Why do we fight so hard to be understood—especially during conflict? In this episode of the ABCs for Leadership & Life Podcast, we explore how our ego-driven need to be right, liked, and understood can actually block meaningful connection. Through the lens of the ABCs—Awareness, Behavior, and Connection—we unpack how emotionally intelligent communication shifts us from defensiveness to curiosity, helping us understand others even in moments of misunderstanding. Discover practical tools to improve communication, strengthen relationships, and lead with greater emotional intelligence in both life and leadership. Want more tools for emotionally intelligent leadership, communication, and personal growth from Jenn and Lauren? Visit: https://chloupekconsultingservices.com/ and https://laurenEmiller.com/

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