What happens when you've done the healing work, but the same old patterns keep showing up?

In Part 2 of this powerful conversation on Holistic Health with Melissa, Melissa welcomes back Coach Keith, a marriage and relationship coach with 30 years of experience, to explore a frequently overlooked piece of lasting transformation: emotional maturity.

Together, they unpack the first two of five stages of maturity and discuss why receiving love and support can be harder than we realize. They explore how early experiences shape adult relationships, how the brain influences connection, and why understanding your past doesn't always mean you know how to respond differently in the present.

They also share practical ways to create safer, more connected interactions and strengthen relationships without falling into patterns of fixing, rescuing, or treating a spouse like a child.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• What comes after healing and why old patterns don't mean you've failed

• How the first two stages of maturity can influence adult relationships

• Why receiving love, feedback, and support can feel difficult

• How tone, touch, music, and connection can shape difficult conversations

• Why joy and delight matter in healthy relationships

• How parent-child dynamics can develop in marriage

• Why your spouse cannot meet every emotional need and why community matters

• How to offer your partner belief and support instead of immediately trying to fix everything

Healing isn't just about understanding your past. It's about developing the capacity to live differently in the present.

If you're ready to understand yourself and your relationships on a deeper level, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on what lasting growth can look like.

Connect with Coach Keith:
Visit Keith.coach to learn more about his relationship coaching and resources.

Connect with Melissa:
https://holistichealthbymelissa.com

Why can a woman love God, know Scripture, and do all the "right" things yet still feel stuck in survival mode?

In this episode of Holistic Health with Melissa, Melissa sits down with Coach Keith Dorscht, a marriage and relationship coach with 30 years of experience, to explore the powerful connection between faith, the brain, the nervous system, and emotional healing.

Together, they unpack why knowing the truth doesn't always change how a person feels, how past experiences shape relationships and patterns, and why emotional maturity and joy are essential to lasting transformation.

They also explore how the brain and nervous system reflect God's design for relationship, why healing takes more than simply trying harder, and how deeper connection can help people move from disconnection and survival into greater peace, freedom, and joy.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why faith alone doesn't mean the nervous system automatically feels safe

• How past experiences shape present-day patterns and relationships

• The connection between emotional maturity, nervous system regulation, and joy

• Why people can know the truth but still struggle to experience it

• How connection and relationship can support healing and transformation

• How to move beyond survival mode and begin experiencing greater freedom

If you've ever wondered why you're still struggling with something you thought you'd already overcome, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on healing that honors both the brain God created and the faith that anchors you.

Connect with Coach Keith: Visit Keith.coach to learn more about his work and access his resources.

If you're interested in learning more about working with Melissa, you can find information and apply to work with her here: https://holistichealthbymelissa.com/

What if your anxiety, overthinking, and need for control aren't the real problem, but protective patterns you've developed over years of feeling unsafe?

In Part 2 of this special Mind-Body Workshop, Melissa takes you inside a real, unscripted coaching conversation with a woman struggling with health anxiety and constant "what if" thoughts.

What begins as a fear of getting sick quickly reveals something much deeper: a need for control, a fear of the unknown, and experiences from childhood that may have shaped the way her nervous system responds to uncertainty.

Through this conversation, you'll discover how your subconscious beliefs can influence your thoughts, emotions, physical responses, and the patterns that keep you feeling stuck.

Melissa also breaks down the science of your nervous system, why your body can respond to perceived threats even when you're not in immediate danger, and how her Root → Rewire → Restore approach helps women move beyond survival mode.

You'll be invited to look at your own life and ask:

• Where am I trying to control things because I don't feel safe?

• What beliefs might be driving my anxiety, people pleasing, perfectionism, or overthinking?

• What would change if I stopped fighting these patterns and started understanding them?

Healing isn't about becoming someone new. It's about uncovering the woman God created you to be beneath the fear, old beliefs, and survival patterns.

If you're ready to stop simply managing symptoms and start exploring what's underneath them, this episode is for you.

This is Part 2 of the Mind-Body Healing Workshop series. Listen to Part 1, "The Beliefs Keeping You Sick & Stuck," to hear Melissa's personal healing story and explore how identity and beliefs shape your health and your life.

If you're ready to next the step with coaching, explore the options here: https://holistichealthbymelissa.com
Apply for Freedom 1:1 here: https://holistichealthbymelissa.com/clarity-call-form

What if one of the biggest things keeping you stuck isn't something happening around you, but something you've been believing about yourself for years?

In Part 1 of this special Mind-Body Healing Workshop, Melissa explores the connection between your identity, your thoughts, your nervous system, and your physical and emotional health.

But this episode is also deeply personal.

Melissa shares more of her own story, from growing up in chaos and experiencing significant trauma, to struggling with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, and physical symptoms, and eventually reaching a point where she knew there had to be another way.

You'll explore how beliefs like I'm not worthy, I'm not safe, I'm too much, or I have to perform to be loved can quietly shape the way you think, feel, respond, and move through the world.

And you'll be invited to ask yourself one powerful question:

What is one belief you hold about who you are that keeps you from fully living the life you were created for?

This isn't about blaming yourself for your symptoms or pretending you can simply "think positive" and heal. It's about becoming aware of what's happening beneath the surface, learning to reconnect with your body, renewing your mind, and beginning to align your identity with what God says is true.

In Part 2, you'll hear Melissa coach a woman in real time as they uncover what's underneath her health anxiety and constant "what if" thoughts, moving from the surface-level fear to the deeper belief her nervous system has been responding to for years.

Interested in working with Melissa? See the options here: https://holistichealthbymelissa.com
The next cohort of The Freedom Collective starts next week.

What if the hardest parts of your story aren't the end of your story?

In this episode of Holistic Health with Melissa, Melissa sits down with entrepreneur, bestselling author, speaker, and founder of Cali'flour Foods and the first cauliflower pizza crust to hit the market, Amy Lacey for an incredibly vulnerable conversation about trauma, chronic illness, faith, forgiveness, and what can happen when you surrender the parts of your life that don't make sense to God.

Amy shares how childhood trauma, sexual assault, and years of buried pain eventually became intertwined with her physical health. After being diagnosed with lupus and Sjögren's syndrome and reaching one of the darkest points of her life, she began searching for another way forward.

That journey eventually led her to create Cali'flour Foods, pioneer the cauliflower pizza crust category, build a multimillion-dollar company, and ultimately sell the business. But success didn't mean the end of hardship.

Amy opens up about losing the company she built, becoming sick again, finally facing the trauma she had buried for decades, and discovering the healing power of therapy, forgiveness, neuroplasticity, and faith. She also shares about walking through tremendous loss and betrayal in more recent years and how surrendering to God has given her peace even when she couldn't see how the story would unfold.

Together, Melissa and Amy talk about the connection between unresolved trauma and the body, why forgiveness doesn't mean excusing what happened, and how some of the moments that feel like rejection or devastation can become unexpected redirection.

This conversation is a beautiful reminder that your pain is not wasted, your current circumstances are not the end of your story, and even when you can't see what God is doing yet, He may be working in ways you never could have imagined.

To learn more about ways to work with Melissa: https://holistichealthbymelissa.com

To connect with Amy: https://www.instagram.com/heyamylacey/
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The new mRNA flu vaccine is here. But what does the research actually tell us about its safety and effectiveness?

In this episode of Holistic Health with Melissa, Melissa is joined once again by certified Physician Assistant Katie Collins to dig into the research behind the new mRNA influenza vaccine and explore what true informed consent should look like.

Together, Melissa and Katie break down the difference between traditional and mRNA vaccines, what researchers actually measured in the clinical trials, and why understanding the way statistics are presented matters when making medical decisions.

In this episode, they discuss:

• How mRNA vaccines differ from traditional flu vaccines
• Relative risk vs. absolute risk and why the difference matters
• What the clinical trials reported about effectiveness, hospitalizations, side effects, and deaths
• What it means when a vaccine is compared with another vaccine rather than a placebo
• Questions surrounding research funding and conflicts of interest
• The difference between regulatory approval and the questions patients may still want answered
• Why reading beyond the abstract and conclusion of a study matters
• How to ask better questions when making healthcare decisions for yourself and your family

This conversation isn't about telling listeners what medical decision to make. It's about encouraging people to ask questions, understand the research, look beyond the headlines, and make truly informed decisions for themselves and their families.

Because informed consent isn't simply being told that something is "safe and effective." It's understanding the potential risks, benefits, alternatives, and limitations of the evidence and having the freedom to decide what is right for you.

Disclaimer: This episode is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended to provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always discuss individual healthcare decisions with a qualified healthcare professional.

If you are interested in getting support and coaching from Melissa, please reach out at: https://holistichealthbymelissa.com/clarity-call-form

If you want to connect with Katie, you can find her here: https://www.instagram.com/katiec.pac/

Fluzone insert: https://www.fda.gov/media/170019/download

Mflusiva: https://www.fda.gov/media/194120/download?attachment

Robert Malone's substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/rwmalonemd/p/modernas-mrna-flu-shot?r=2erzw&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

What if the hardest part of healing isn't the grief, the triggers, or even the pain you're processing?

What if it's realizing that the version of you who survived your past can't come with you into your future?

In this solo episode, Melissa talks about the identity shift that happens in the messy middle of healing, when old beliefs, coping mechanisms, relationships, and ways of seeing yourself no longer fit.

She also shares what her recent viral reels have revealed about her own healing, visibility, rejection, and the beliefs that still get challenged along the way.

If you're in a season where you don't quite recognize yourself anymore, this episode is for you.

And if you're ready to understand the deeper connection between your mind, body, nervous system, and healing, come join me for my Mind-Body Workshop on September 28.

https://holistichealthbymelissa.com/mindbodyhealingworkshop

Not every uncomfortable feeling means something is wrong. Sometimes it means you're growing.

This week, Melissa is joined by Jamie Javed, a former ER and trauma nurse turned founder of the Weightless Woman movement, and one of Melissa's own coaches and closest friends. The conversation grew out of something Jamie posted on Instagram that Melissa couldn't stop thinking about: the moment nervous system regulation quietly turns into another form of avoidance.

Together, they dig into a distinction most women have never been taught. Trauma activation and identity expansion can feel almost identical in the body, the same racing heart, the same tight stomach, the same pull to retreat. But one is asking you to regulate and find safety. The other is asking you to stay and keep going. Jamie shares how she learned to tell the two apart in her own life, including the decision to walk away from a ten-year marriage, and how that same discernment shows up in her work helping women pursue lasting weight loss without losing themselves in the process.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why breathwork, journaling, and other regulation tools can sometimes become a way to avoid the action that actually creates change
• How to tell whether a feeling is trauma asking for safety, or growth asking you to expand
• What it means to become "unavailable" for an old identity so something new has room to arrive
• Why the supplements, the diets, the routines aren't the fix

If this conversation stirs something in you, Melissa would love to walk alongside you. Her Freedom Collective is a six-month 1:1 coaching container with a community element that blends nervous system work, mindset, and Christ-centered identity healing, because you were never meant to do this alone. Schedule a Clarity Call to see if it's the right fit.

To connect with Jamie, find her on Instagram at @iamjamiecatherine.