Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Aimee, sex coach, host of Come Talk With Aimee, to unpack red flags in hookup culture, casual sex boundaries, love bombing, ghosting, emotional unavailability, situationships, sexual compatibility, and how to protect your peace while still having fun.

This episode dives into the blurred lines between “hot” and “toxic,” how to define red flags in early dating, and why casual doesn’t have to mean careless. Alexa and Aimee break down how to navigate casual sex in a way that feels empowering instead of chaotic.

In this episode, we cover:

• How to define a red flag (and why they aren’t always universal)
• The difference between mystery and emotional unavailability
• Why hot-and-cold behavior is a major warning sign
• Love bombing and how to spot it early
• Why ghosting happens (and when it’s acceptable)
• Fear of rejection and craving validation
• How to state your needs without playing games
• Casual sex vs. friends with benefits vs. fuck buddies
• Setting boundaries before sex happens
• How to avoid situationships and why we’re both against them
• Why “casual” doesn’t mean careless
• How to reschedule a date properly from both sides
• Signs someone may be selfish in bed
• Unsolicited nudes and consent in sexting
• Condom jokes & sexual health red flags
• Boundary pushing and subtle manipulation tactics
• Negging disguised as “banter”
• Why talking badly about all your exes is a red flag
• Pussy worship vs. oral as a chore
• Abundance mindset vs. scarcity mindset in dating
• Why you shouldn’t do casual if it creates chaos for you
• Protecting your peace while still enjoying sex

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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with sexologist, intimacy coach for men, and former sex worker Coral Osborne for a conversation about conflict, repair, emotional safety, and how to fight in ways that actually strengthen relationships instead of destroying them.

This episode breaks down why conflict is inevitable, why resolution is not the same as repair, and how most people unintentionally make things worse by avoiding discomfort, suppressing feelings, issuing ultimatums, or apologizing without real empathy. Coral shares tools drawn from attachment theory, coaching, lived experience, and relationship psychology to help couples navigate fights with curiosity, accountability, and emotional intelligence.

Topics covered include:

• The difference between conflict resolution and emotional repair
• Why 69% of conflict in relationships is recurring
• Secure vs anxious vs avoidant attachment styles
• Why conflict is necessary for real intimacy
• Sulking, silent treatment, and “read my mind” behavior
• Fight, flight, freeze responses in relationships
• How avoidance fuels resentment and rupture
• The importance of reassurance during conflict
• Why “do you want to be right or happy?” matters
• Active listening and emotional attunement
• How to bring issues up without score-keeping
• Why feelings don’t have to “make sense” to be valid
• Rejection and abandonment as core emotional wounds
• What a real apology actually includes
• Why ultimatums damage trust and safety
• Repair rituals and post-conflict reconnection
• Why makeup sex doesn’t work for everyone
• Gamifying conflict and repair to reduce defensiveness
• When recurring fights are about values vs preferences
• Emotional safety as the foundation for erotic surrender
• Curiosity as the key to intimacy, sex, and connection

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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets back in bed with Aaron Thompson (aka Small Hands) to unpack how an awkward, short kid with a conservative upbringing became one of the most desired men in adult entertainment, and why confidence has far more to do with self-awareness, humility, and emotional intelligence than looks, height, or stats on a dating app.

They go deep on real intimacy versus performative sex, porn myths versus real-life pleasure, and how men can become better lovers by listening, learning, and caring more about their partner’s experience than their own ego.

Topics covered include:

• The “Short King” mindset and why height doesn’t matter
• Masculinity, confidence, and owning what you can’t change
• Penis size myths and sexual insecurity
• Why personality beats looks in real attraction
• Dating apps, stats culture, and first impressions
• Porn vs real sex (and why porn is not sex education)
• Communication, consent, and “checking in” during sex
• Reading body language, sounds, and partner feedback
• Helping partners orgasm without killing the vibe
• Using vibrators, magic wands, and toys with confidence
• Sexual worship, power dynamics, and mutual pleasure
• Learning from women and having real female friendships
• Dating as a porn star and navigating fans vs real intimacy
• Performative sex vs lazy, intimate, off-camera connection
• OnlyFans, AI digital duplicates, and fantasy fulfillment
• Erectile health, Viagra and injectable performance drugs
• Aaron’s natural erection health routine

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