My Birth Father's Family Ghosted Us — So I'm Speaking Out
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In this episode of Finding Family DNA, Jay and co-host Misty Gillis introduce Carla Salvatierra, a 29-year-old woman born in Los Angeles County who has spent years searching for the truth about her biological father. After discovering that neither the man on her birth certificate nor the man her family insisted was her father shared any DNA with her, Carla found herself starting completely from scratch — with no name, no country, and no answers. With the help of Misty's careful DNA analysis and genealogical research into Guatemalan civil records, the team was able to narrow Carla's birth father down to one of three brothers living in the United States. Despite sending letters and making direct contact with one of the brothers, the family has gone silent — and in a first for the show, Carla comes on air to make a heartfelt, tearful plea directly to her birth father. A devoted mother of two who runs her own construction company, Carla isn't asking for money or a lifelong commitment — she simply wants to know where she comes from, see her father's face, and finally have the medical history her children deserve.
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00:00 Intro
00:11 Welcome and case overview
00:51 When DNA matches don't respond
01:07 Misty's outreach strategy
02:16 Introducing Carla Salvatierra
03:02 Growing up not knowing her father
04:38 DNA tests rule out two possible fathers
08:03 What led Carla to BirthParentFinder
09:51 Taking the Ancestry DNA test
10:38 How Misty analyzed the DNA matches
12:04 Narrowing it down to three brothers
13:23 Sending letters with no response
14:01 Ad break
14:32 How Jay finally made contact
16:08 Ruben goes silent
17:20 Misty's theory on the birth father
18:16 Carla's reaction to the breakthrough
21:42 Carla's plea to her birth father
23:21 Carla's family and life today
24:39 Who Carla is — business, family, hobbies
27:06 A message to the birth father's family
27:43 Every child deserves the truth
30:07 Closing thoughts from Jay and Misty
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Finding Family DNA, Birth Father Search, DNA Genealogy, Guatemalan Heritage, Adoptee Story, Birth Parent Found, BirthParentFinder, Emotional Reunion, Closed Adoption Search, Family Discovery