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What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure?

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation.

We break down:

• What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t)
• How sexual energy can be used for intention, confidence, and change
• Why pleasure isn’t just instant gratification—it’s power
• How to start if masturbation feels awkward, shame-filled, or unfamiliar
• Whether you need to orgasm for the practice to work
• Why this matters especially for women navigating trauma, midlife, or desire shifts

Even if you don’t believe in manifestation, you’ll still get orgasms out of it.
And you might rethink what pleasure is really for.

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Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong.

This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing.
It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection.

In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they should.

You’ll learn:

• Why attraction dies when desire gets turned into hesitation
• How to express interest in a way that feels confident and safe
• What overstaying the moment does to desire (and why less really is more)
• How presence, timing, and responsiveness matter more than performance
• Why attraction isn’t about convincing someone — it’s about how you show up

These aren’t manipulation tactics.
They’re behavioral shifts that create clarity, tension, and genuine pull — without pressure, games, or crossing boundaries.

If you’ve ever wondered why things start strong but lose heat,
or why connection doesn’t always turn into desire,
this episode will change how you understand attraction — and how you move inside it.

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This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast.

For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening.

But what happens when we stop whispering?

In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Doherty, the bold voice behind Miseducated, to talk about what women really say about sex when you’re not in the room — and why it changes everything when we take the mic.

We dive into:

• The orgasm gap and why it still exists
• Pegging, anal equality, and rewriting the sexual script
• Why women fake orgasms (and why it hurts everyone)
• How speaking openly about sex transforms relationships
• What men need to understand about female pleasure

This isn’t just about women talking about desire.
It’s about rewriting the rules of sex — for everyone.

If you’ve ever wondered what women really think about sex… this episode is your invitation to find out.

Check out Tash's Intimacy Journal Here: https://www.tashdoherty.com/shop

Find her on Substack: https://misseducated.substack.com/

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Touching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how breast pleasure actually works.

We’ll talk about:

• why grabbing and squeezing too fast shuts her body down
• how timing and pressure matter more than intensity
• when nipple stimulation feels good — and when it doesn’t
• how to tell if her body is opening or bracing
• and how to make breast play feel grounding, erotic, and deeply pleasurable

This episode is explicit, educational, and focused on real bodies — not porn scripts or performance pressure.

If you want breast play to feel better, more connected, and more arousing for both of you, this is where to start.

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With the Epstein files back in the headlines, many people are noticing a shift in desire and connection. This unscheduled drop explores how collective stories of abuse and betrayal impact the nervous system — and why libido is often the first thing to go quiet when safety feels uncertain.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why desire can shut down during moments of collective trauma
• How the nervous system responds to perceived threat
• Recognizing triggers as they happen in the body
• How to protect your relationship with pleasure without forcing it
• Why intimacy doesn’t belong to abusers — it belongs to us

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Two years ago, this topic became one of my most-listened-to episodes—so we’re bringing it back.

In Part 2, I’m joined by two sex-positive women from different age groups to answer the questions men keep asking and go deeper than before.

We cover:

• What women actually think about penis size
• Why confidence matters more than length
• How oral, grinding, toys, and anal play often matter more than penetration
• Common mistakes that quietly kill desire
• Real, practical tips for having great sex regardless of size

We also kick things off with a clear, medically accurate guide to measuring penis length and girth, because many men think they’re “small” when they’re not.

Honest. Sex-positive. No shame—just real talk.

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Why do so many women lose interest in sex—and why is the blame so often placed on them?

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, Annette is joined by Dr. Trina Read to unpack what women are really saying when they say, “I just don’t want sex anymore.”

We talk about:

• Why low desire is often a reasonable response, not a personal failure
• How pressure, routine, and male-centric sex shut down arousal
• What’s happening in the body and mind during long-term relationships
• Why orgasms alone don’t guarantee satisfying sex
• Small, practical shifts that help women reconnect with desire

This episode is for:

• Women questioning their libido
• Partners who want to understand what’s beneath the surface
• Anyone tired of being told to “fix hormones” instead of fixing the experience

By the end of this conversation, you’ll have a clearer, shame-free framework for understanding women’s desire—and how to start changing it.

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In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best.

And I want to be clear right from the start:
This episode exists because my audience voted for it.

Every week, I run a poll on my YouTube channel where you help decide which how-to I cover next.
If you want a say in future topics, make sure you’re subscribed on YouTube and signed up for my e-newsletter—that’s where the voting happens.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How angle, pacing, and connection dramatically change orgasm likelihood
• Three positions that support female orgasms without relying on speed or force
• How to use eye contact, sensual touch, and clitoral stimulation without breaking flow

This episode is for women, their partners, and anyone tired of feeling like orgasms are random, rare, or out of reach.

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