In this episode, Rayna Boychuk (Self Love Lounge) and I sit down to talk about why it’s time NOW for women to embrace our full feminine expression.

This is a call to action for women to get over the passive, repressed style of communication and become comfortable speaking truth, because we recognize that this is the greatest act of love - for ourselves and for humanity.

Rayna shares her personal story and ‘why’ behind the work that she does with women, why nervous system work is so critical for those of us on the path of initiation, and where we are at in the relationship between men and women.

We cover SO MUCH more - debunking the myths around what ‘feminine’ is, why it’s triggering, and the need for women to fully own our gifts and power (because nobody else is going to do it for us).

There is also a great discussion on the need to move out of constant ‘healing’ to balance it out with action and moving forward.

There are so many potent gems in this one - let us know what you think.

Rayna is a mentor and guide for women ready to activate their soul mission and step into embodied leadership, wealth, and sovereignty. Through her work on nervous system stability, identity, and self led business, she helps women build lives of freedom and sustainable power in a rapidly changing world.

Rayna’s website: www.theselflovelounge.ca

Rayna’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/raynamarieboychuk

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About me:

My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships.

For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups. I help people who are done with repeating the same patterns over and over again, and want love and connection built on a healthy, stable foundation.

Book a Free Intro Call:

https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

Join the Community:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

In this episode with the prolific, wise and beautiful Ayesha Ophelia, we chat about the current state of love, relationships, men and money - speaking about a wide array of topics like masculine-feminine polarity, shadow work, spirituality vs ground level relationship skills, and so much more.

Ayesha Ophelia is a spiritual teacher, author, and creative visionary working at the intersection of mythology, embodiment, and cultural renewal. She is the founder of Humanities, an online unlearning platform equipping visionaries with the tools to bring their dreams into reality, and the author of The New Romantics. Through immersive experiences and intimate groups, she guides artists and visionaries to expand their voice, power, and presence.

Connect with Ayesha:

https://www.theunlearningportal.com

https://www.ayeshaophelia.com

https://www.instagram.com/ayeshaophelia/

https://www.youtube.com/@ayeshaophelia—

About me:

My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups. I help people who are done with repeating the same patterns over and over again, and want healthy love and connection built on a secure foundation.

Book a Free Intro Call:

https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

Join the Community:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

In this episode, I speak to the Upper Limit Problem that so many of us face in our relationships and life at large. This phenomenon is when we have a ceiling of how much goodness, love, etc we can actually handle - and then we unconsciously block these blessings to bring our nervous systems down to a level that it feels more comfortable.

A simple way to think about it is self-sabotage.

The Upper Limit Problem is an invitation for us to expand our nervous system’s capacity to hold MORE goodness rather than becoming dysregulated and creating problems to bring the energy down.

It’s one of the most empowering things EVER when we can begin to become conscious of the natural pulsation of this universal law of ascent and descent, so that we can avoid dysfunctional ways of trying to regulate our energy.

The thing is, we can expand our capacity for the good, and we actually must do this if we are interested in growing and evolving past our set point. This is not just about having a better life, it’s directly tied into our soul’s evolution - and life is constantly trying to give us the opportunities to do this work.

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About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. I am devoted to creating the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth.

Book a Free Intro Call + Learn More:

https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

Join the Visionaries community:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

This is foundational work! I cover passive, aggressive, and assertive communication styles, and how we can move towards the healthy, mature middle way, weaving in some of my own journey along the way.

Healthy, open, and loving communication is the cornerstone of all of our relationships. This work cannot be overstated.

Please listen, and comment with how this lands. I’d love to hear.

Opening to Love: 2/22 Workshop

https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/1998hwqyqwsk

Start Here (Beginner’s Guide):https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

Alchemy of the Heart:

https://www.love-evolved.us/alchemy-of-the-heart-course.html

The Visionaries Community:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

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About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. I am devoted to creating the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth.

Visit my website here to connect and go deeper:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

Sexuality has been divorced from love, and we need to bring these two things back together in order to restore harmony to the planet.

They have been severed for a reason, and it is not in service to the greater good of humanity.

This is way more than just something that would be nice to have - it represents a huge key in the healing and evolution of human relationships, and therefore, humanity at large.

This is a message that is so close to my heart, and was emotional for me to record!

In this episode, I share how sexuality became distorted when it was separated from love, which led to the creation of two polarized camps:

* Sexuality is wrong/bad/shameful and needs to be suppressed, or

* Sexuality should be indulged in an anything-goes culture.

I speak about an integrated third way that represents a major path forward for relationships and human evolution - when we remember how sacred this exchange is and how it can be one of the deepest and most profound expressions of love, as embodied devotion.

What are your thoughts on this topic - do you feel the difference when love + sex are present? And does it make sense how critical this reunification really is to heal our relationships, and the world at large? Let me know in the comments below.

Resources and Links Mentioned:

The New Era:

https://www.love-evolved.us/the-new-era.html

Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women:

https://www.love-evolved.us/healing-the-relationship-between-men-and-women.html

Towards Sexual Sovereignty

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/towards-sexual-sovereignty-the-alchemical

Start Here

https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

The War on Love, Sex + Relationships

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/the-war-on-love-sex-relationships

Sexuality Generates the Frequency of the Planet

https://the-visionaries-le.mn.co/posts/teaching-library-sexuality-generates-the-frequency-of-the-planet

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About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. I am devoted to creating the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth.

Visit my website here to connect and go deeper:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

Are All Relationships Meant to Last Forever?

I’m sharing the hardest lesson in relationships that I’ve had to learn so far.

This is a tender episode, but is a topic that I feel is so important for us to talk about.

What are your thoughts and feelings about this topic?

Are relationship endings a ‘failure?’ Or is there another perspective?

I’d love to hear what you think, either in the comments below, or through private message or email.

Links Mentioned:

Start Here

https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

The Path to Divine Union (Stage 1, 2 +3)

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/the-war-on-love-sex-relationships

Inner Union, Alchemy, and Healing the Relationship Between Men + Womenhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-evolved-conscious-relationships-with-leigh-anne/id1589898399?i=1000730312420

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About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m a psychologist and breathwork teacher specializing in relationships. I am especially devoted to healing the relationship between men + women, and creating the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.

Visit my website here:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

Welcome to Season 3 of the podcast! I had a huge past week with what felt like a true birth, the class that I taught on Healing the Relationship Between Men and Women was massive. I can’t not mention it here.

This class is a culmination of 11 years of walking the path both personally and professionally, working directly with over 1000 clients as a psychologist on this very topic.

We’ve been gathering in groups to talk about this work and heal together in real time in The Visionaries community, but whether you choose to join us or not, this class has some major take aways for you to put into practice, now, in your life.

You’ll know if you’re here for this mission of healing the relationship between men + women.

Most of the people in my world who are attracted to this work really are!

This material covers the big picture from a spiritual picture of why this work is important now than ever, as well as ground level practical implications for us to work with, with me sharing every piece of the puzzle that I know.

I do a deep dive into mother and father wounds, power dynamics, masculine and feminine energy, inner union, differences as complementary energies, and the divide + conquer strategy.

LINKS MENTIONED:

Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women (3.5 hour class):

https://www.love-evolved.us/healing-the-relationship-between-men-and-women.html

If you’re a member of The Visionaries, it’s posted here:

https://the-visionaries-le.mn.co/posts/teaching-library-healing-the-relationship-between-men-women

If you’re not a member, but want to join us, click here:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

My Story, Part 1 + 2:

Alchemy of the Heart

https://www.love-evolved.us/alchemy-of-the-heart-course.html

My two favorite relationship books:

Conscious Loving

https://www.amazon.com/Conscious-Loving-Co-Commitment-Gay-Hendricks/dp/0553354116

How to Be An Adult

https://www.amazon.com/How-Adult-Psychological-Spiritual-Integration/dp/0809132230

Email List (at bottom of website)

https://www.love-evolved.us/

I often say this is not a path for the weak-willed, and the truth is that people usually come to this work after they have tried everything else possible.

It is the moment of initiation, surrender, and sometimes, the dark night of the soul.

While this path is risky (to the ego and to the status quo of our lives!) it is also the greatest gift that I have been given in my life and leads to true liberation.

This episode describes this in greater detail and will be a good orientation to see if this work is truly for you.

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RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED:

Start Here (an intro of who I am and what the path is)

The Visionaries Community

The Wayshowers Mentorship

The Channel

Luminosity (Group Program - Sagittarius Season)

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About me:

My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m devoted to the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth through relationships. and we are the visionaries of the new paradigm, the people going first.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb