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  • “I would not have had the guts to come out and stay out if it wasn’t for my roller derby team” - Chase talks about coming out as a lesbian aged 34
    Jun 29 2026

    Chase Rodriguez is a fitness instructor, mum and roller derby skater. Growing up in a religious family, she believed her attraction to women was sinful. Chase married and had children but later came out during her divorce proceedings.
    Chase was drawn to the roller derby community after seeing the film Whip It! She loves how the sport helps her physical and mental health. Being part of a team with other LGBTQIA+ members helped her embrace her true self and find her tribe. Chase talks about queer sports, Pride and how coming out feels like coming home.
    Joining the LGBTQ+ community later in life can feel daunting. Chase suggests seeking out queer sports groups, from spectator communities to teams. You can find out more about UK roller derby from the WFTDA and Five Nations Roller Derby.Late in the Gay is a ⁠Substack⁠, podcast and community for LGBTQ+ people who came out later in life created by journalist, podcaster and dog mom Yvette Caster.

    There’s a ⁠Sunday Substack⁠ - the clueless musings of a woman who came out at 43

    There’s a ⁠Wednesday events Substack ⁠- 3 things to do in the UK this week if you came out later in life

    Find Late in the Gay and details of events on Instagram and Facebook ⁠@lateinthegay⁠

    Find host Yvette Caster across social media @yvettecaster

    Late in the Gay is hosted by Yvette Caster

    Produced and edited by George Boucher

    Artwork by Deirdre Spain of Deesign Illustrations

    Music by @PoldMusic


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    24 min
  • "All we want to do is just live our lives": Georgie talks about coming out as a trans woman aged 56
    Jun 22 2026

    Georgie Shore is a service management professional and photographer. She grew up in an era without trans visibility or role models. A conversation with her grandson about honesty made her realise it was time to be true to herself. Georgie talks about family, community and self-acceptance.


    Joining the LGBTQ+ community later in life can feel daunting. Georgie suggests moving at your own pace and seeking out local support groups. She loves LGBTQIA+ charity Support U and Reading Pride.


    Late in the Gay is a Substack, podcast and community for LGBTQ+ people who came out later in life created by journalist, podcaster and dog mom Yvette Caster.


    There’s a Sunday Substack - the clueless musings of a woman who came out at 43


    There’s a Wednesday events Substack - 3 things to do in the UK this week if you came out later in life


    Find Late in the Gay and details of events on Instagram and Facebook @lateinthegay


    Find host Yvette Caster across social media @yvettecaster


    Late in the Gay is hosted by Yvette Caster

    Produced, recorded and edited by Pineapple Audio Production

    Artwork by Deirdre Spain of Deesign Illustrations

    Music by @PoldMusic

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    30 min
  • "Life on his own terms": Mr Brake Down talks about coming out as a trans man aged 34
    Jun 15 2026

    Mr Brake Down is a drag king, actor, singer and the founder of The Upside Down Cabaret. Joining a LGBTQ+ choir helped him become the man he was born to be. Brake talks about the drag community, poking fun at masculinity and patriarchy, and how trans people are getting on with their lives joyfully.


    Joining the LGBTQ+ community later in life can feel daunting. Brake suggests looking for LGBTQ+ spaces, whether that’s a book group, a choir or a cabaret night. He also loves transgender charities Mermaids, Sparkle, Not A Phase and Trans Without Abuse, especially the work of Debbie Cannon, and the work of non-for-profit The Good Law Project.


    Late in the Gay is a Substack, podcast and community for LGBTQ+ people who came out later in life created by journalist, podcaster and dog mom Yvette Caster.


    There’s a Sunday Substack - the clueless musings of a woman who came out at 43


    There’s a Wednesday events Substack - 3 things to do in the UK this week if you came out later in life


    Find Late in the Gay and details of events on Instagram and Facebook @lateinthegay


    Find host Yvette Caster across social media @yvettecaster


    Late in the Gay is hosted by Yvette Caster

    Produced, recorded and edited by Pineapple Audio Production

    Artwork by Deirdre Spain of Deesign Illustrations

    Music by @PoldMusic

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    38 min
  • "British by birth, Jamaican by culture": Sandra talks about coming out as queer aged 52
    Jun 8 2026

    Sandra Watson is a hair colour artist and the director of Koloured Ltd. She has two grown up children and, following her divorce, chose the ‘women’ option on a dating app. Sandra talks about the importance of finding your chosen family and the joy of meeting other black queer women. She also talks about racism in Britain, wanting ‘comrades not allies’ and why it’s never too late to come out.


    Joining the LGBTQ+ community later in life can feel daunting. Some of the groups Sandra loves include queer women’s Meetups and Black Pride.


    Late in the Gay is a Substack, podcast and community for LGBTQ+ people who came out later in life created by journalist, podcaster and dog mom Yvette Caster.


    There’s a Sunday Substack - the clueless musings of a woman who came out at 43


    There’s a Wednesday events Substack - 3 things to do in the UK this week if you came out later in life


    Find Late in the Gay and details of events on Instagram and Facebook @lateinthegay


    Find host Yvette Caster across social media @yvettecaster


    Late in the Gay is hosted by Yvette Caster

    Produced, recorded and edited by Pineapple Audio Production

    Artwork by Deirdre Spain of Deesign Illustrations

    Music by @PoldMusic

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    41 min
  • "God doesn’t make mistakes": Chris talks about coming out as gay aged 54
    Jun 1 2026

    Chris Smith is a retired laboratory technician. He grew up in a religious family, married a woman and had three children. He always knew he was gay and, after losing his wife, joined the community and eventually found love with a man. Chris talks about faith, family, love and self-acceptance.


    Joining the LGBTQ+ community later in life can feel daunting. Some of the groups that Chris loves are The Devon Gay Men Meetup, which organises walks and social events, and the Open Table Network, a partnership of LGBTQIA+ people of faith.


    Late in the Gay is a Substack, podcast and community for LGBTQ+ people who came out later in life created by journalist, podcaster and dog mom Yvette Caster.


    There’s a Sunday Substack - the clueless musings of a woman who came out at 43


    There’s a Wednesday events Substack - 3 things to do in the UK this week if you came out later in life


    Find Late in the Gay and details of events on Instagram and Facebook @lateinthegay


    Find host Yvette Caster across social media @yvettecaster


    Late in the Gay is hosted by Yvette Caster

    Produced, recorded and edited by Pineapple Audio Production

    Artwork by Deirdre Spain of Deesign Illustrations

    Music by @PoldMusic

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    27 min
  • Coming Soon - LGBTQ+ podcast Late in the Gay
    May 21 2026

    Late in the Gay is a podcast in which journalist Yvette Caster chats to other LGBTQ+ people about coming out later in life.


    Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.


    Late in the Gay is also a Substack and a community. You can find us on Instagram and Facebook @lateinthegay


    Production: Pineapple Audio Production

    Artwork: Deirdre Spain of Deesign Illustrations

    Music: @PoldMusic


    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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    1 min