Are We Dating or Performing? How to Stop Ghosting, Guessing & Getting Hurt

A real-talk dating podcast that feels like a friends podcast—equal parts feel-good, spicy debates, and honest relationship discussions. On this episode of Love & Lies, an NFL vet, a male model, and our hosts unpack love vs. lust, ghosting, high-value men, emotional intelligence, and the balance of masculinity/femininity. We get candid about intimacy & satisfaction, custody & fatherhood, ambition vs. beauty, and how to stop repeating childhood patterns in modern dating. If you’re searching for a new relationships podcast with laughter, depth, and take-home tools, this episode delivers.

Perfect for listeners who:

•want debates that don’t devolve,

•like a feel-good, friends-hanging-out vibe,

•are curious how pro athletes / high-expectation men date,

•crave actionable tools for better love, communication, and trust.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Dating Pro Athletes and Male Models: Real Talk About Modern Love

02:20 – The Meaning of Dap: Respect, Energy, and Connection in Dating

04:50 – Horoscope Signs and Relationship Compatibility Explained

09:30 – Male Friendship, Loyalty, and Brotherhood in Dating Life

13:20 – Why Men Are More Loyal to Their Barbers Than Their Girlfriends

18:10 – Attraction Myths: Do Handsome Men Really Have More Women?

20:30 – Lust vs Love Explained: What Men Really Want in Relationships

25:00 – Why Beautiful Women Without Ambition Disappoint High-Value Men

30:30 – Ambition vs Beauty: What Men Respect Most in a Woman

36:20 – The Queen vs Princess Debate: Wife Material vs Surface-Level Dating

45:00 – Purpose Over Love: Why Men Choose Mission Before Relationships

50:10 – Game Planning Love: Building Relationships Like a Partnership

54:40 – Money, Ambition, and The True Cost of Building a Life Together

59:20 – NFL Mindset: Discipline, Grit, and Surviving the Odds in Love and Life

01:06:00 – Resilience, Confidence, and Dating Lessons From Pro Athletes

01:13:00 – Discipline, Childhood Programming, and Rewiring Your Mind

01:19:00 – Confidence and Presence: Walking With High-Value Energy

01:22:00 – Mommy and Daddy Issues: Childhood Wounds in Dating and Love

01:26:00 – Brutal Honesty in Dating: Building Long-Term Love Without Games

01:31:40 – Do Men Get Better With Age? Value Shifts in Dating and Marriage

01:36:20 – Beauty vs Self-Worth: Why Women Must Offer More Than Looks

01:40:00 – Final Reflections: Emotional Intelligence, Love, and What Men Want

Welcome to the LOVE AND LIES Podcast—where raw truth, emotional intelligence, and real talk about dating and relationships collide.

In this episode, we sit down with an NFL veteran and a top male model to uncover the unfiltered reality of love, intimacy, and modern dating. From lust vs love, to the queen vs princess vs “bad bitch” debate, to why ambition matters more than beauty, this conversation exposes how high-value men really see women—and what women miss when they rely on looks instead of self-worth.

We dive into:

•Why beautiful women disappoint men without ambition or self-awareness

•How to recognize the difference between lust and real love

•Why men are more loyal to their barbers than their girlfriends

•The truth about dating pro athletes and men with options

•Emotional intelligence, confidence, and self-respect in relationships

•What truly makes a woman “queen material”

If you’ve been searching for a podcast that gives you the truth about dating, relationships, love, sex, self-awareness, and emotional growth all in one place, this is your new obsession.

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•Dating advice for women & men

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•Self-sabotage and self-worth in relationships

•What high-value men and women really want

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Dating Pro Athletes and Male Models: Real Talk About Modern Love

03:00 – The Meaning of Dap and Energy Transfer in Relationships

07:20 – Horoscopes, Zodiac Signs, and How Men See Compatibility

11:50 – Male Friendship, Brotherhood, and Loyalty in Dating and Life

15:40 – Why Men Are More Loyal to Their Barbers Than Their Girlfriends

18:00 – Do Handsome Men Have Fewer Women? Attraction vs Reality

20:30 – Lust vs Love Explained: How Men Decide What’s Real

25:00 – Dating Beautiful Women Without Ambition: The #1 Male Disappointment

30:30 – Ambition vs Beauty in Dating: What High-Value Men Really Respect

36:20 – The Queen vs Princess Debate: What Makes a Woman Wife Material

45:00 – Purpose vs Love: Why Men Choose Mission Over Relationships

50:10 – Relationship Game Planning: Building Love Like a Partnership

54:40 – Money, Ambition, and The True Cost of Building a Life Together

59:20 – NFL Mindset: Discipline, Grit, and Surviving the Odds in Love and Life

01:06:00 – Resilience and Confidence: Lessons From Pro Athletes

01:13:00 – Discipline, Childhood Programming, and Rewiring Your Mind

01:19:00 – Confidence, Presence, and Walking in High-Value Energy

01:22:00 – Mommy and Daddy Issues: Childhood Wounds in Love and Dating

01:26:00 – Brutal Honesty in Dating: Building Long-Term Love Without Games

01:31:40 – Aging, Value, and Why Men Improve While Women Lose Time

01:36:20 – Beauty vs Self-Worth: Why Women Must Offer More Than Looks

01:40:00 – Final Reflections: Emotional Intelligence, Love, and What Men Want

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