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Divorce isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of your next evolution. In this powerful and soul-nourishing episode of *Legally Uncensored*, host **Demetria Graves** welcomes actress, author, and creative force **Valeka Jessica**, who shares her inspiring journey of transformation after a decade-long marriage.

Affectionately known as “V,” Valeka opens up about how the breakdown of her marriage became a breakthrough into her higher self. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and wisdom drawn from her *guided journal*, she reveals **11 essential tips** to help women reclaim their power, redefine their purpose, and blossom spiritually, emotionally, and financially after divorce.

This episode dives into:

* How to *rename* yourself and reimagine your identity
* Releasing the past by getting rid of “his things”
* Reconnecting with your purpose and finding joy again
* The role of therapy, tribe, and spirituality in healing
* Financial lessons and building independence
* Using mindfulness, manifestation, and daily rituals to stay grounded
* The importance of setting boundaries and celebrating small wins

Whether you’re navigating divorce now or rebuilding after, this conversation is a heart-forward roadmap to reclaiming your life and honoring your next chapter.

📘 Grab Valeka’s journal and start your journey: *Blossoming After Divorce*
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Can you fix your marriage without setting foot in a counselor’s office? In this transformative episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with retired marriage and family counselor Ziba Graham Jr. to explore just that.

With decades of experience in helping couples and an innovative approach that moves away from traditional therapy models, Ziba introduces practical, future-focused strategies that have saved relationships—without laying blame or reliving past hurts. In fact, his approach was so effective, couples often "fired" him after just a few sessions.

Together, they unpack:

• Why men often resist traditional counseling—and what to do about it
• The key stages of a relationship and how to navigate them
• What makes a healthy relationship thrive over time
• Three things you can do right now to shift your marriage dynamic
• The "miracle question" and other tools to reset connection and trust

Whether you’re trying to reconnect, avoid divorce, or simply strengthen your marriage, this episode delivers insightful, no-nonsense solutions that men (and their partners) will actually appreciate.

Learn more about Ziba's method in his book: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling fixyourmarriagebook.com Available on Amazon: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling

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When a marriage ends, one of the most complex and emotionally charged assets to deal with is the family home. In this episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves is joined by veteran Los Angeles-based real estate professional Phyllis Harb to unpack everything you need to know about real estate and divorce.

From deciding who stays or sells, to navigating buyouts, tax implications, and the emotional weight of leaving a shared home—this conversation dives deep into the legal, financial, and personal decisions that surround real estate during and after divorce.

Whether you're in the middle of a separation or just planning ahead, this episode offers practical advice, real-life stories, and tips for making informed, fair, and future-focused choices about one of your biggest assets.

Tune in to learn:

* What happens to the house in different divorce scenarios
* How to handle buyouts and avoid costly mistakes
* Tips for selling or buying post-divorce
* Emotional strategies for letting go and starting fresh
* Why working with a real estate pro who understands divorce makes all the difference

Learn more about Phyllis at www.harbandco.com

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