Is it better to be crying in a G-Wagon or healed in a shared house? In this week’s episode of It’s Actually Not That Serious, we’re putting our friendships (and our sanity) on the line with a game of "Would You Rather" that got way deeper than we intended.

As two Zim girls navigating life in the UK, we’ve realized that sometimes the truth hurts, but the "embarrassing phase" photos hurt way more. We’re diving into the messy intersections of success, emotional availability, and why public love doesn’t always mean good love.

Grab your tea (or something stronger) because this week, we are diving into a dilemma that is giving peak diaspora chaos. We’re discussing a story that has everything: a UK move, a husband left behind, double lives, a pregnancy plot twist that changed the whole game and many more. 🇿🇼🇬🇧

Moving to the UK is the dream, but for one man, that dream has turned into a financial and moral nightmare. 📉

In this episode, we dive into a heavy dilemma: A brother moves from Zimbabwe to London after borrowing £3,000 from his neighbors—money specifically set aside for their son’s future relocation. Two years later, he’s caught in the "London Trap." With a £1,100 rent bill on a £2,000 net salary, plus the cost of keeping a car for work, he’s drowning in the cost of living and avoiding the very people who helped him get here. 🏠🇬🇧