Welcome back to Hot Magical and Human. After a two-year hiatus, I'm returning to share what happened during that time - a period that fundamentally reshaped both who I am and the work I now do in the world. period of my life. I went through what I can only describe as an external dark night of the soul - a complete crumbling that forced me to rebuild from the ground up.

Two years ago, I thought I was on an upswing. I was building my business, creating community, making impact, and starting to live the life I'd always dreamed of. Then everything changed. I lost my sense of safety, my job, my mom, and had to navigate grief in a way I never imagined possible.

But here's what I learned: even in our darkest moments, even when life is messy and hard, we can still build a rich, aligned life. We can carry both the grief and the joy. And with the right tools - simple, sustainable, strategic tools - we can find our way back to our heart magic.

Today, I'm sharing my story of the past two years, the collapse, the rebuilding, and the emergence. I'm talking about what it means to trust the flow, to find miracles in the darkness, and to build a life that's truly aligned with who we are at our core.

Through this journey, I've discovered exactly who I'm here to serve: the "I can't do one thing" humans—the ambitious, multi-faceted people who need to build an entire ecosystem around their passions and purpose. Offering cohort-based coaching to help generalists shine in their aligned ecosystems, I'm creating a community called Oui Gather for IRL connection, and I've developed a program called Heart Magic—because I believe we're all on a journey either toward or away from our heart magic, our truth, our most authentic selves.

I've changed. I'm softer in some ways, more courageous in others. I just turned 50, and I'm finally living unapologetically as myself. And I'm here to help you do the same—to get closer to your heart magic and build the rich, aligned life you're meant to live.

So let's begin <3

00:00 A Fresh Start After Two Years

01:06 The Dark Night of the Soul

04:54 Facing External Challenges Like Global Antisemitism

10:35 Navigating Grief and Loss

12:29 Rebirth and Resilience

14:27 Rich aligned life.

16:47 Building a New Ecosystem

20:39 Heart Magic and Authenticity

25:03 Emerging with Confidence

You can reach me

www.sherizahava.com

@sherizahava

www.ouigather.co

@ouigather

I am really excited to re-launch my podcast with my amazing friend Alli.

She is a powerhouse business coach that turns corporate leaders into successful coaches on Linkedin. Reducing the fear of change while increasing the pathway to success.

Inspired by lifestyle and driven by results, she shares her truly magic formula with us.

it's been proven by the many ambitious people she has heralded from corporate to 30k months. She's an indisputable sales queen with her background in sales leadership at Salesforce which she forfeited for her dream of lifestyle entrepreneurship. That journey started in Costa Rica where she also found and rescued her sweet dog Nacho.

She influences many on Linkedin with her direct value driven expression and has proven that not only is niche-ing not scary but in her eyes essential to success.

I love this episode because you really get to meet and hear Alli in all of her hilarious no bs wisdom.

[00:02:20] Authenticity in personal branding.

[00:04:42] Business coaching transition fears.

[00:09:29] Passion vs. Market Needs.

[00:12:00] Value-based entrepreneurship and abundance mindset.

[00:15:50] Scarcity vs. Abundance Mindset

[00:18:15] Scarcity mindset in entrepreneurship.

[00:23:16] Scarcity shows up at every stage.

[00:27:36] Community and connection building.

[00:29:34] Start before you're ready.

[00:32:13] Start before you're ready.

[00:35:51] Thought leadership and resilience.

[00:39:57] Market research through coaching calls.

[00:44:02] Provider identity in financial advising.

[00:48:02] What makes you feel hot?

[00:52:18] Travel destinations and experiences.

[00:53:59] Entrepreneurial living and growth.

Alli Rizacos is a LinkedIn Business Coach, turning corporate leaders into successful coaches on Linkedin. She comes from a long background in sales, working at Salesforce for 8 years. She quit in 2021 to start her coaching business and has been successful launching 2 coaching business and over $1.2M, all from her LinkedIn brand. She’s also a Virgo, Enneagram 3 and Projector…she means business but can see the imposter syndrome behind every business owner. She’s also a nomad, splitting her time between Canada and hot sunny places in the winter. She’s a dog mom to Nacho, a Costa Rican rescue she brought back after living in Costa Rica

You can find her on Linkedin

https://www.linkedin.com/in/allirizacos/

https://www.allirizacos.com

Note: this was recorded a few months ago but super aligned still.

In this solo episode I shine the light on the topic of shame and its impact on our lives.

I reflect on my own experiences and how shame can manifest in our bodies and emotions. I explore the origins of shame and how it is often rooted in learned behaviours and past traumas.

I share really vulnerable bullying and dating stories to highlight the journey and how my healing continually brings me closer to my dreams these days. My Moonshot empire dreams brought me full circle to the wounds that keep me small and stuck.

I share because I want you to feel empowered in your journey too. We all face shame but often alone and in the shadows so was inspired to open the discussion.

• It shows up in our relationships
• In our professional sphere aka imposters
• In school growing up
• Body
• Money
• Sexual experiences
• Our mental health.

Join me in this discussion to embrace vulnerability and navigate the journey towards self-love and self-worth for the sake of expansion and growth. To build more resilience and own our humanness to soften the edges on it. To clear a path to honour your gifts and the path to your dreams.

I talk about why a "fuck it" attitude helps and I share some of the tools I use to celebrate my growth and how far I have come. I can take space for my accolades in the face of darkness so maybe it will inspire you too.

Please do like and share this episode!

Sheri xo

🔥 Here it is, this special conversation with Sigute.

🎙️ We talked about embracing our multi-passionate self and living our most authentic lives - connected to your unique power and gifts. That radiant energy, taking up the space for it and embracing all the parts of fullest self. It was such an inspiring and empowering discussion.Here are some key highlights from the episode:

✨ Being multi-passionate is sexy. It's about pulling all parts of yourself and radiating at a whole new level.

✨ “Not being afraid to define your path and be perfectly imperfect in the process, know what you want and define your desires. How to get comfy in that process.

✨Learning to trust ourselves and rewriting our narratives and stories in a more aligned way and this is a hard process

✨ Income diversification and breaking free from the traditional linear path and also creating income paths and independence. "Being multi-passionate is an F you to capitalism as we know it."

✨ “Find your spiritual practice that makes you feel hot and connected to your power. For me, it's exercise and sweating."

There is amazing advice how to show up when it feels scary and you don’t see your full hotness yet to….how to OWN that and tools to manage the resistance and create the container that fits where you are now.

We celebrate you and your multi passionate self and the bravery of the journey in this episode.

About Sigute

Sigute Zitikyte is a Personal Brand Consultant, Certified Business Coach, and runs a group program called: Multi-Passionate Mastermind for professionals who want to launch their side hustle.She is the author of Multi-Passionate: How to Claim Your Identity and Radiate as a Multi-Passionate in a Linear World.She writes a weekly column, The Friday Newsletter, that helps ambitious professionals find their voice, build a career off the beaten path, and finally embrace their multi-passionate selves.Sigute has worked with world-class companies, including Shopify and Mindvalley. During this time, she started a consulting “side hustle” that quickly turned full-time and allowed her to retire from corporate.

Sigute has consulted for hundreds of online business owners and helped launch and grow multiple 7-figure businesses, including Dharma Coaching Institute and Evercoach by Mindvalley, as well as numerous creative projects for visionaries, including bestselling books and podcasts in the personal transformation space.As a former “secretly ambitious” professional herself, Sigute launched her coaching business during The Great Resignation of 2021 as a way to support the wave of professionals who began building non-traditional careers online. Her mission has grown to help professionals reclaim power over their careers and to begin unleashing their multi-passionate selves through a strong online presence.

Website where you can also sign up for her newsletter and connect to linkedin and instagram https://sigutezitikyte.com

Don't forget to like, share and rate this episode and Hot, Magical and Human! ❤️‍🔥

My first guest is my friend and spicy Libra sister Pearly. We immediately got juicy and dove into amazing topics from kink to community. Make sure to catch the “homework” we provide (there are 3 moment!) and how she makes kitchen witching sexy AF. NOT TO BE MISSED. In this episode, we delve into some seriously juicy topics:

• The societal conditioning that often teaches women to be small and humble.
• Receive their worth and abundance.
• The art of receiving
• Tips for abundance and being able to receive
• Talking about how that women are often pressured to shrink themselves and not take up space, which can result in a "shrink yourself complex."
• Encourage women to challenge these norms and their value
• Dominant personalities who often find themselves in leadership positions.
• The challenges that come with being dominant, such as constantly outputting creative energy and being relied upon by others.
• What it means to shift into submissive dynamics in the bedroom.
• Discussing it as a beautiful realm where they feel safe enough to trust and let go.
• How dominant/submissive dynamics can help dominant personalities find balance and tap into their more feminine side.
• How he dominant role is not limited to a specific gender, but rather an energy that can be embodied by anyone.
• Valuing and appreciating the creative contributions of others and ensuring they are paid their worth
• They emphasize that paying others their worth fosters fairness and supports the well-being of all involved.
• Earning money is not inherently wrong, but it becomes problematic when it is used to perpetuate toxic behaviors like overworking or overpowering others.
• We chat about creating empowering and supportive spaces.
• How to create safe environments for full expression and growth - Pearly talks about her garage sessions

AND MORE! 00:02:00 Embrace receiving and self-love. 00:05:47 Exploring kinks creates safe spaces. 00:15:59 Embrace the power of kink. 00:17:26 Kink is a form of self-expression. 00:22:49 Reclaiming pleasure and self-awareness. 00:30:57 Empowering photo sessions boost confidence. 00:31:56 Hotness is embracing our wholeness. 00:37:10 Women supporting women is essential. 00:42:27 Define your wealth goals with compassion. 00:49:01 Embrace pleasure without shame. 00:56:19 Embrace your authentic magnetism. 00:58:27 Embrace self-love and daily rituals. 01:04:08 Building connections for growth and connection.

You can get in touch with Pearly on her website: https://www.pearly.media

Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/pearly.media/

https://www.instagram.com/pearllyyb/

In this first episode of the Hot, Magical & Human podcast, I explore the concept of "hotness". We look beyond the physical and explore the je ne sais quoi of those magentic beings that own a room when they walk in - by energy alone.

The fashion is a bonus.

I discuss how hotness is an energy that radiates from within and captivates others. Emphasizing the importance of authenticity on that hotness journey and how it’s a quality everyone has within.

This podcast aims to help you connect with your own unique magic and essence.I discuss the importance of healing and peeling back the layers that have built up over the years due to conditioning and societal expectations.

Embracing one's authentic self is crucial for living a fulfilling and purposeful life. I discuss how our heart's desires and purpose are interconnected, and it is what makes us connected to the world. Everyone's version of their purpose may be different, I especially speak to the multidimensional hotties.

I share my own experience of embracing my multidimensionality and bringing all the different aspects of herself together. I talk about how I learned to combine my loves business, travel, event planning while also honouring the shadows. How I initally compartmentalized these different aspects of my life, but I eventually realized that I could integrate them all to create even bigger success and impact than ever!

Tune in to discover the juicy secrets to living your full hotness and embracing your true Self and unique expression and self discovery. It’s not a linear journey and we get to take it together.

[00:00:21] Hotness and presence in rooms.

[00:01:49] Embrace your authentic hotness.

[00:05:56] Shifting from sexy to spiritual.

[00:07:29] Living within your heart.

[00:11:11] Embrace your multidimensional self.

[00:13:08] Living authentically and better orgasms.

[00:14:36] Embracing personal growth and transformation.

[00:15:47] Embrace pleasure and spirituality.