In this episode, we sit down with Sky Blue Kutchie, certified relationship, intimacy, and sex therapist and pleasure advocate, for an honest conversation about desire, connection, and the myths that keep so many people stuck. We unpack what really impacts libido, why “bad sex” is often a signal of disconnection, and how intimacy can deepen and evolve with age. Sky also breaks down the spectrum of sexuality and what ethical non-monogamy actually requires when you want to do it with care.

This is a grounded conversation for anyone who wants more clarity, less shame, and a healthier relationship with pleasure.

We cover:

• What shapes libido beyond hormones, including stress, nourishment, and emotional safety
• Why aging does not automatically mean less desire, and what can shift for the better
• How to identify bad sex and what it is really telling you
• How to communicate needs and desires without spiraling into shame or defensiveness
• Sexuality as a spectrum, and why identity and desire can evolve over time
• What ethical non-monogamy requires, including preparation, boundaries, and ongoing communication
• How mindfulness strengthens presence, sensation, and connection

If you’ve been questioning your libido, feeling disconnected, or wanting a more honest way to talk about intimacy, this episode will help you name what’s happening and take the next step with more confidence.

Guest Bio
Sky Blue Kutchie
Certified Relationship, Intimacy, and Sex Therapist | Pleasure Advocate

SkyeBlu Cutchie is a Certified Relationship, Intimacy, and Sex Therapist with 7+ years of experience helping women and couples create deeper connections so they can have better sex. A proud Pleasure Advocate, Blu supports individuals and couples in reclaiming their erotic selves through shame-free education, grounded communication, and pleasure-forward intimacy rooted in consent, self-knowledge, and emotional presence. Blu’s favorite part of the work is watching women speak their desires out loud, feel safer in their bodies, and finally start enjoying intimacy again. Her motto is simple: Life is too short for bad sex.

Guest Links
Website: https://www.skyeblutherapy.com
Instagram: @intimacywithblu