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Patrick and Cindi Pistelli share how to hold on when life doesn't slow down, offering comfort and practical wisdom for navigating seasons of emotional overload and transition. They discuss finding peace amidst chaos through trusting God's presence and learning to release control.

• Recent transitions including a new job, children moving, and high school graduation creating a state of emotional overload
• The importance of self-care in the middle of chaos rather than waiting for life to slow down
• Letting go as children grow up and trusting that we've prepared them well
• The unique challenge of vulnerability in ministry positions
• Breaking down overwhelming tasks into manageable pieces
• Finding stillness to hear God's voice during life's storms
• Remembering that our peace and rest matter - "there's no award for burnout"

If you're in a season of emotional overload and ready for support, Cindi is opening spaces for new coaching clients. Visit our website or social media links in the show notes to learn more about working with her through this season.

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Cindi shares her deeply personal journey of losing her identity after quickly remarrying, moving to a new town, and becoming a stepmom. Patrick joins the conversation as they explore the silent grief of starting over and how Cindi finally found her way back to herself.

• Cindi describes the rapid life changes: selling her home, moving to Patrick's house, changing her daughter's school, and losing her independence
• The struggle of becoming known primarily as "Patrick's wife" in a small town while feeling like she was "renting space" in his world
• How Cindi kept her office an hour away because it felt like "the last thing that was still mine"
• The breakthrough that came through coaching certification, helping Cindi uncover buried grief and reconnect with her values
• Patrick's perspective on watching his wife struggle and feeling helpless to fix the situation
• Cindi's decision to create a home office in her grandparents' old shed – bringing something with deep roots into her new life
• The growth that comes through difficult seasons and how these experiences can help others facing similar challenges

If you're finding yourself in that in-between space where life looks fine on the outside but you feel lost inside, reach out. You're not selfish for wanting something that's yours. You're not too old or too far gone, and it's definitely not too late.

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We explore the complex journey of reconciling our long-held dreams with our evolving core values, using my personal Florida dream as a lens to understand divine refinement of our goals.

• When two beautiful dreams pull in different directions
• When goals don't align with your core values, your soul will resist - that's not failure, it's feedback
• Our brains often protect us from the unknown through procrastination and delay
• Discerning between red flags and just unfamiliar terrain requires alignment, grit, and consistency
• Finding ways to reshape dreams instead of abandoning them completely
• Taking your vision and laying it before God with open hands rather than demands
• Using journaling to clarify thoughts and reveal what's truly in your heart
• Refining dreams is about aligning them with truth, not shrinking them

Take 20 minutes this week to sit quietly with God and ask Him to help you with your vision. Journal your dream and evaluate whether it aligns with your values, season, purpose, and peace.

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