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What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure?

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation.

We break down:

• What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t)
• How sexual energy can be used for intention, confidence, and change
• Why pleasure isn’t just instant gratification—it’s power
• How to start if masturbation feels awkward, shame-filled, or unfamiliar
• Whether you need to orgasm for the practice to work
• Why this matters especially for women navigating trauma, midlife, or desire shifts

Even if you don’t believe in manifestation, you’ll still get orgasms out of it.
And you might rethink what pleasure is really for.

You can find Venu Here: https://www.venusohara.org/

You can order her book Orgasmic Manifestation Here: https://www.venusohara.org/orgasmic-manifestation

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Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong.

This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing.
It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection.

In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they should.

You’ll learn:

• Why attraction dies when desire gets turned into hesitation
• How to express interest in a way that feels confident and safe
• What overstaying the moment does to desire (and why less really is more)
• How presence, timing, and responsiveness matter more than performance
• Why attraction isn’t about convincing someone — it’s about how you show up

These aren’t manipulation tactics.
They’re behavioral shifts that create clarity, tension, and genuine pull — without pressure, games, or crossing boundaries.

If you’ve ever wondered why things start strong but lose heat,
or why connection doesn’t always turn into desire,
this episode will change how you understand attraction — and how you move inside it.

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This Talk Sex With Annette topic takes the show back to its roots when it was just a girl's sex talk podcast.

For too long, women’s most honest conversations about sex have happened in whispers — in group chats, locker rooms, and over wine when no one’s listening.

But what happens when we stop whispering?

In this episode, I sit down with writer and pleasure activist Tash Doherty, the bold voice behind Miseducated, to talk about what women really say about sex when you’re not in the room — and why it changes everything when we take the mic.

We dive into:

• The orgasm gap and why it still exists
• Pegging, anal equality, and rewriting the sexual script
• Why women fake orgasms (and why it hurts everyone)
• How speaking openly about sex transforms relationships
• What men need to understand about female pleasure

This isn’t just about women talking about desire.
It’s about rewriting the rules of sex — for everyone.

If you’ve ever wondered what women really think about sex… this episode is your invitation to find out.

Check out Tash's Intimacy Journal Here: https://www.tashdoherty.com/shop

Find her on Substack: https://misseducated.substack.com/

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