In this episode, Harry is joined by Leodhais Macpherson, a Newcastle native who ran 128 marathons in 128 days to honour his brother, Connor, who lost his life to suic*de at just 21 years old.

What began as a simple effort to fundraise donations allowed Leodhais to openly speak about his brother for the first time in 7 years, with the support of family, friends, and a growing online community of over 25 thousand people.

The conversation explores how we can support others through suic*de bereavement and the power of opening up about grief.

Leodhais opens up about:

• Losing his brother Connor to suic*de and the long period of silence that followed

• Challenging the default of “I’m fine” culture among men and mates

• Learning that suic*de and mental health struggles can affect anyone

• Using running as a tool for processing emotion

• The impact of small, honest conversations

• Why talking about the person you’ve lost can be more helpful than staying silent

Question The Default is in support of Campaign Against Living Miserably.

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