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  • Ep. 12 Mental Health A Sin

    Ep. 12 Mental Health A Sin
    Jul 11 2026

    In this episode Izzy and Sarah discuss mental health as the expericed it in the church and throughout life.
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    54 min
  • Ep. 11 The Friends We Lost: Navigating Faith, Frienship, and Finding Your Tribe After Christianity

    Ep. 11 The Friends We Lost: Navigating Faith, Frienship, and Finding Your Tribe After Christianity
    Jun 13 2026
    Losing Friends After Leaving Christianity: Grief, Rejection, and Finding Real Community | Just Another Statistic Sarah and Izzy introduce their podcast about deconstructing from Christianity and rebuilding spirituality through witchcraft, noting they will use pseudonyms and share only their perspectives. In this episode, they discuss losing friendships after leaving church, where most relationships were formed and maintained, and how questioning doctrine threatened others and led to sudden silence, distancing, and rejection—often tied to performance, cliques, and conditional love. They recall specific interactions that signaled judgment and describe the emotional toll, from isolation and anger to relief from no longer performing. They highlight one enduring friend, Bebe, and supportive siblings who stayed connected despite faith differences, and contrast church-based "community" with authentic friendships and their current meditation group, inviting listeners to share their own stories via email and social media. 00:00 From Scripture to Spirit 00:37 Podcast Mission and Scope 01:40 Privacy and Perspective Note 02:21 Setting the Stage Exhausted 02:47 Losing Friends After Leaving 03:46 Church as Social Hub 07:19 Faith as Friendship Glue 10:32 When You Leave Nobody Calls 12:01 Bridal Shower Awkwardness 17:26 First Signs of Distance 21:10 Sudden Collapse Slow Deconstruction 25:38 Why They Rejected Us 27:09 Threatened Friend Dynamics 27:52 Being Other In Church 29:30 Leaving Faith Fallout 31:07 Grief And Anger 34:10 Bebe Stays Loyal 37:51 Family Faith Conversations 42:43 Why Real Friends Stay 46:49 Healing And New Community 50:14 Friendship Versus Belief 54:33 Closing And Call To Share
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    56 min
  • Ep. 10 Beyond the Pulpit: Sarah's Journey as a Black Woma in Pastorial Legacy

    Ep. 10 Beyond the Pulpit: Sarah's Journey as a Black Woma in Pastorial Legacy
    May 9 2026

    From Generational Church Legacy to Spiritual Deconstruction: Sarah's Story as a Black Woman Sarah and Izzy introduce their podcast, Just Another Statistic, sharing their deconstruction from Christianity and transition into witchcraft and personal spirituality, while noting they will use no real names and are sharing only their perspective. The episode focuses on Sarah's upbringing in a multi-generational Christian family deeply rooted in church leadership, with strong patriarchal expectations, intense visibility tied to her last name, and an assumed lifelong commitment to Christianity. Sarah describes how being a Black woman shaped her experiences, contrasting the supportive, justice-oriented community of the Black church with tokenization and second-class treatment she felt in a predominantly white megachurch. She reflects on her grandfather's community generosity, her mother's teaching to "follow God, not man," and how these foundations informed her leadership, resilience, and commitment to being unapologetically herself as her spirituality evolves. 00:00 Leaving Scripture Behind 00:36 Podcast Premise 01:38 Privacy Disclaimer 02:15 Sarahs Church Legacy 02:53 Generational Leadership 05:36 Family Expectations 07:53 Power of the Name 09:48 Black Woman in Church 13:23 Community Duty and Generosity 15:04 Personal Faith vs Inherited 16:58 Pressure and Being Watched 18:28 Finding Your Own Voice 20:43 Church As Community 21:50 George Floyd Wakeup Call 22:51 Black Church Perspective 26:52 Racism Inside Megachurch 31:16 Black Woman Expectations 33:09 What She Cherishes 36:07 Unapologetically Yourself 38:23 Podcast Closing Message
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    40 min
  • Ep.9 Unseen Worlds: Izzy's Journey from Christian Isolation to Personal Faith

    Ep.9 Unseen Worlds: Izzy's Journey from Christian Isolation to Personal Faith
    Apr 11 2026
    Homeschooling, Control, and Deconstruction: Izzy's Childhood Story | Just Another Statistic Sarah and Izzy introduce their podcast about deconstructing Christianity and rebuilding spirituality through witchcraft and personal intuition, noting they will use altered names and share only their perspective. The episode focuses on Izzy's childhood: being homeschooled through 12th grade in a rigid, Christian-centered environment where Bible study shaped the day, curricula were biblically oriented, and questioning was punished. Izzy describes isolation from "worldly" influences, strict control over hobbies and social exposure, and gendered expectations to become a wife and mother. She recounts emotional suppression, anger, psychological abuse, and later realizing and processing trauma, including sexual abuse. Izzy reflects on benefits like learning to think independently, major worldview shifts in adulthood, and hopes for protecting children from religiously driven harm while acknowledging her parents "tried" with what they had. 00:00 From Scripture to Spirit 00:37 Podcast Mission and Disclaimer 02:13 Episode Setup Izzy's Childhood 02:55 Homeschooling Inside Christian Curriculum 09:02 Isolation and Lost Hobbies 12:24 Fear of the Outside World 15:03 Identity Anger and Opening Up 20:21 Early Doubts and Control 25:45 Drawn to Magic and Past Lives 28:21 Therapy Naming the Abuse 30:30 Looking Back Pros Cons and Politics 36:16 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
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    40 min
  • Ep. 8 From Leaving to Leaning In

    Ep. 8 From Leaving to Leaning In
    Mar 14 2026
    From Christianity to Personal Spirituality: Our Deconstruction Journey In this episode of 'Just Another Statistic,' hosts Sarah and Izzy recount their transformative journey from Christianity to witchcraft and personal spirituality. They discuss the pivotal moments that led them away from structured religion, the challenges they faced in redefining their beliefs, and the newfound sense of freedom and authenticity they have discovered. The episode dives into themes of intuition, community, and the experiences that proved the reality of magic and spirituality. Join them as they lay bare their deconstruction process and explore what it means to find true spiritual alignment. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Background 00:43 Welcome to the Podcast 02:28 Deconstructing Christianity 05:36 Historical Manipulations in Christianity 12:05 Personal Spiritual Journey 21:56 Embracing Femininity and Spirituality 26:48 Embracing Intuition and Tarot 27:42 First Steps into Oracle and Tarot Readings 28:32 Finding Power in Spiritual Practices 29:13 Celebrating Pagan Rituals 31:06 Facing Judgment and Misunderstanding 32:58 Losing and Gaining Friendships 45:53 Proving Magic is Real 51:17 Conclusion and Community Invitation
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    53 min
  • Ep: 7 The Power of Two: Would we have left so soon

    Ep: 7 The Power of Two: Would we have left so soon
    Feb 14 2026
    From Christianity to Witchcraft: A Journey of Deconstruction and Spiritual Rebuilding In this heartfelt episode, hosts Sarah and Izzy share their personal deconstruction from Christianity and their transition into witchcraft and personal spirituality. They discuss how their living situation and mutual support helped them recognize and validate their experiences and feelings while navigating the challenging path away from organized religion. Through honest conversation, they explore the dynamics of leaving the church, finding new community, and redefining spirituality. Join them in this deep dive into spiritual evolution and the quest for authentic beliefs. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Background 00:43 Welcome to the Podcast 02:41 Deconstruction and Spiritual Rebuilding 04:08 Living Together and Mutual Support 06:45 Isolation and Church Dynamics 17:08 The Final Sermon and Aftermath 18:04 Transition to New Spirituality 25:21 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Safety 27:21 Impact of Living Together on Mental Health 28:07 Christianity's Influence and Manipulation 29:07 Processing Loss and Betrayal 32:45 Questioning Faith and Exploring New Beliefs 37:13 Emotional Journey and Spiritual Growth 40:54 Family Dynamics and Personal Beliefs 47:52 Concluding Thoughts and Community Invitation
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    50 min
  • The Final Straw: Unpacking Betrayal and Departure from Faith - Part One

    The Final Straw: Unpacking Betrayal and Departure from Faith - Part One
    Jan 10 2026

    From Hymns to Hexes: Our Spiritual Deconstruction – Part 1

    In this episode of Just Another Statistic, hosted by Sarah and Izzy, we delve into our journeys of leaving Christianity and transitioning into witchcraft and personal spirituality. We reflect on pivotal moments of deconstruction, the challenges we faced, and the healing process. We share stories of navigating new beliefs, dealing with manipulative friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries. This episode marks the beginning of an honest discussion about finding authentic spirituality beyond inherited dogmas. Stay tuned for part two as we continue to unfold our personal experiences and insights.

    00:00 Introduction and Personal Journeys

    00:51 Welcome to the Podcast

    02:55 Setting the Stage for the Main Event

    04:05 Life After Leaving the Church

    06:27 Living Together and New Beginnings

    09:02 The White Knight's Obsession

    11:30 Boundaries and Tensions

    16:53 Manipulation and Breaking Points

    21:36 Wedding Drama and Mediation

    25:00 Father's Day and Emotional Struggles

    26:22 The Stressful Incident

    27:51 Dealing with Manipulative Behavior

    32:18 Unwanted Advances and Boundaries

    35:40 The Night Out and Confrontation

    43:39 Conclusion and Reflection
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    45 min
  • The Final Straw: Unpacking Betrayal and Departure from Faith - Part Two

    The Final Straw: Unpacking Betrayal and Departure from Faith - Part Two
    Jan 10 2026

    From Christianity to Witchcraft: Our Journey to Spiritual Awakening

    In this episode of 'Just Another Statistic,' hosts Sarah and Izzy discuss their profound shift from Christianity to witchcraft and personal spirituality. Both recount their experiences and challenges during their deconstruction from their Christian faith, highlighting the moments that led them to seek different spiritual paths. The conversation delves into struggles with church dynamics, personal relationships, and the eventual embrace of new spiritual practices. Join Sarah and Izzy as they share their blueprints for spiritual rebuilding and aims to connect with others on similar journeys.

    00:00 Introduction and Personal Journeys

    00:42 Podcast Purpose and Audience

    01:40 Privacy and Perspective

    02:23 The White Knight Incident Begins

    04:23 Escalation and Family Involvement

    13:49 Confrontation and Resolution

    19:10 Church Dynamics and Social Fallout

    24:12 Deciding to Avoid the Group

    24:41 Facing Ostracism at Church

    25:14 Confronting Mr. Pushups

    25:37 Protecting My Nephew

    28:45 Judgment Over Relationships

    31:24 Exploring New Spiritual Paths

    32:47 A Traumatic Robbery

    38:39 Final Straws at Church

    43:23 Leaving the Evangelical Church

    46:52 Conclusion and Call to Share Stories
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    49 min