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Tan grew up in Taipei, Taiwan, moved to the Philippines at 14, and came to the US alone at 18 to study at UC San Diego before transferring to UCLA, her dream school. After 12 years abroad, she shares what actually helped her survive her first year as an international student, and what she'd tell anyone about to make the move.
She talks honestly about crying and calling her mom in the first days, feeling like the only international student in her dorm suite, and doubting her English. Then she breaks down what made the difference.
In this episode:
- What to do before you move to the US: savings for hidden costs, setting up your bank account and phone, and time with family
- Why saying yes to every invite and joining clubs changed her first year
- Why you shouldn't only make friends from your home country
- Culture shock in America: free food lines, secret menus, and dating
- What her Asian upbringing gave her at work, and what she admires about speaking up in the US
- Her funniest first mistake: getting chased down the street for not tipping
Chapters:
0:00 First year as an international student: how she made friends
5:40 Tips before and after moving to the US
11:01 Culture shock in America: food, dating, and more
18:48 Advice for international students after 12 years abroad
27:04 Tipping culture in the US: her funny first mistake
Watch the video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/0i-qlZk14ZQ
Listen next: Why International Students Feel So Alone, and What Actually Helps, with a therapist from Santa Monica College: https://youtu.be/8soXD1FMIVI?si=wdHrALwaNhNiv1eZ
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