” in the kitchen—and how identifying the real cause (she was just hot!) led to immediate clarity and peace.
• Evan Money dives deep on how naming the emotion without blame or victimhood releases tension and inspires positive action.
• The hosts discuss practical ways to break the habit of masking emotions with pleasure or distractions, and how asking better questions gets you to the root of your feelings.
• Evan Money opens up about his own emotional roots stemming from childhood experiences and describes how clarity leads to freeing action.
• The episode ends with actionable advice: how to use this tool to stay on track, avoid heated arguments, and build a marriage full of intentional romance and understanding.

Timestamped episode overview:

• 00:01

  : Naming the emotion for an instant breakthrough

• 00:31

  : Meet Evan & Susan and the Marriage of Greatness philosophy

• 02:06

  : The prehab vs. rehab mindset and introduction to emotional guardrails

• 02:59

  : Susan’s personal kitchen story—identifying the emotion and shifting it

• 04:46

  : Getting to the root of emotions vs. masking them

• 06:28

  : Evan’s deep dive into discovering his emotional root

• 10:37

  : The magic of naming emotion aloud and practical takeaways

• 12:14

  : Final reminders and episode wrap-up

Ready for instant clarity and a more intentional marriage? Tune in now and discover the secret power of naming your emotions!

Susan and Evan dive deep into the three essential ingredients every marriage needs to move from good to great: clarity, confidence, and readiness. Drawing wisdom from mindset articles, classic movie moments (hello, Rocky III!), and their own experiences, they share practical questions and actionable steps to help you and your spouse create lasting connection and growth.

Hear how intentionality—like scheduling date nights first, making bold decisions, and embracing growth opportunities—can transform your relationship. Discover why "romance doesn’t die, it loses its caretakers," and leave empowered to take your marriage to the next level, no matter where you’re starting.

If you’re ready to be the best caretakers of your romance, strengthen your partnership, and grow together—this episode is for you! Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and check out MarriageOfGreatness.com for more inspiration.

"What Are Your Defining Moments," Evan and Susan dive deep into the key turning points that have shaped their extraordinary marriage journey—including their one-of-a-kind proposal, their annual tradition of remarrying in a different state or country, and their intentional pursuit of growth as a couple.

Discover how embracing defining moments, cultivating a growth mindset, and choosing intentionality every day can transform your relationship. Evan and Susan share personal stories, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement to help you go from good to great in your marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, you'll find inspiration and actionable advice to create more meaningful moments together.

Subscribe for more real-life stories and tools for building a Marriage of Greatness!

Learn more about Evan & Susan’s journey to 100 weddings at EvanLovesSusan.com and MarriageOfGreatness.com.

What’s the one thing that Hollywood’s most enduring couple swears was never an option—and how did it shape nearly five decades of marriage?

In this can’t-miss episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Susan Money and Evan Money welcome powerhouse duo Kathleen Cooke and Phil Cooke. From co-founding global media initiatives to weathering literal storms apart and together—from LA to Tennessee—the Cookes share the unfiltered truths behind 49 years of marriage, family, faith, and career hustle.

Key Highlights:

• Kathleen Cooke

  reveals why laughter and faithfulness are her secret weapons for a lasting relationship.

• Phil Cooke opens up about embracing change, selective hearing, and why intentionality matters more than fleeting emotions.

• The couple describes swapping Hollywood for Franklin, Tennessee, how the move redefined their identity, and the surprising perks of Southern living (think: tax breaks and church-friendly weather reports!).

• The most valuable marriage advice they’ve received (and the guardrails that keep them on track), plus how their family legacy shaped their view of commitment.

• Phil’s memorable birthday surprises for Kathleen—including hot air balloon adventures and Italian escapes.

• Genuine, practical encouragement for couples at any stage: Why you should never “leave the movie early” and how caring is even deeper than loving.

If you’re looking for wisdom, lots of laughs, and marriage truths you won’t hear anywhere else, this episode delivers.

00:00-00:36 – Meet Phil & Kathleen Cooke; setting the stage for intentional, authentic marriage conversations.

00:37-02:08 – Hosts share background; Evan and Susan’s connections to Kathleen & Phil, introduction to their accomplishments.

02:09-04:16 – Funny reflections on 49 years of marriage, being married longer than single, and what that milestone means.

04:17-05:59 – Their professional and personal history: Salvation Army, Influence Women, and maintaining strong friendships.

06:00-09:07 – Top three things they are grateful for in each other: laughter, leadership, independence, focus, and faithfulness.

09:29-11:03 – Outgrowing expectations: career shifts, staying open to new ways, and learning from grandchildren.

12:28-14:12 – Migration from LA to Tennessee: adapting, building new community, and processing change.

14:13-15:47 – Letting go of Hollywood identity, finding purpose in the present, following God’s nudge to never look back.

15:50-16:30 – Tennessee’s financial and lifestyle perks.

16:37-19:32 – The marriage advice that shaped them: divorce wasn’t on the table, learning from others’ mistakes, and building guardrails.

21:06-24:31 – Impactful stories from Hollywood; Kathleen’s moment with a top publicist and the power of commitment.

25:01-27:46 – If their lives were a movie: “Up in the Air,” starring Jacqueline Bissett and Jack Nicholson/Barney Fife.

28:03-31:21 – Bear duty in Steamboat Springs: Phil leaves Kathleen and Joel Osteen on a snowy mountain for an epic TV moment.

31:39-33:14 – Best gifts given: children, hot air balloon birthday breakfast, Italian adventures, and surprise memories.

35:05-39:34 – Encouragement to couples: intentionality, caring vs. loving, “don’t leave the movie early,” and becoming one over time.

39:50-40:45 – Changing through marriage: how to accept and adapt to growth and physical changes with age.

40:59-42:29 – Closing remarks, resources, and heartfelt thanks.

Timestamped Episode Overview

What if the secret to preserving your family’s wealth is the same as building an extraordinary marriage? In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Susan Money and Evan Money uncover a jaw-dropping link between family wealth transition and marital success—revealing a five-step framework that impacts generations and relationships alike.

Drawing inspiration from a powerful article by John Moore, a leader in faith-based financial planning, this episode dives deep into the infamous three-generation rule (where 70% of family wealth is lost by the third generation) and unpacks why the same pitfalls that sabotage fortunes also derail marriages. Evan Money and Susan Money walk you through Moore’s five steps: communicate, adjudicate (make formal decisions), communicate, activate (take action), and—once again—communicate, showing how these aren’t just for handing down assets but are essential for creating a thriving, enduring partnership.

From practical tips like setting up family meetings and writing down decisions, to managing energy and intentional communication in marriage, you’ll learn how to sidestep disaster and instead build harmony and success. Hear how Susan Money and Evan Money use weekly “couch dates,” formal family contracts, and the power of daily small steps to sustain growth in both wealth and love. Plus, find out why action—no matter how small—creates momentum, and how reframing your mindset can make challenges easier to navigate.

Key highlights include:

• The shocking three-generation wealth loss statistic and its parallels in marriage
• The five-step process for successful wealth (and relationship) transition, with communication being the vital thread
• Real examples from the Moneys’ own marriage: weekly meetings, setting formal agreements with family, and holding space for intentional conversation
• A powerful mindset reframe from a foster youth on making life less hard
• Practical, actionable steps YOU can try in your own relationship, starting today

Want to break the cycle and become a caretaker of both fortune and romance? Start with this episode!

Episode Overview:

• 00:00:01 – Introduction: What do family wealth transition and a marriage of greatness have in common?
• 00:02:18 – The three-generation rule—why family wealth often disappears, and what can be done
• 00:03:07 – The five steps: communicate, adjudicate, communicate, activate, communicate—and why communication is the biggest factor
• 00:07:07 – Applying the five steps to marriage (from getting married to living as partners)
• 00:08:45 – Communication tools in action: holding space, managing bandwidth, and making appointments to talk
• 00:11:17 – Making formal decisions as partners and as parents (including tenant contracts with grown kids)
• 00:14:51 – The importance of follow-up, refining decisions, and brainstorming as a couple
• 00:16:23 – The magic of taking action: building habits, writing a book, and embracing the marathon of marriage
• 00:20:10 – Small daily steps for big results—why sustainability trumps drastic change
• 00:21:36 – Step five: communicating about growth, embracing challenges, and reframing your mindset
• 00:24:41 – Action steps for listeners: put what you’ve learned into practice today!
• 00:25:05 – Outro and how to connect with Marriage of Greatness

What if your marriage is being sabotaged by a double standard you don’t even realize you’re buying into?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage of Greatness with Susan Money and Evan Money, the duo tackles the subtle yet powerful ways double standards can creep into and disrupt relationships—often without us knowing. From “grace for me, justice for you” moments, to classic societal issues like parenting perceptions and the lingerie shop dilemma, Susan Money and Evan Money share honest reflections and a lot of laughs as they explore how these conflicting expectations show up in their own lives and marriage.

The episode pinpoints two simple but revolutionary communication tools: “How much bandwidth do you have?” and “What I heard you say is…”—practical phrases that can instantly transform your connection and turbo-charge clarity. Listeners will hear real-life stories (wait until you hear about the late-night Mandalorian helmet reveal!) and get a candid look at how even seasoned couples like Susan Money and Evan Money are always learning and growing.

Key Highlights:

• The surprising double standards couples unconsciously uphold
• Why grace is easily given to ourselves but not always to our spouse
• How asking about “bandwidth” can fix most miscommunications before they happen
• Why marriage doesn’t improve with age—it gets better with effort
• The classic “men are assertive, women are bossy” dilemma and other double standards
• Real stories from Susan and Evan’s own family, plus a fun closing challenge that could revolutionize your marriage

Timestamped Overview:

• [00:00:01] Kick-off: Are you buying into a double standard?
• [00:01:35] Inspiration from Apostle Paul—grace and patience in marriage
• [00:02:26] Evan’s confession: Giving more grace to himself than to his bride
• [00:03:35] “Grace for me, justice for you” illustrated with everyday examples
• [00:04:22] Communication breakdowns and the power of clarity
• [00:05:18] The “what I heard you say…” communication technique
• [00:06:20] How exhaustion and low blood sugar impact couples
• [00:08:09] Bandwidth check-in: A life-changing question for partners
• [00:10:24] Little annoyances become big problems—prehab vs. rehab
• [00:11:35] Parenting teens: When they test your bandwidth at 1:30 am
• [00:12:33] Why age does NOT make you better at relationships
• [00:14:25] Fun with double standards: Bossy women, parenting, dinner, and lingerie
• [00:17:02] Closing: How will you put these lessons into action?
• [00:17:36] Outro and where to follow Evan and Susan’s journey to 100 weddings

Ready for a marriage that’s about greatness, not just longevity? Press play—and challenge yourself to spot (and stop) the double standards in your own life.

What if the secret to a thriving marriage is hidden in a Super Bowl champion’s advice about knee surgery? Shocked? You won’t be after this episode!

In MOG Episode #106 - "Get Out of Rehab Mode," Susan Money and Evan Money dive deep into how Tom Brady’s guidance to Patrick Mahomes on sports rehabilitation contains powerful lessons for couples looking to elevate their relationships—revealing why so many marriages get stuck in “rehab mode” after arguments and how to break free into joyful growth.

Listeners are invited to trade the slow, painful recovery from relational hurts for an all-in commitment to clarity, responsibility, and joy. The hosts passionately explore actionable ways to stop dragging out the drama, hit the reset button, control your actions, attitude, and mindset, and step fully into a marriage of greatness. From hilarious mall-map analogies to simple, life-changing resets ("boop!"), Susan Money and Evan Money share personal stories, faith-based wisdom, and practical strategies to help you go from good to great—no perfection required, just an all-in commitment.

Key Highlights:

• Why clarity and responsibility are foundational to marriage growth
• How to stop living in the past and face your marriage’s reality—no shame, no fantasy
• The game-changing difference between "rehab mode" (damage control) and "joyful growth mode"
• How to use tiny shifts—like stopping mid-conversation and resetting—to transform communication
• The biblical perspective on being “all in” versus perfect
• The importance of a teachable heart and practical tips to let go of limiting beliefs
• Personal anecdotes (yes, including cold plunges!) bringing these principles to life

Timestamped Overview:

• [00:00:01] – The episode opens with a challenge: "Get out of rehab mode."

• [00:00:17] –

  Evan Money

  shares his goal of 100 weddings by his 100th birthday.

• [00:02:08] – Tom Brady’s advice to Patrick Mahomes inspires a conversation on marriage recovery and growth.

• [00:03:00] – The critical importance of clarity—"You are here…"

• [00:04:13] – Taking full responsibility for your marriage’s condition.

• [00:05:09] – Three things you can control: actions, attitude, and mindset.

• [00:06:12] – Prayer as action, attitude, and mindset.

• [00:06:58] – The difference between rehab mode and training (joyful growth) mode in marriage.

• [00:09:41] – Simple reset strategies to transform communication.

• [00:11:56] – The need for all-in commitment—not perfection.

• [00:14:04] – Developing a teachable heart for faster, lasting change.

• [00:15:28] – Cold plunge analogy: Why partial involvement isn’t enough.

• [00:16:14] – Action steps: Write down your takeaways and discuss them with your spouse.

Ready to break out of the cycle and grow joyfully together? Tune in for this episode packed with energy, wisdom, and hope for every couple who wants more than just marriage survival—get ready for Marriage of Greatness!

What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn’t about being perfect—but about “breaking boundaries” through vulnerability, honest role-playing, and truly going all-in… no matter how different your backgrounds?

In this episode of Marriage of Greatness, hosts Evan Money and Susan Money pull back the curtain for an unfiltered, deep-dive conversation with powerhouse couple Percy Thaba and Ashley Thaba—missionary leaders impacting marriages across Africa. You'll be surprised by what you'll discover about marriage, faith, culture, and perseverance.

Key Highlights:

• The Thabas get raw about the real challenges (and sometimes hilarious realities) of navigating menopause, overwork, and marital conflict resolution strategies—including the role-playing techniques they swear by.

• Hear how Ashley, a Southern belle from Georgia, and Percy, a Botswana native, overcame staggering cultural and familial differences, building a ministry together that defied all odds.

• Discover powerful lessons on balancing personal ambition, family needs, and spiritual calling—plus why “all in” is the only way for marriages to thrive.

• The couples get candid about money, pride, forgiveness, and why learning to say “we” instead of “me” changed everything.

• Stay for the fun twist: who would play Percy and Ashley in a Hollywood film about their wild, boundary-breaking journey? (Hint: Denzel Washington makes a cameo.)

Sprinkled throughout are actionable takeaways, laughter, and hope-filled wisdom for every stage of marriage—even when breaking the glass ceiling means giving it all away for a higher purpose.

Episode Timestamped Overview

• [00:00:02] Meet Percy and Ashley Thaba—how an unexpected connection led to this powerhouse interview.

• [00:01:05] Welcome & vision—learn why this podcast is more than your average marriage interview.

• [00:02:19] The backstory—how a Southern belle and a Botswana native build a life & ministry together.

• [00:05:15] Top 3 things they appreciate most about each other—truth bombs and sweet surprises.

• [00:11:09] Discerning God’s will vs. personal ambition—lessons from the “balloon and string” analogy.

• [00:16:13] Real talk about resentment, role play, and conflict resolution.

• [00:24:09] The power of grace—why giving space to process matters in love.

• [00:27:06] Breaking the taboo: Navigating menopause and intimacy after 20+ years.

• [00:31:01] Workaholism, boundaries, and the tyranny of the urgent—finding balance for the whole family.

• [00:39:08] Creating rhythms for connection—mission-driven marriage and parenting through seasons.

• [00:43:03] Biggest marriage advice—how expecting complexity and “role playing” built a foundation stronger than their differences.

• [00:45:38] Finances, identity, oneness, and the power of “we.”

• [00:56:11] Hollywood dream cast—who’d play Percy and Ashley?

• [01:02:29] Where to follow the Thabas’ work and an invitation for marriage breakthroughs.

Get ready for radical honesty, laughter, and a masterclass in “Marriage of Greatness.”