"If you really love something, you need to trap that."

This week on Father Time with De'Meco & Blair, we’re joined by a true original: Aaron Munn, the founder of Trap Golf, a high school golf coach, and an art teacher who is literally painting a new future for the game.Aaron opens up about a journey that is as raw as it gets. From growing up in a broken home—where the Huxtables felt like "oxygen"—to the staggering personal revelation of divorcing and then remarrying his wife after years apart. It’s a masterclass in reconciliation, patience, and what it actually looks like to "trap" your life back into position when the puck isn't in your hand.In this episode, we explore:The Coach Ted Orion Lesson: Why "two-way hockey" is the perfect metaphor for surviving the seasons of life when things aren't going your way.Girl Dad 101: Aaron is the only male in a house of four (even the dog is a girl). He shares the most difficult lesson he’s learned: Shut up and listen.The 9-to-5 vs. The Dream: How to compartmentalize the "businessman" so he doesn't kill the "artist" who started it all.The State of Golf in 2026: Are we actually growing the game, or just putting a fresh coat of paint on the same old gate?The Princeton Connection: A wild "small world" moment between Blair and Aaron that proves the golf world is tighter than we think.Whether you’re an artist, a hustler, or a dad trying to find your own studio space, Aaron’s story is a reminder that there should be no bigger advocate for you than you.Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of proud dad talk.Let us know what topics you'd like to hear us discuss this season, in the comments below!Key Timestamps00:00 – Intro: The Artist Behind Trap Golf01:30 – Top 5 Fictional Fathers: Finding Family on Screen04:15 – Forgotten Fictional Father: Coach Ted Orion (Mighty Ducks 3)07:30 – East Coast Fabric: Merging Hip-Hop & Golf10:50 – The 9-to-5 Box: Managing Three Careers13:45 – Girl Dad Playbook: The Power of Silence17:34 – Marriage as a Priority: Resetting on Sundays20:30 – The Big Reveal: Divorcing and Remarrying the Same Woman25:10 – 2026 Vision: Is the Game Still Gatekeeping?31:15 – "Trap Everything": The Final HustlePresented by: Father Time MediaExecutively Produced by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsEdited by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsTheme Song by EemsWYNK Seltzer + THC - https://drinkwynk.com/ - “FatherTimePod” for 20% off at checkoutSUPLMNT - https://suplmnt.com/collections/bottles - “FatherTimePod” for 15% off at checkout#FatherTimePod #Season5 #NeverNotDad #ThisIsFatherTime

"My presence is a presence." We’re kicking off a brand-new era of Father Time with De'Meco & Blair. We’re officially moving away from "Seasons" and into a continuous, fluid flow of conversation. No more breaks, just real talk, throughout the "Sacred Timeline" We start with Blair shaking De'Meco out of a self-sabotaging "pity party," reminding him that his presence is a presence. This is an honest look at the self-imposed expectations that haunt dads and how to give yourself grace when you’re "running on E."In this episode, we dive into:The "Utility Player" Mindset: Why every team doesn't need a Barry Bonds. Sometimes, being a great dad means playing second base today and right field tomorrow—being exactly what your family needs in the moment.Breaking the Cycle: A raw, visceral discussion on the "whoopings" of our past. We reflect on the "dragon" in the house and make the conscious choice to choose safety over fear.The Kevin Hart Reaction: Unpacking the silent burdens fathers carry so their children don’t have to.Therapy & Control: How Blair and De'Meco are using therapy to recognize patterns, drop the "boo-boo face," and simply "pick their chin up."The Magic of Moms: De'Meco gives flowers to his wife, Kate, and acknowledges the "manufactured joy" that moms work so hard to create.Fatherhood is a rock spinning in nothingness—it's finite, it's messy, and it’s beautiful. Whether you're navigating the "three-nager" stage or trying to be a better man than your father was, this episode is for you.Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of proud dad talk.Let us know what topics you'd like to hear us discuss this season, in the comments below!Presented by: Father Time MediaExecutively Produced by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsEdited by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsTheme Song by EemsWYNK Seltzer + THC - https://drinkwynk.com/ - “FatherTimePod” for 20% off at checkoutFather Time Reacts - Diary Of A CEO featuring Kevin Harthttps://youtu.be/5sCGZAcXKWg?si=W9QulfBuJ9ryHVe8&t=5050#FatherTimePod #NeverNotDad #ThisIsFatherTime

❤️ Life Balance & The Hardest Job: Marriage | Father Time Holiday Special 2025 Happy Holidays! After our longest break ever, De’Meco and Blair are back in the chair (and ready for the eggnog!) for an emotional and honest catch-up. This isn't just a holiday special; it's a look under the hood of life, marriage, and personal growth.We peel back the curtain on why we took a much-needed break and how those famous "Father Time" concepts of balance and accountability played out in our own homes. Blair hilariously breaks down the difference between arguing and "militaristic monotone condescension," leading to a frank discussion about starting couples therapy—because being a professional husband is the hardest job you'll ever have!De'Meco shares his journey into personal therapy, comparing the process to being Jamie Tartt in Ted Lasso (minus the gorgeous hair), and how it’s helping him lighten the "baggage" to break generational cycles for his daughter. We talk about the true meaning of a safe space—it’s not just for friends passing the basketball (shoutout to The Brothers!), but for finding peace with the past.🎙️ The Future of Father Time & Why We're Running!We also talk shop: the podcast is evolving! To deliver the highest quality content and maintain life balance, we're shifting to twice-monthly episodes and expanding the vision for Father Time Media to include anyone with a father experience.And since we love a good challenge, we announce our running journeys!* De'Meco is on the hunt for the Chicago Marathon lottery spot, embracing the process of becoming a disciplined 26.2-mile finisher!* Blair is running the Eugene 5K for a fantastic cause: raising money for Girls on the Run to empower girls and non-binary youth. (Find the donation link below!)This episode is about growth, gratitude, and the enduring power of friendship. We truly appreciate you listening—you are the community that keeps us flying!Get ready for laughs, insights, and a whole lot of proud dad talk.Let us know what topics you'd like to hear us discuss this season, in the comments below!Presented by: Father Time MediaExecutively Produced by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsEdited by: De'Meco Deanes & Blair CuttsTheme Song by EemsGirls On The Run - Greater Oregon - https://www.gotroregon.org/fundraiser/Blair-C-SoleMates2025-2026-29170WYNK Seltzer + THC - https://drinkwynk.com/ - “FatherTimePod” for 20% off at checkoutSUPLMNT - https://suplmnt.com/collections/bottles - “FatherTimePod” for 15% off at checkoutFather Time Reacts - Breaking Cycles - Landman #FatherTimePod #NeverNotDad #ThisIsFatherTime