Summary

In this episode of Money and Marriage Made Simple, Tina Bunn discusses how couples can talk about money without fighting. She shares personal experiences and offers practical advice on managing financial conversations with empathy and understanding. Key topics include the emotional aspects of money, the importance of mindset, and the four C's of constructive money talks: choosing the right time, creating a safe environment, clarifying the goal, and collaborating rather than controlling.

Takeaways

• Money talks are not just about numbers; they involve emotions, history, and identity.
• Different upbringings and money stories can lead to conflicts in financial discussions.
• Power struggles and control issues often arise in money conversations.
• Mismatched expectations and assumptions can cause financial disagreements.
• Talking logistics without acknowledging emotions can lead to fights.
• Approach money talks as teammates, not opponents.
• Assume good intent and work to understand each other's perspectives.
• Use the four C's: choose the right time, create a safe environment, clarify the goal, and collaborate.
• Consider outside help like a financial coach or marriage counselor if needed.
• Start with small, calm conversations to build progress.

Links

Essential Money Checklist for Couples - https://www.financeswithoutfear.com/product-page/couples-money-checklist

Finances Without Fear Instagram - @financeswithoutfear

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