Is the short fuse, the sudden tears, the “why am I fighting everyone?” moment just you… or is it grief wearing a disguise?

In this episode of It’s a Death Sentence, we sit down and ask the question we (and probably you) keep wondering: how do we know if we’re just having a bad day… or if grief is quietly driving the wheel?

From screaming at partners over nothing, to realising your tolerance for bullshit has vanished, to wondering why the gym suddenly feels like a boxing ring, we explore the messy overlap between normal human moods and the long, sneaky tail of bereavement.

What You’ll Learn

- Anger as Armour: Why it’s easier to snap than to say “I’m heartbroken”… and how that rage can hide in plain sight for months (or years).

- The Grief Litmus Test: Simple questions to ask yourself when patience evaporates.

- Permission to Be Both: You can be fiery bitch AND grieving. You can be healing AND still lose your shit. Both things can be true.

This is the conversation you wish you’d overheard in the pub - one that reminds you you’re not going mad, you’re just grieving in a world that expects you to be “over it” by now. If you’ve ever wondered “is it grief?”, this one’s for you.

It's A Death Sentence shares real stories of life after loss and is produced by Urban Podcasts. Listener discretion is always advised.

New year, new me? Yeah, right! When you’re carrying grief, January 1st doesn’t magically wipe the slate clean - it just swaps the tinsel for a hangover and a side of guilt.

In this episode, we ditch the resolutions and get real about what “new year, new me” actually feels like when someone you love is missing from the table. We explore why grief doesn’t give a toss about the calendar.

What You’ll Learn

- New Year, Same Grief: Why the fireworks and “this is my year” posts can feel like salt in an open wound.

- The Only Resolution That Matters: Feel the feels, trust yourself, take positive risks, and let the rest slide.

- 2025’s Hard-Won Lessons: Patience is key, online dating is hell, and leaving the house is overrated.

Spoiler: 2026 isn’t “our year” because we’ve suddenly fixed everything. It’s our year because we’re still here, still laughing through the tears, and still refusing to pretend it’s all shiny and new.

It's A Death Sentence shares real stories of life after loss and is produced by Urban Podcasts. Listener discretion is always advised.

You’ve just lost a loved one in hospital. Everyone’s crying. And then… the admin avalanche begins.

In this no-filter, step-by-step guide we walk you through the exact bureaucratic gauntlet of what happens if a loved one dies in hospital. From bank-holiday hell to coroners, certificates, and finally getting your loved one to the funeral director - this is the episode nobody wants to need… but everyone eventually does.

What You’ll Learn

- The Bank-Holiday Trap: Why dying on a Friday (or any public holiday) can leave you in limbo.

- Coroner or No Coroner: Who gets referred, who doesn’t, and why it completely changes the timeline.

- The Paperwork Maze: Death certificate → cremation forms → registrar → funeral director: the exact order (and who can actually help you).

If you ever have to do this, you’ll wish you’d listened first. Because nobody hands you the manual and now you’ve got one.

(And yes… the best advice we’ve got? Try not to die on a bank holiday.)

It's A Death Sentence shares real stories of life after loss and is produced by Urban Podcasts. Listener discretion is always advised.