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In this episode, Brian and Heather from Love How Deep discuss the impact of small issues on marriage rather than the large, dramatic events. They emphasize the importance of 'bearing with each other' and addressing grievances in a loving and forgiving manner. Referencing Colossians chapter 3, verse 13, they explore the concept of enduring difficulties and forgiving as the Lord forgave. The discussion includes practical examples, like communicating grievances directly and handling forgiveness even when the other party is unaware of the hurt they caused.

They also talk about letting go of anger and trusting God to handle justice. The episode wraps up with an encouragement to utilize their online course on forgiveness for couples looking to strengthen their relationship.

00:00 Introduction: The Little Things in Marriage

00:55 Understanding 'Bearing with Each Other'

03:11 Presenting Grievances in Marriage

05:58 The Challenge of Forgiveness

10:58 Conclusion and Resources

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In this Love How Deep episode, hosts Heather and Brian explore the biblical scripture from 2 Corinthians 9:6-7, traditionally associated with financial generosity, and reinterpret its application within the context of marriage.

They emphasize 'sowing seeds' of spiritual fruit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—into marital relationships.

The discussion highlights the reciprocal nature of giving generously to one's spouse and the significance of doing so cheerfully. They also touch on the importance of communication and prayer in nurturing a healthy marriage, offering additional resources like their communication workbook for couples seeking to enhance their relationship.

00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes

00:17 Reinterpreting the Verse for Marriage

00:45 Sowing Seeds in Marriage

02:11 The Fruits of the Spirit

04:24 Challenges and Deeper Issues

05:35 Deciding to Give Cheerfully

11:10 Communication and Final Thoughts

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Letting Go of Past Mistakes in Marriage | Lessons from John 8

In this episode of 'Love How Deep,' hosts Brian and Heather delve into the challenges of bringing up past mistakes in marriage conflicts. They reference the biblical passage from John chapter 8, where Jesus addresses the woman caught in adultery.

Through this story, Brian and Heather draw parallels to marital relationships, emphasizing the importance of avoiding holding past mistakes over one's partner and instead practicing forgiveness and understanding. They discuss three key lessons from the passage: redirecting condemnation both inwardly and towards one's partner, the power of de-escalation during an argument, and establishing a constructive path forward to prevent future conflicts. The episode concludes with recommendations for practical strategies to de-escalate arguments and maintain a healthy relationship.

They also introduce their online course on forgiveness, featuring six modules, 14 videos, and several worksheets designed to help couples deepen their understanding and practice of forgiveness within their marriage. The course is currently available at a discounted price, and they encourage viewers to invest in it for the benefit of their relationships.

00:00 Introduction and Today's Topic

00:31 The Story of the Woman Caught in Adultery

02:08 Relating the Story to Marriage

03:46 Redirecting Condemnation in Relationships

06:42 The Power of De-escalation

09:56 Creating an Action Plan for Change

11:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts