In this episode of NeuroSpice & Life, late-diagnosed neurodivergent hosts Freya Corboy and Hanna Hosking move from reflection into reframing, exploring how autistic and ADHD people can reclaim bluntness as clarity rather than rudeness.

This episode blends practical tools, reframes, and humour, offering an empowering and light-hearted conversation alongside discussions of masking, people-pleasing, and communication boundaries.

Freya and Hanna discuss modern communication styles — including texting, voice notes, gifs, and video — and how neurodivergent people can advocate for their preferred ways of communicating in relationships, therapy, and everyday life. They explore why “honesty is the best policy” often works for neurotypical people with an unspoken social rulebook, but can backfire for neurodivergent people who are labelled “brutally” or “ruthlessly” honest for communicating directly.

The episode also challenges the belief that we’re responsible for managing other people’s emotional reactions. You can communicate clearly, respectfully, and honestly without taking responsibility for how someone else chooses to interpret your words.

Practical tools are shared for giving feedback, reducing unnecessary softening, and removing reflexive apologies such as “just” or apologising for things that aren’t your fault. Together, Freya and Hanna explore what it means to reclaim bluntness after years of masking, over-explaining, and self-silencing.

Topics include: Neurodivergent communication, ADHD, autism, bluntness, honesty, masking, people-pleasing, communication boundaries, feedback tools, self-advocacy, emotional labour.

Connect with NeuroSpice & Life: Website: neurospiceandlife.com.au YouTube: @NeuroSpiceandLife Freya (Mumshine): mumshine.com.au Hanna (The Sensologist): thesensologist.com.au

Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute medical, psychological, or mental-health advice. It is not a substitute for diagnosis, therapy, or professional care. Please seek support from a qualified healthcare or mental-health professional if needed.